He's a jerk and got all butt hurt because I went on 2 dates with some guy. He's a jealous ***!
So I had his cell phone turned off.
He responded by deleting me from his MySpace and leaving mean messages on my work phone.
I can't believe that I spent 4 years of my life with this guy...and I can't believe that I still let him hurt my feelings. I can't believe I'm posting a real question...please forgive me, it has to do with emotional state.
2007-09-18 05:25:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok for those of you who can't seem to read....he's my exboyfriend. We broke up 4 months ago. I did not cheat on him.
His cell phone was on my plan because he was too lazy to actually have it transferred over to his name.
2007-09-18 05:39:43 · update #1
not talking to him. that would drive him crazy. buy a new dress. go to church. hit the gym. go out with friends. go on vacation. go wine tasting someplace new. go dancing. go anywhere. take a class. have a dinner party. in his face!!!
2007-09-18 06:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by C Deezy McCain 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's mad because you're moving on with your life and doesn't want to see you happy. He would rather see you miserable and begging for him to come back. He may even still have feelings for you, but that doesn't keep him from being a selfish *** for intentionally making you cry.
Be happy that he deleted you from Myspace. You don't want to be conversing with a selfish prick like this anyway. Make sure he stays out of your business and keep on dating. He's an ex-boyfriend for a reason. He has no say over what you do or other people you see.
EDIT: By the way, the best way to get even with an ex is very easy and necessary. NO CONTACT with him whatsoever. If you run into them on the street act indifferent (like their presence doesn't mean anything to you), and BE HAPPY. If you seem a lot happier now than you were when you were with them that will burn them up more than anything. Of course, this is the way things should be anyway.
2007-09-18 05:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by Starr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me when I tell you I am not "attacking you". But honestly, if you keep going down this particular road, you are no better than he is and you deserve one another.
If he is your ex- what the heck has it got to do with him if you go out with somebody else? If you went out with somebody else before he was your ex- then he was justified being angry. The fact that you were together for four years isn't his fault. You have a mind of your own and you could have quit any time you wanted. You chose to hang in there, so no use getting all bent out of shape about it now.
All this anger, and pissed-offedness takes up a lot of energy. Why are you wasting it? You are both acting like a couple of silly kids going "nah n'nah nahhh" in the schoolyard. Move on, get over him and yourself, learn from your experience, and accept it as a part of life that will help you improve your future.
2007-09-18 05:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well......*takes deep breath*
Most vengeance routes centre around a man's automobile.
1. Cut the brake lines on his car. He'll still be able to stop. Once.
2. Put a "Paedophile and Proud" sticker on his bumper.
3. Buy an axe and puncture every single panel on that sucker. Leave it sticking out of the roof. Or his dog.
4. Purchase some illegal contraband, plant it in his car and "tip off" the authorities.
5. Steal his number plates, attach them to a similar rental and perform a "drive off" at his local petrol station.
6. Put a pound of shrimp up and under the inside of his bumper trim, it'll add a lovely fragrance to his interior and his neighbourhood.
7. Slash his tyres. Everywhere. Follow him around covertly. Slash 'em every single opportunity you think you can get away with it. Carpark, Work, Home, McDonalds, EVERYWHERE.
I hope I've helped.
2007-09-18 05:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it four weeks and u will be a totally different person. We forgive the emotional state, however please dont waste more time tryna get even.....if its over, then u both have decided to move on, be the bigger person... as much as i hate to give advice that i would not like to listen to myself, ur way too good to be playing silly get-even-with-him-games. Lifes too short, and your new sexy man awaits.....if i can get over my ex, believe me, u can aswell. As for the four years, well try and think about what u have learnt. At least u know what u want in a man now. And what u dont want. Be single, play the field, break a few hearts...u only live once!!!!!
ps how much of a weirdo is frank.......at least u aint dating him!
2007-09-18 05:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by Ms.Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you're upset and obviously this guy still has some power over you. But, you did the right thing by breaking up with him. But, after 4-and-half years with someone, it's going to take some time to deprogram. For now, just don't let this guy "rent space" in your head, and never, never-ever go back with him. He's a jerk and a turd.
He can only control you if you let him.
2007-09-18 05:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be a better person & don't do anything. Let it go. IF it gets to the point of harrassment call the cops and file for a protective order. You need to be able to not be afraid to move on with your life and find happiness.
2007-09-18 05:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Sounds like a mess. If he's your ex and you've both moved on, why did he get upset because you went out on 2 dates? And how were you able to turn his cell off?
don't worry about getting even. keep your dignity and take the higher road - you'll feel better about yourself later if you do.
2007-09-18 05:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by angelbearkiss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kindergarten romances. Grow up both of you. Selfish little children. You both behaved badly. Maybe you can take the high road and just walk away without having to exact some trivial payback. If he can't , it's harassment and/or stalking. Both illegal. Call the cops.
2007-09-18 05:35:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him. This is the best way to end it and get over it. Don't call him, talk to him, hang out with him. You never really killed it when you broke up. You seemed to be using each other as a 'just in case.' Now it is just more official.
2007-09-18 05:51:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, stop playing back and forth with this petty revenge stuff. Get on with your life and forget aboutt him. The more yo obsess abou the revenge the more time it will take for you to move on and have a healthy and serious relationship
2007-09-18 05:32:50 · answer #11 · answered by Molly SH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋