Family & Relationships - 18 September 2007

We were shunned by our entire families. Now they want our help. Should we help those who didn't help us?

2007-09-18 07:32:24 · 25 answers · asked by fanny gardener 3 in Family

Last night i heard noises from my parents bedroom so I went to investigate and I heard my dad telling my mom "im pulling out" and my mom said " NO, wait im coming too". I think they are leaving. what should I do???

2007-09-18 07:32:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so my mom works in arizona mon-thurs and we live in california she comes home on the weekends and is in the worst mood ever and takes it out on me i understand that she is stressed out but she has been like this for months and i hate being around her she always yelling and im getting grounded over the smallest things
in may she kicked me out then called the cops and reported me missing and she gave the cops this sob story so i had to come back home well yesterday we got in a fight and she told me she effin hates me and doesnt want me in her house i wanna leave but whenever i do she calls the cops on me i dont kno what to do
whenever im around her im depressed and spend most the day crying we have never gotten along in all my high school years im a senior this year but i wanna enjoy it i have been grounded this whole month just for telling her how i feel but she took that as me talking back
i live with my step dad when she is at work and he enforces her rules while she is gone

2007-09-18 07:31:04 · 12 answers · asked by Ashleigh 2 in Family

i cant wear any jewlery in my ears unless its white gold yellow gold or gold gold or platnium..and i want to get my bellybutton pierced does the same thing apply or can i wear any kind or bar i want???
[ladies with experience wud help the best]

2007-09-18 07:26:28 · 5 answers · asked by Savannah C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents and I are having a quite large argument about my husband whom I married last year. He and my parents had the normal relationship until last month when Adam (my husband) had like 5 beers in this bar where my best friend had her 23 birthday party. Now they are saying he's an alcoholic and that I need to leave him for my own safety and also that I don't know what I'm talking about when I say he's fine and nothings wrong cause I'm only 22. He almost always only has like a beer or maybe two but this one time he had a few more and my parents flipped out. Now on top of that I found out I was pregnant 2 weeks ago and if I tell them they're going to say the baby's in danger and all that stuff. Adam even went over there and apoligized if he made them uncomfertable and my parents went crazy and started screaming at him and my dad actually punched him. This has happened once with a boyfriend, but not like this, I'm totally loosing my mind, what should I do, please help? Thanks.

2007-09-18 07:26:22 · 7 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Family

2007-09-18 07:25:51 · 17 answers · asked by live forever 1 in Weddings

he had a wife @ hong kong, he's going back to hong kong to accompany his wife but we still wking at the same place n close but he say " btw i cant give you any commitment, we are partner, right." what does he mean??

2007-09-18 07:25:39 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My sister and I have not spoken in about two years. My husband and I had major problems, he was cheating, abusive, smoking marijuana, but had stopped all of those things. I used to talk to my sister for years as she was more that a sister, a good friend about my problems with him, and any other issues I had. My husband and I had separated then got back together and he had totally cleaned up his act. When we got back together and weren't having any problems, my sister then called the department of children and families and made up a 100% lie stating my husband threw a chair at me and was doing drugs. He took a drug test and passed, however we went through a 1-1/2 year battle with DCF including having to go to counseling, having our child taken away for two days (she was given back to us because the charges were false), it has just been a nightmare. We recently moved about 45 minutes away from her and I am wondering if I should call her. She still admits no wrong doing in this?

2007-09-18 07:23:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we r getting engaged on this saturday. when should i start looking for a dress. and start planning?

2007-09-18 07:22:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay my boyfriend or whatever is like we should take a break and we've been going out for like 4 MONTHS and he said he wants to take a break because we haven't seen each other for like 3 weeks so he said that he didn't want to cheat on me while he was still dating me just wanted to take a break and be friends for awhile and if things work out we could get back together and if things changed......anybody have any advice on this I mean I know he'll find somebody else but that leaves me with nobody but sometimes that's okay...but I know hes deff more flirtacious when were not together it's like he needs that attention whether it's from me or other girls....especially when were not hanging out........ADVICE PLEASE!!!

2007-09-18 07:21:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 07:17:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-09-18 07:16:17 · 25 answers · asked by christina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-18 07:15:12 · 35 answers · asked by gram 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Not to say that you can't exist without them but your life is so much better with them in it. You can't imagine what your life would be like without them. Granted there are times in your life when you can't stand them but that's what makes the good times great. I hope I find that kind of love someday and find someone who feels that way about me.

2007-09-18 07:13:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend sometimes supposedly orgasms after 10 mins of sex and says she gets tired or it gets sensitive down there so she makes me stop. sometimes she'll let me put it back in and finish or other times she'll tell me to finish already. is she really having an orgasm? i thought girls can have multiple orgasms? do orgasms really make girls tired or sensitive or is that just an excuse for me to stop? i dont know if im doing somethign wrong

2007-09-18 07:12:50 · 10 answers · asked by Tom S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 07:09:45 · 16 answers · asked by nice man 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Both of us are married, to our respective spouses, of course. We find each other hot. He says there's nothing wrong in his marriage, except the sex which occurs once in 2 or 3 months, since the day he got married, 3 years ago. We sent very sexual messages to each other and did have sex. It was supposed to be one time only. It wasn't so great, but I can't seem to get him off my mind. Its like an addiction. No idea what he feels, though he did start feeling guilty after the act. Actually backed off 3 times during the making out stage, but it was so easy to lure him. We are not in love and for me it seems more like the thrill of it. For him, I know it was one of his best times. Will he come back to me or will guilt make him stay with his frigid wife?

2007-09-18 07:06:48 · 25 answers · asked by Raashmi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it seems that she wants to fight with me and the sad thing is that my dad always takes her side i have been mellow all this time! what should i do?

2007-09-18 07:06:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok, i studied haaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrd for a Social Studies test. On the night of the test i even stayed up till 12pm. then i got up at 4am to keep studying. Well i had to get an A because i had a 70% in that class as in average [ dont ask]
I thought i did awesome on the test, and i got it back and it was a 72!
My mom says she gonna take my phone away and i cant get on the computer anymore. I checked my grades and I have a 73% average, so my average went UP even though i did bad. She still says im grounded, and my crush wants me o come to his football game this friday. What do I do!? What can I say to her? And do u think this is fair?

2007-09-18 07:06:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he is 46 years old and thinking of marriage.
ido not wish to give him divorce for playing with my life like this.i wish to stay in marriage n also win him back gradually.what steps should i take?is it just plain friendship with that female or sex also? it is so unbelievable to think that he can have sex with another woman when hside by side he was screwing me up so that i do not suspect him(woman instinct)

2007-09-18 07:00:43 · 50 answers · asked by christina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im black french speaking. i work in media. Got my two bedroom flat

2007-09-18 06:58:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Everytime my cousin gets around my grandmother she talks about the jewelry she is wearing and how she is going to get it when my grandmother is dead! She says it right in front of her and she always talks about how there will be a fight because her mother wants everything when she passes! Is that not sick or what! If you saw my last question, these are some of the family members I have nothing to do with anymore.

2007-09-18 06:58:14 · 9 answers · asked by Samantha 5 in Family

I have, I think in certain situations it's in your best interest. These people were judgemental and spread lies about me and my mother. With family like that, who needs em! The funny thing about it is, I feel so much better now that I don't have anything to do with them anymore! I am a much happier person now.

2007-09-18 06:54:07 · 30 answers · asked by Samantha 5 in Family

my sons (now 5wks old) father was "not interested" in my pregnancy words from his mouth.....so at 6 months i told him just to leave us alone...he hasn't called since..which is a good thing...but i left the fathers info on his birth certificate blank and gave him my last name....not his....i don't think he deserves it.....he hasn't even called to see when he was born and if he is ok...what do ya'll think .

2007-09-18 06:53:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do you mind it?

2007-09-18 06:53:22 · 16 answers · asked by Signilda 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Can you sue them? The married enjoy dating too

2007-09-18 06:53:19 · 18 answers · asked by KatGotHerTongue 3 in Marriage & Divorce

whenever a guy or a girl says he/she is a virgin, people start laugh at him/her. i just wonder what so funny about being a virgin.

2007-09-18 06:49:29 · 5 answers · asked by ۞_ʞɾ_۝ 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 06:43:05 · 16 answers · asked by blueeyed_chic_07 1 in Singles & Dating

Where did you grow up?


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2007-09-18 06:42:44 · 28 answers · asked by Moon :) 7 in Friends

ex bf still has my favorite hoodie! i gave him all of his things back and realized he still has my hoodie! ive tried to call him and text him and tell him but ive gotten no answer back... how do i get it back?

2007-09-18 06:41:25 · 21 answers · asked by hannah 1 in Singles & Dating