Ok here's the thing im throwing a bachelorette party for my soon to be sister in law... She doesn't like to drink and she is NOT a very big people person... she LOVES hangin out with her closest friends.. but doesn't like the bar scene or club scene...
What if any... ideas do ya'll have for something i could for her.. on a pretty strict budget. I think im going to invite the bridemaids that will be here.. and then a couple of her other closest friends that she hangs out with a lot.
She said we could make ya know the cake that's in the shape of the pee pee. And ya know pee pee balloons... but i don't know what else to do for it!
I can't spend very much money because im a poor college student.. so ANY ideas if any.. would be GREAT!!
Thanks soo much!!
2007-09-18 05:39:28 · 15 answers · asked by charmedangel51 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Find out her favorite movies and have a girls night in. A pajama party where you all sit around eating penis cake and drinking soda while laughing out loud to a good comedy. My bestfriend doesn't drink, not a clubber so she and our closest friends made a road trip to attend a ren fair, afterward we all got to don our pjs and played games.
Poll her future husband with questions, then have all the girls try to guess his answers. It can be fun, try questions like ... "When I see her __________ it makes me go wild" You guys will have a great time trying to fill in the blanks.
You can get cheap prizes at the dollar store too, little token type things so that everyone has something to remember the night and nobody goes broke.
Also try a "surprise party" that's a company that makes toys and novelty gifts, like a tupperwere party only spicy
2007-09-18 07:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by L H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about karaoke night? It is good clean fun, and the rest of you can drink if you want to, without making the bride-to-be feel bad about not wanting to drink a lot. Scout out your city for local karaoke bars, and bring your pee-pee balloons and cake, and maybe one of those fun light-up bride veils for her, so everyone can know that she's the bride and all. She and her closest friends can have a great time without having to do the whole club thing or anything...it's called a karaoke BAR< but it's not a typicl bar, I don't think.
On the other hand, if she can't/won't sing, she may not have fun at karaoke. If she's really shy and reserved or whatever, how about just a fun mani-pedi party? Have your pee-pee cake and balloons at home, and then drive to the nail salon and get your nails done together. Make sure all the other bachelorette party guests know they're responsible for the cost of their own mani-pedis, and then you can all chip in to buy the bride's mani-pedi combo for her. Many places offer a "moonlight manicure" service, where they're open kind of late on Friday or Saturday nights, so you can go get your nails done at 8 or 9. Another option would be to hire a couple of nail techs to come and make a housecall at your party, but that can get pricey, and personally I think it's more fun to get your toes done in the beauty parlor where they have the fun pedicure chair and all. Have fun!
2007-09-18 05:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bachelorette party is simply supposed to be a final celebration with friends in your "single" state. It does not need to include strippers, booze, pee pees or penis shaped objects! Years ago, most brides were assumed to be virgins so it was fun to tease about the sexual aspect of the wedding night. Now a days, well, what's new about sex between most couples? Why don't you just have a girl's night sleepover with junk food, movies she enjoys, maybe even makeovers and all share some stories from your single lives? As you know, it's all about being there for each other, not about the money you spend !
2007-09-18 06:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by naniannie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could all go out to dinner at her fav restuarant... and split her portion between you all (so no one is stuck with spending much more money, but she still eats free)... then go back to someones home for the "party" part of it... the cake and balloons... have junk food and party trays... they even make suckers and candies in the shape of a "pee pee"... people can bring gifts like lingerie or pajamas... then she can try them on and model (some of which will need to be put on OVER the clothes)... this is kinda how my party went and it was a blast...
You can also play games like "pin the penis on the man"... you can find stuff like that at Spencer's Gifts (in most malls)
Have fun with it!
2007-09-18 05:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she is not into the bar or club scene I would suggest going for a manicure and pedicure where everybody could pay for their own (you could cover the bride to be) and then after have them come over your place for appetizers and play a few games. Talk to the other bridesmaid and see what their budget is and see if the could help you out with anything. You could find lots of games online.
2007-09-18 07:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mary J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i simply obtained again from europe. I used to be interested to look the bachelorette promoting penis formed cookies (cookies formed through hand) additionally offered kisses you sound like you're doing demanding situations or like a scavenger hunt possibly a kiss from a man with the identical title because the groom... get her to have a few men purchase pictures to your entire organization. Type up her mission so she will turn out to the men what she has to do ( I expect you cant make Tshirts ) Actually i'm afraid that you just already had this social gathering. hmmm
2016-09-05 18:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bachelor / bachelorette party is just a ritual, a symbol. Of the last time someone is going out with their peeps as a single person. You just do whatever they most like to do. Even if it is just going to dinner and a movie, or to a concert, or staying home and having a pizza party.
It doesn't have to include objects in the shape of human anatomy.
2007-09-18 05:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if she doesn't like to drink all that much then it is a good thing cause u save ur money there... at a bachlerotte party i went to once the girl who threw it was on a tight budget as well so she got a friend of hers to be the pizza guy and bring pizza and he did a lil private dance for the bride... it wasn't anything big he just took off his shirt and his shoes... so maybe u could do something like that too... and maybe have some games to play
2007-09-18 05:49:47 · answer #8 · answered by hotchick_7_2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it a theme party and see if some of the guest can help with the decorations!
What is her favorite thing to do? Have the party around that...
See if any of the bridesmaids would be willing to help as well! Good luck sweetie and just try to make it fun! I am sure she'll be happy with whatever you do!
2007-09-18 05:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so @ Wal*Mart, I saw this booklet w/ questions for the guests about the bride. Like Newlywed game, but it's for the bride. You can get some inexpensive gifts or make your own baskets w/ favors (make sure they are all diferrent) and whoever guesses the most answers correctly wins a prize. You wrap them up so they can't see what they are getting! I really hope this helps.
2007-09-18 05:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋