My husband is deployed and has been through this entire situation. We got in a huge fight, he wanted a divorce. I said fine, whatever, and he finds himself a gf online. Now, they have never met because he's still out there, and now 4 months later he wants to get back together. Well, he has told her a few times as nice as he can that she needs to go away, and she doesn't get it. She still emails him, says how much she's so in love with him, how they are meant to be blah blah, she's basically psycho. So, we've resorted to ignoring her instead of telling her to go away every time she contacts us. She still does not seem to get the flippin hint. Anything else we can do?
2007-09-23 03:15:29 · 14 answers · asked by burnt_crawfish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, sorry I shouldn't have left that out, she has been blocked then she uses some one else's email addy.
2007-09-23 03:24:35 · update #1
Heh, he actually looked for a gf in her area because that's where he's getting stationed in a few months. Since this has happened, we are going to live on base so she can't just show up outta nowhere. She has it in her head that she's going to raise my kids. I kinda wish that she would show up just to me, alone, one day so me and her could go at it.
2007-09-23 03:28:56 · update #2
No I have seen the message history from him trying to get rid of her and she and I have gone a few rounds too.
2007-09-23 03:29:56 · update #3
excuse me i never said i wasn't blaming him, that wasn't the question anyway. stop being so ******* self rightous.
2007-09-23 11:31:20 · update #4
Why stress over e-mails ?
Let her WANT him...shes not going to get him, right ?
Keep ignoreing her...she will move on.
Dont let het dictate your life by changing e-mail and other things.
2007-09-23 04:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 03:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to give her a fake address of some old vacant house where no one lives or something. Hide somewhere on the side or something. When she walks up to see him, come out and beat the hell out her. She doesnt pay attention to emails or anything, the hand will set her straight.
2007-09-23 03:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by ShezFly2 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Congratulations! You are now a threesome (a disfunctional couple with its own psycho).
Accept the situation, or make plans as a couple to sacrifice whatever is necessary (email handle, home and hometown, change your legal names, etc. ) to escape with some sense of continuity to your lifestyle.
2007-09-23 03:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Happy Camper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Frankly I'd get rid of the husband...that will take care of both "problems". Your husband is as much at fault as she is, since he CHOSE to go looking elsewhere, you are placing total blame on the wrong person. You married a cheater.
2007-09-23 10:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Change email, phone numbers and everything.
Get the wench gone.
2007-09-23 04:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh goody another bunny boiler! Just ignore her. I'd personally stop checking that email and get another.
2007-09-23 03:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send a bunch of huge e-mails into his e-mail account and fill it up. Then anything she sends him will bounce back to her. I hope he hasn't told her where you live or anything about you or his family if she is psycho. You better ask him about that.
2007-09-23 03:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
How about changing you e-mail address?
2007-09-23 03:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe you should have a heart to heart with her. tell her how bad you will kick her a$$ if she doesnt leave him alone. are you for sure he has tried to get rid of her? he isnt just saying that, is he?
2007-09-23 03:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋