Why won't my step mom stay out of my life? She is always up in my business about everything! I'm 21 years old and the stuff that goes on with my mom and I is MY business! Not her's... She always finds a way to find things out and then I get in trouble... Its getting old and I wish she would stay out of my life!
Help me!
2007-09-18 05:38:17 · 6 answers · asked by Sublime Chick™ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am on my own.. I seriously think its her goal in life to make a fool out of me..
I know I dunno how a 21 year old gets in trouble.. ask her!
2007-09-18 05:47:20 · update #1
Why dont you tell her that. Just say it core camly and express to her that you are an adult. Just say "i know you are trying to help, but i really need my space. I am an adult now and need to learn from my own mystakes. I appriciate you looking out for me, but i will never learn if you continue this. I also want you to respect the fact that I am 21 not 12. Now that i am older i would like you to stay out of my situations unless i ask for help. I dont get in your situations so i would like it if you did the same for me. If you want to call me or talk to me i only want to hear positive things from you, not negatives. I dont want negativity or drama in my life, especially from family." If she doesnt get it this way, then just ignore her and dont return her calls that way she knows that you have warned her and she either respects you or leaves you alone.
2007-09-18 05:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First thing I would do is move out on your own that way you are your own woman, you pay the bills and no one can tell you what to do. Second how does a 21 year old get in trouble???
2007-09-18 12:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by Older Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How in the world does a grown woman at 21 "get in trouble". Tell your step-mom exactly what you have said here.
2007-09-18 12:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i would def say that u really need to talk to her and tell her that u are a grown up now and that u can take care of urself... and tell her that you dont' want her to be completely out of ur life but u run ur own show now and if there is something that u want her to know then u will tell her...
2007-09-18 12:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by hotchick_7_2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out ASAP if your living with her
then cut all tie with her & your dad, best thing is to ignore her, never talk to her or your dad,
2007-09-18 12:47:40 · answer #5 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop talking to her all together. Change your number, demand to your father that your number is for him and not her and that if she contacts you, you will stop contacting him.
2007-09-18 12:45:55 · answer #6 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋