Family & Relationships - 18 September 2007

2007-09-18 03:34:05 · 35 answers · asked by asha b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean the kind you get when you first start to fall for someone?

2007-09-18 03:32:31 · 21 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't know if a am a lesbian, but I have feelings for one of my friends.

I have known this girl for 3 jears and we have growen close. I don't have eny brothers or sisters so can this be the problem. I have not jet kissde her but ther have been a feew close calls. We get along gr8, but is this just a sister relationship??????????

HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-18 03:32:29 · 12 answers · asked by Jakwalien 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know what to do to stop it happening again. I wasn't on for it but after a while I gave in and kissed so as not to make a scene and embarrass her. I need the other student's support and it could [almost certainly] make things harder and turn the girl aganst me if I turned her down flat. I don't need the other students ostracising me...... I did say no [gently but consistently] when she slipped the hand but how does one avoid this happening again?...... It's only once but she said that she's felt this way for a long time and if you could have felt the pent up need in her then you'd know that she's serious. Drunk, but serious.

2007-09-18 03:31:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was in the bathroom and my girlfriend had to pee. She went while I was in the bathroom. Right in front of me. It was beautiful. lol I can't explain it. Just to see her doing such an intimate thing with me right there in the very same room. It was hot. Is it wrong to get turned on by this?

2007-09-18 03:30:38 · 33 answers · asked by Mark_Magnetic 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my husband for 6 years, through good and bad and some down right terrible times. he can be a moody person sometimes and i am a quiet person so he can bully me abit or critisise the way i do things. sometimes we get on good and then suddenly it takes a nose dive and war breaks out. i have made mistakes such as texting another man, but at the time my home life was awful. we got through it and then he did the same to me. again we got through that (we have never slept with anyone else)

we moved 250 miles away to have a new life together but then on thursday we went out and at the end of the night a man i didnt know spoke to me for 2 minutes. my husband went mental and that night he pushed me around and gripped my arms so tight i have bruises on my neck and arms.

what should i do? did i casue this by talking to this man for 2 minutes whilst waiting to go home? should i leave? i have put my heart and soul into my marriage and now i have bruises. should i leave

2007-09-18 03:29:39 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had to walk away frm her because she was such a drain on me even as a friend but I know she needs me, though she is so out of control I fear her mothers death will push her over the edge but I dont want to push myself over in the process. What are safe boundaries or should I just not be there at all? Thanks

2007-09-18 03:25:47 · 6 answers · asked by rubygarnetglow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-18 03:25:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend from college says that whenever i am around her, i spark a flame in her soul and she lusts for me. But the only problem is that she has bf. I mean i want to get naughty with her but at what expense...I don't want her to cheat on her bf. And i doubt if she will break up with him for me...So how do i make is less weird when we see or hang out with each other, because there is alot of sexual tension there. But she is still a virgin too so what does she know about lust. Help i need answeres, i need yahoo answers

2007-09-18 03:25:24 · 6 answers · asked by malcom1000 2 in Singles & Dating

Alright so it was last week when we had our PE class. After that class when we were changing our clothes this girl(my classmate) just walked in and just passed by some of us mostly naked. The next day she sat beside me and I could have swore to have heard her saying "SEX" to my ears in such a manner that was very sexual. I mean what the!!! I admit I had an erection but Im not interested in her. Im inlove with someone else someone smarter, nicer and more religious than she is. But you know Im a virgin and to have someone as hot as that nut coming to you for sex its really tempting. Even today she continues but I dont tell her to stop. Could I be possibly liking this? I want to tell her to just stop but the whole class kinda thinks were you know TOGETHER coz she would always make it appear that we are. I dont want to be viewed badly by anyone and I know that if I told her to stop she would be up to something. I need help desperately. What to do? How do I make her want someone else?

2007-09-18 03:25:06 · 25 answers · asked by lobervoy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 03:24:25 · 7 answers · asked by doyouhaveshortarms 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance's childhood pastor (who is also the mother of a longtime friend) will be marrying us next month. We are meeting with her this evening to go over ceremony details. There has been no mention of her fee. Would it be impolite of me to simply ask her what her fee is for the ceremony, or should I wait until she says something to us? Also, do you generally tip a pastor? Thanks in advance for the advice!

2007-09-18 03:24:15 · 9 answers · asked by kdkmilwaukee 1 in Weddings

I just quit smoking at I know that it's not because of any frustrations that go with that because the way I have been feeling has only gotten worse. Before when I still smoked, I lit a cigg. whenever I got mad or irritated, now I just have t deal with whatever,which is fine btw.
Now,I have MANY times clearly explained to him what I need from him.Andit's like in ine ear and out the other, does no good. I sometimes wonder if the real problem isn't that we're too much alike.Idk. He owns a construction bisness and with that comes alot of stress.Ok, fine but when I continuously have the feling of always having my boss around instead of my boyfriend,unless of corse he want some you know, I feel crapy like what am I doing here. Another thing is that he's still dealling with his ex-wife who won't let him see the kids and they are in court again soon.he is always stressed and nasty and miserable,never can relax and be nice or happy. he says he is all these things,not true. I wanna leave,help!

2007-09-18 03:24:13 · 7 answers · asked by ANGELA B 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex girlfriend cheated on me and dumped me for another guy - even though I came back from another country to be with her and was living with her godparents. This happened in March but I feel really lost still, I miss her and I feel like I cannot trust anyone else for fear they may hurt me too (even friends I have known for years). I feel like my "mojo" is gone and I cannot seem to break out of my shell and meet a new girl. My confidence and trust seems to have taken a knock. I am starting to panic that I will never have a wife and kids - which is something I want to be at least working towards so much right now. I feel like I am getting old at 26 and I have noticed a lot of my friends are starting to get hitched. I think my parents want me to settle down too which is adding additional pressure. How do I ever get out of this rut? Should I leave England and go back to Canada? HELP

2007-09-18 03:23:08 · 14 answers · asked by Becker 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-18 03:21:29 · 19 answers · asked by Lance S 1 in Singles & Dating

It been 2 weeks sense my wife and I have had sex. last weekend was my birthday. Sex has been 3 time a weeks and she seemed interested but i have the higher sex drive. She said she not interested in sex at all. Nothing. I asked her if it was me or if she doesn't desire me anymore or doesn't love me. she says she doesn't bust does not have the interest for sex. SHe said she she has been trying but she cant. She promised me for my birthday she would and she always pushed me me away when i was in the mood. It wasn't rushed either we went out had a romantic time everyday all weekend and nothing. I don't know what to do. But sex has been less but not it has stopped. I feel hurt and lost that my wife doest want me. She said she does nothing in terms of sex. She has to go to the doctor for new birth pill. I dont killed her sex drive but she been on then for 2 years. we been married for 6 months. She been reluctant set an appointment.Additional Details
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she is 21 and im 22. have n kids and she doesnt work.
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I haven't really been pushing her. she said birthday weekend we would make love have romantic time. I took her dinner then went dancing gosh we had really good time. when we got home and i close she would push me away then she told she wasnt interested in sex anymore
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she was the the one who broke my virginity. When we were engaged and first married we had sex 3 times a day. She want try all the positions. we talk abou how old we be still make love. All that is gone. I just feel lost how she opened me up now she is closed.
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Well I tired talking to her and she got very angry on the phone. When i got home she would not talk to me. SO i took her a message place for hour and half and really cheered her up and took her to dinner. I was really tired when i got home. So i went to bed and she woke me up was sitting on me naked and started making out with me and rubbing her self on me. When i started she said no and laid next with her back to me. I tired talking to her again she told me she bored with her life and need something to do. But she says she wont go out with out me, has not tried to work or making friends. Then she started to cry and said everything ok and she say go away to me she smashed her pillow on her face trying to suffocate her self and I stopped her and she said she didnt love me and we both cried and finally she said she wasnt good enough for me which i told her she is and that i love her. Now she does says she does love me. Last night we talked simple talk

2007-09-18 03:21:00 · 20 answers · asked by Nordic god 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy i fell in love with we met and we became boyfriend and girlfriend.... But, we broke up on weds. of last week... Because his pastor who pays him to travel with there evangalistical team doesn't want us together because he is white and iam black.So, he said we can't be together cause he wants to do what his pastor says because his pastor feeds him and helps him go to africa and promises to set him up with a huge church which he won't have to pay for cause his pastor has a lot of money....So, basically he wants to get set up...So the past few days i haven't called him its been about 5 days since i spoke to him... and he hasn't even tried to call me... Should i call him are should i just leave him alone... And do you think he will get set up and have everything he wants big church and all? Please answer Quickly thanks

2007-09-18 03:20:18 · 6 answers · asked by nikkiblue 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-18 03:18:42 · 4 answers · asked by Jovita N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have twin 13 year old step daughters and for the past couple of years one of them has stopped coming around (except for Christmas and her birthday). I have always picked them (lately just one of them) up from school twice every week, but the other day the one that doesn't come over any more called and told her dad that if he wanted to see her then he would have to pick her up from school because it is his job. My husband did not take that little demand very well and told me he was not going to let a 13 year old child tell him what to do. My question is...should we back down and give her what she wants?
Alot of what has gone on is due to the mother. She has been jealouse of my relationship with the girls, they use to say they want to look like me and live with us...but now one of them can't stand to be around us and has asked her dad if he would let her stepdad adopt her, of coarse he told her no.

2007-09-18 03:18:42 · 9 answers · asked by Alliance Kicks Horde Butt 5 in Family

because i want to dedicate it to some one

2007-09-18 03:17:31 · 11 answers · asked by {<3} Cookie 1 in Friends

I need help desperately.I'm 17,and I go to college;and I have a friend who used to be nice and friendly to me but he's changed... He's now ignoring me and whenever I try to help him he just dismisses and critisizes me.Please help!

2007-09-18 03:15:59 · 26 answers · asked by Zalaraxium 2 in Friends

I've seen lots of couples that start out in hgschool or in college or in some educational institution including even ESL international students in ESL classes.

And even if they don't get their life partner there, they get some practice . Ok but then there's , i imagine, cause this is the world i live in, people like me who never had anything in highschool or college and even now at age 27 have nothing and nothing to look forward to. in work there's no women also so i never even have chances to meet women.

So as a male, can there be some truth in the fact that if you didn't develop dating skills or social skills in schools or early in life, then it is very very hard to get any relationship ?
Even if i start taking some night classes or join a club or something , i know i would not have anything. i joined stuff before like dance lessons and i never even got into conversations with women, while many others would start talking to women after class or something.

2007-09-18 03:15:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf and i have been together for the last 4yrs.I want him to marry me but he has never proposed.our sex is so perfect but he keeps telling me that he is not ready to settle down yet.is he using me?will he marry me?why hasnt he proposed to me yet?

2007-09-18 03:07:28 · 7 answers · asked by lynn 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I didn't get many useful answers when I asked this last night so I thought maybe I'd have better luck today. I really need some good advice instead of putdowns. My sister has been supporting me since I moved out of our parents' house and I've wanted to help out. She works as a dancer at a strip club and I wanted to work with her but even though I've been declared an emancipated adult and have my GED they wouldn't hire me because I'm only 15. My sister and I look almost identical so I used her ID and got a job at another club where I've been dancing for the last few weeks. My sister just found out and now she's really angry with me. She's not even talking to me. I just wanted to help out with money and I can't get a regular job that pays well. She wants me to go to college eventually and I do too but we need money for that. I don't understand why she's so angry. What can I do to get her to talk to me?

2007-09-18 03:06:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-18 03:02:10 · 28 answers · asked by DAY-DAY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-18 02:58:29 · 18 answers · asked by diana o 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a reggaeton spanish singer and my manager just told me that it won't be a good idea for my wife to go to the shows because she doesn't want my wife to get mad if she see another woman grabbing or my dancer making dancing move on me. Plus I have to tae out my married ring off just to make my fans beleive that I'm single. I don't know wath to do. For my part I think she should go the the shows and she should stay backstage while I perform then after we could go home.

2007-09-18 02:54:57 · 27 answers · asked by Bucanero 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you justify their actions at all?

2007-09-18 02:53:04 · 41 answers · asked by Somewhere in Time 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't gotten to do it in weeks. I am getting really frustrated because I really enjoy it. There is nothing wrong down there, it is the right time and she is healthy. I asked. Everytime I make the move she stops me. I know she is not cheating or anything like that. What is wrong?

2007-09-18 02:53:03 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean when you fight or you are mad at him... do you use this threat as the most powerful weapon? How he reacts?

2007-09-18 02:48:57 · 23 answers · asked by Somewhere in Time 3 in Marriage & Divorce