A female coworker asked me to go to dinner with her and a group of friends from work, I told her that I might be able to go but wasn't sure because I had other plans. When I told her I couldn't go, her facial expressions indicated that she was very disappointed that I wasn't able to go. Then ignored me for the rest of the day. How should i take this, I told her that I already had plans and there was only a chance that I could go. Should I apologize. I am a dude by the way
2007-09-23 03:08:30 · 6 answers · asked by mama a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe she is in to you , Likes you as a potential boyfriend and she feels like you rejected her or that you didn't like her like that and now she feels like a fool. You need to compliment her next time you see her so she doesn't feel rejected. =)
2007-09-23 03:13:19 · answer #1 · answered by Gypzee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just ask how the dinner went and let her know that you'd love to go next time if you are available. But to apologize after already informing her that you had other plans doesn't appear to make any sense to me. If she is that juvenile to ignore you just because you can't make it out one evening is not a good sign.
2007-09-23 10:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel bad at all. When she asked you out to dinner, you clearly stated that you may not be able to join due to other plans. She maybe mad at you for the moment or the day but she'll get over it. She was just hoping that you would say yes and that's it. But what she fails to realize that you may already have plans. She just block that portion out of her thinking.
2007-09-23 10:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by redhotchillidawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you told her that you might not be able to go and you let her know before the event. It's not like you just didn't show up.
You might mention that you would have preferred to go with the work group instead of your other planned evening and see how she takes it.
She had no reason to ignore you.
2007-09-23 10:12:34 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say sorry and mabye to be nice ask her out to dinner or lunch just as buddies unless you are in to her then ask her on a real date, and if you don't feel comfortable with that take a lot of people to lunch or dinner as long as it's not expencive
2007-09-23 10:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldent apolgise since you told her you didint know if you could make it since you already had plans.
2007-09-23 10:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by thelongestday41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋