Family & Relationships - 18 September 2007

2007-09-18 06:03:49 · 30 answers · asked by niceguy 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the funnist reason why a womens marriage can be affected because she is a immigrate

2007-09-18 06:03:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-18 06:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by busybee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so i work at a job with this girl. one day she asks for a cigarette & i give her 1. end of that. a few days later i ask her for a cig & she gives me a whole pack. which wuz really funny considerin how much they cost nowadays. well now when i see her, i feel like im obligated to talk to her cuz she gave me a whole pack. so we hav little chit chats here & there, nothin too big. one day she asks me to leave w/ her on our lunch break to her house. we get there & she's mad cuz her parents & her daughter is there. end of that. well after chit chattin more at work we exchange numbers & she points out that our numbers are similar. u kno how people find things out like that when u like each other. at this point im still not that interested. so one nite she has a get together, we all get drunk, they leave & we hav sex. with no condom. thats that. well now i think im interested in her. but she has too many male friends and it seems like she's lost interest. what could be the problem?

2007-09-18 06:01:28 · 37 answers · asked by dontwantplex 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 05:58:50 · 2 answers · asked by Mr. Cadillac Jones 2 in Singles & Dating

Have sight love with my sister in low. What shall I do? She is married too. Is it risky to tell her the feeling I have for her or stay silent and suffer ??? help with you idea ?? I have no any idea if she has any sense of feeling towards me. Just sharing my feeling....

2007-09-18 05:58:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

just wondering.

2007-09-18 05:54:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and im on the east coast and she's on the west coast I have a good paying job where im at should I follow her and go back?and start over or should I stay and move on with my life? I love them dearly but where going throygh some ruff stuff specially cause she'd using drugs please help

2007-09-18 05:54:05 · 8 answers · asked by flip c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont think there should be a need for my family to invite my ex wife over on a weekly basis and to family functions. I dont feel like hanging out with my exwife, that's why we got divorced. I am not asking my family to hate her. This situation has pushed me away from my family. My ex spends more time with them than I do because of this. The family sees no problem with this. Any advice?

2007-09-18 05:53:02 · 14 answers · asked by dkullgren072 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently added a posting titled (Am I being Selfish /Am I Wrong). Basically it was about my daughter's father being upset because I only gave him a week and a half notice about the day/time I was getting her Christened. He's not an active part in my baby's life and he has only seen her 7 times (she's 6 months old).
Well the Christening was this past Sunday and he did not show up. He called me right after service was over but I refused to answer the phone. I spoke with him the next day and he said that the reason that he did not show up is because he did not have the address. I sent him the name of the church and the address when I frist told him of the plans. He has been calling and sending me text messages for the last two days cause he knows he messed up. I refuse to speak with him. I'm very hurt and disappointed. I'm telling him the next time that he see's my baby he will have to take me to court for surprivised visitation, but a part of me doesn't think that he cares either way

2007-09-18 05:51:09 · 8 answers · asked by Proud mommy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really love my boyfriend , but it's just the word can't come out of my mouth .

2007-09-18 05:49:34 · 19 answers · asked by sashan03 1 in Singles & Dating

I am shocked that he now is able to have joint custody of our young daughter. No record of this crime have been available and I can not afford an attorney. In our divorce degree it states that neither of us are allowed to expose her to anyone who has been put on probation for or jailed for any CSC crimes. I am wondering how this exempts him just because he merely got off after probation and a short term of counceling. I'm a concerned Mom and wish to find any answers. Thankyou!

2007-09-18 05:47:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was caught lounging naked watching interacial gay porn while sipping sweet tea. My mother thinks that I should see a shrink but I think I was just simply watching a movie in my own privacy. Any thoughts on this???

2007-09-18 05:44:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

l dont want mean answers please,l just want peoples opinions,cos l am a little bit confused at the moment.AS FOR THE MAN.he is finacially ok,very gentle infact he is one in a million,my problem is just his age.

2007-09-18 05:40:49 · 20 answers · asked by eve 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here's the thing im throwing a bachelorette party for my soon to be sister in law... She doesn't like to drink and she is NOT a very big people person... she LOVES hangin out with her closest friends.. but doesn't like the bar scene or club scene...

What if any... ideas do ya'll have for something i could for her.. on a pretty strict budget. I think im going to invite the bridemaids that will be here.. and then a couple of her other closest friends that she hangs out with a lot.

She said we could make ya know the cake that's in the shape of the pee pee. And ya know pee pee balloons... but i don't know what else to do for it!

I can't spend very much money because im a poor college student.. so ANY ideas if any.. would be GREAT!!

Thanks soo much!!

2007-09-18 05:39:28 · 15 answers · asked by charmedangel51 2 in Weddings

Why won't my step mom stay out of my life? She is always up in my business about everything! I'm 21 years old and the stuff that goes on with my mom and I is MY business! Not her's... She always finds a way to find things out and then I get in trouble... Its getting old and I wish she would stay out of my life!

Help me!

2007-09-18 05:38:17 · 6 answers · asked by Sublime Chick™ 3 in Family

I'm not attracted or involved with anyone - not attracted to him either. Sex is not a priority for him. It has been 15 yrs of an uphill battle that's feels not worth the climb. We have no children I am 47 and he is 37. He is married to his mind&job- in his own little intellectual world most of the time - When he is home he is here physically but mentally he is usually elsewhere
Seems like the only way I can make this work is to TURN MYSELF INTO SOMEONE ELSE. But I am "beautiful" (inner beautry) and have worth just as I am. I just can not foresake myself- I am at an age where throwing myself away just doesn't make sense. He told me 8/06 that he married me to see if he could fit into society by trying to be a married person (he didn't want kids -didn't tell me before)- he wants to live alone Other times he says he loves me and does not want to live alone. Asked him to see a counselor-he said "it wouldn't work out in MY best interest" (covert threat?) Would appreciate your thoughts

2007-09-18 05:37:57 · 15 answers · asked by try n to smile 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you looked at someone's wedding registry and saw stuff listed like sports equipment, kids furniture, toys, plasma TV and HD-DVD, things that were not what a starting out couple needs for a home, would you be somewhat offended? Or just buy it because that is what they want?

Is "all's fair" in registries, or are there guidelines?

2007-09-18 05:33:09 · 39 answers · asked by danashelchan 5 in Weddings

2007-09-18 05:30:43 · 5 answers · asked by livinlifetothefullest 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-18 05:30:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 05:26:43 · 9 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

He's a jerk and got all butt hurt because I went on 2 dates with some guy. He's a jealous ***!

So I had his cell phone turned off.

He responded by deleting me from his MySpace and leaving mean messages on my work phone.

I can't believe that I spent 4 years of my life with this guy...and I can't believe that I still let him hurt my feelings. I can't believe I'm posting a real question...please forgive me, it has to do with emotional state.

2007-09-18 05:25:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 05:20:38 · 18 answers · asked by raj the secret 2 in Family

How does that work?

2007-09-18 05:17:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This boy said he liked me, but then went out with someone else, we stayed close but he kept saying to me how he still liked me and he said to my friends that he only said yes to this other girl because he was scared i would say no.

Long story short they have broken up, and i have been hearing things about him saying mean things about me. So now i hate him, but ever sinse hes been talking to my friend and asking does she still like me, and has sent emails and tried to sit by me but every time i moved. And he has been talking to my friends about me asking to talk to me, telling them to get me to be friends with him again.

What should i do give him a chance and take things slow, because i still really like him.

2007-09-18 05:17:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I've been hanging out with a group of new friends. Me and one of the guys are obviously attracted to one another but I can tell he's a little intimidated...however he gets jealous whenever I have a conversation with his friend and he tells me that I should talk to him....why do guys do stuff like and how should I take that? By the way we're both 25.

2007-09-18 05:14:26 · 1 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

The question is about what kind of person are you?

A "black and white" person is someone who sees the world one way, good or bad, lucky or unlucky, etc.

Where as a person who is more of a "grey area" person can see thinks in a different light. For example, instead of black or white, a grey area person sees a possible middle ground, or can find some good in a bad situation.

Please. This is not a race related question. Please do not send me e-mails on race issue.

2007-09-18 05:10:22 · 8 answers · asked by byee77777 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont know if i dont believe in love or if im afraid of it! But either way i dont want to be in it but the guy im wit is making it very difficult for me! He is the sweetest guy ever and when ever im wit him he makes me feel absolutly amazing! but evertime i see one of my friends in love they end up getting hurt really bad and im not tryin to experience that pain! What should i do??? i really wanna tell him how i feel but i dont wanna break his heart by saying i dont love you or i cant be in love with you? i need help!!!

2007-09-18 05:09:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 05:08:15 · 14 answers · asked by ngirl 1 in Singles & Dating

When i say tall i mean, like im 5ft 9 and my friend is 6ft 3 and for some reason i sorta wish i was as tall as him even though im the average size for a male, so my question is, do girls like tall men? because not every man will admit it, but they probably wish they was taller aswell, in my eyes a taller male than me is looks more powerful to a woman. And i think thats true. Anyway thank you. Opinions please!

2007-09-18 05:07:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating