There is this guy i fell in love with we met and we became boyfriend and girlfriend.... But, we broke up on weds. of last week... Because his pastor who pays him to travel with there evangalistical team doesn't want us together because he is white and iam black.So, he said we can't be together cause he wants to do what his pastor says because his pastor feeds him and helps him go to africa and promises to set him up with a huge church which he won't have to pay for cause his pastor has a lot of money....So, basically he wants to get set up...So the past few days i haven't called him its been about 5 days since i spoke to him... and he hasn't even tried to call me... Should i call him are should i just leave him alone... And do you think he will get set up and have everything he wants big church and all? Please answer Quickly thanks
2007-09-18 03:20:18 · 6 answers · asked by nikkiblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It sounds to me like your ex-boyfriend is trying to gain material things, money, prestigue and power.
This is not what you want is a man. Be thankful that this person is out of your life.
2007-09-18 03:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but he's made his choice. Just what kind of "church" does he belong too ? Not knowing the entire situation, it seems as though there may be more to the story. Could he be involved with someone else ? Either way...move on ! Seems like a hypocrite...it's OK to minister to Africans, but not to date a Black woman ??? Good Luck
2007-09-18 10:36:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure thats it, some pastor...well IMO opinion religion can mess up a lot of relationships. But it dont seem like it would work out between you two if he isnt trying to contact you.
2007-09-18 10:28:26 · answer #3 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's done. Let it go. It will do you no good to continue to call him.
The pastor may have said something to him, maybe not, but this guy made the decision. It's on him.
You are not his priority. He should not be yours.
2007-09-18 10:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't let somebody's interracial discrimination get in the way of your love for somebody. Your skin may be a different color but your hearts aren't. Good luck, and if it just doesn't work out then there are always better people out there =]
2007-09-18 11:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by larkaloo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth it! If he wanted to be with you he wouldn't care about what his pastor is saying.
If he obviously cares more about his job and getting a church then he's not the one for you.
Hope all goes well :)
2007-09-18 10:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by shiv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋