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my girlfriend sometimes supposedly orgasms after 10 mins of sex and says she gets tired or it gets sensitive down there so she makes me stop. sometimes she'll let me put it back in and finish or other times she'll tell me to finish already. is she really having an orgasm? i thought girls can have multiple orgasms? do orgasms really make girls tired or sensitive or is that just an excuse for me to stop? i dont know if im doing somethign wrong

2007-09-18 07:12:50 · 10 answers · asked by Tom S 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Yes! From my experience women do become sensitive after orgasms. I know for a fact they are very sensitive if you are stimulating the clitoris during sex. Yes! Women can have multiple orgasms (personal experience). And just like us, women lose energy after orgasms.

However, I am not sure what you are doing. It seems as if your girl doesn't want to have sex with you and she is only doing so because she feels obligated. Or maybe there is another reason.

You need to talk to her and find out what you are or aren't doing. Have her show you or tell you what she likes.

Good luck Bro!

2007-09-18 07:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She may really get tired or she's just selfish..i dont see how 10 minutes would make it sensitive and yes a lot of girls can have multiples. Tell her how you feel but dont be mean.

2007-09-18 15:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by must<3dogs 3 · 0 0

it is a possibility that girlfriend is very sensitive after an orgasm. if this really is the case she may not want to. i suggest doing doggie after or missionary but going in as deep.

if you feel like your being cheated out of your fun, mention it to her. tell her that your glad that she enjoyed it and would she mind if you finish. if continuing sex is that much of an issue, see if she'll do oral.

2007-09-18 14:23:50 · answer #3 · answered by celestial316 4 · 0 0

Yes we can have multiples. It really does depend on the woman though. It is possible that she is sensitive afterwords, but that doesn't mean she should stop you from getting yours. IMO sex is something where both partners should be pleased. You keep going until both people are satisfied.

2007-09-18 14:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by gorgeous 4 · 0 0

Every woman is different..but yes women can have multiple orgams..but having sex could actually be making her tired. I don't know if it is an excuse or not since I don't know her.

I can tell you from my experience..until I started dating my current boyfriend I was similar to that. I don't know what it is that is different about my boyfriend right now but whatever it is it works for both us!

2007-09-18 14:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by *~*love always*~* 6 · 1 0

yeah. i think the multiple orgasm is a myth. or at least it dusnt sound feasable to me cos im waaaaay 2 sensitive after. but it dusnt matter, how she deals with it sounds mega selfish. mb if you keep reachin 'almost climax' and then laying off a bit and then doing it agen? or having breaks from her 'area' lol, if she was realy botherd shed pleasure u after shes orgasmd. ie oral or sumthin.

either way it sounds like ur sex life is 2 concentrated on her pleasure. ther is a chiche of this situation, but with the man being the selfish lover. ul hav 2 use the same solution wich is concentrate mor on u and les on her.

or mb shes faking, ie deeper issues.

2007-09-18 14:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by bojanglestothemax 6 · 0 1

Your girlfriend is selfish!!! She is not interested in pleasing you, only herself. She should be glad you can even make her have a Orgasm. Some men don't have a clue. You should re think if you want to be with someone who isn't interested in you reaching your orgasm. What else will she be selfish about?

2007-09-18 14:27:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

could be anything, but sounds selfish to me
some women can have multiple orgasms, some cant
sometimes it makes us overly sensitive there...
but maybe you arent using a technique she likes
talk to her

2007-09-18 14:22:02 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0 1

i dont know what her problem is, i always make sure my man is taken care of no matter what i have to do to make it happen

2007-09-18 14:22:46 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal 1 · 0 1

not to sure.

2007-09-18 14:21:22 · answer #10 · answered by breakthrough_usman 1 · 0 3

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