Family & Relationships - 18 September 2007

I've been dating this girl almost 3 years. But yesterday I found something wierd --to me inside her mobile. She created a new folder which contains naked girl. I think the girl is a japanese porn star. It's not one or two. But almost 20 pics with diff poses.
Then I pretend calm, I asked her "who is this girl?" Then she said that she admire this girl very much, she thinks she can turn-on by looking her pic. She even changed our pic together at her front wallpaper (mobile phone) to the porn star pic, but not naked. Maybe because it's at front wallpaper.
I think it's a lil wierd.
After that, I found her masturbate by looking her mobile. Is this normal?? or It just me too over-worry ??

2007-09-18 02:47:36 · 9 answers · asked by Freddy Jr 1 in Singles & Dating

She was abusing his son, and he left her with everything except his son and personal belongings. She would have been the one to file. How can we find out if she did?

2007-09-18 02:46:29 · 11 answers · asked by llnlln56 5 in Marriage & Divorce

so i'm gonna put a gift basket together for him..he's turning 29 so far I'm gonna put white tees, axe body spray, red vines, a teddy bear with a card and balloon...but i want to put 1 big gift in there any ideas? Thanks.

2007-09-18 02:44:27 · 4 answers · asked by sandra m 3 in Singles & Dating

I came up with this idea to make up illustrated stories and mak them into movies using software and add sountrack with sound effects and all.

I'm really excited about it however, my family has no interest in it. I have no friends and no girlfriend either so i can't show anyone. I'm 27 by the way, male.

It's nothing professional by the way, just a fun idea i had. There is one person who might care, and it's my 6 year old nephew.. but it's kinda sad that my sisters don't care. nor my parents.

2007-09-18 02:43:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, the dog started barking at 4:00 am even though she'd been out and hour earlier. Is this the way to start a morning? I have to get ready and get my kids ready for school (no, she's too little to take care of the dog). I called my husband and said, "That's it - you decide - it's me or the dog". No, I wasn't yelling, I was crying. I explained to him that this was when our lives were supposed to have less stress - not added stress from a dog. I work full time and bring home almost as much as he does. I pay 1/2 the mortgage. He just bought himself a mercedes even though he has another car. I come home from work and cook. I do most of the laundry. I make the beds every morning. He works and sometimes has lunch with friends, or goes to his mother's to eat/nap. He lets the dog out when he comes home. This is not a breed that should be left alone all day. So, I guess I will find out when I get home. I love my husband very much - but I cannot deal with the stress.

2007-09-18 02:40:07 · 17 answers · asked by Josie L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating this guy who seems like a good guy. He is 33 and has spent the last 15 years in a relationship. He said his 1st relationship of 10 years was with his middle school sweet heart which you know puppy love never last. His 2nd relationship was 5 years which he now has a 4-year-old daughter. He admits he was not always a saint, but he do like long term relationships, and is currently looking for one, and feels he now know what to do right. The thing is he really does not have anything. Both relationships were between his teenage and post high school years which meant he was dating these women, but still living at home. He asked me what I was looking for in a man, and I told him. I then added the man has to be financially stable. I made it clear that he did not need to be stable to take care of me, but stable to take care of himself.

2007-09-18 02:38:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating this guy who seems like a good guy. He is 33 and has spent the last 15 years in a relationship. He said his 1st relationship of 10 years was with his middle school sweet heart which you know puppy love never last. His 2nd relationship was 5 years which he now has a 4-year-old daughter. He admits he was not always a saint, but he do like long term relationships, and is currently looking for one, and feels he now know what to do right. The thing is he really does not have anything. Both relationships were between his teenage and post high school years which meant he was dating these women, but still living at home. He asked me what I was looking for in a man, and I told him. I then added the man has to be financially stable. I made it clear that he did not need to be stable to take care of me, but stable to take care of himself.

2007-09-18 02:38:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well it's been nearly 3 months now. and we are very much in love and close... We have never fought about anything or have problems... we like a perfect couple...though something happened as he asked me a personal question about my past and lied about it as i was to scared it would ruin our relationship....now i'm regretting it... I really do want to tell him soon before its to late tho i don't know how to....i definitely don't want to do at school but face to face....please help... it's really getting to me

2007-09-18 02:37:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Name at least one bad thing your husband has done to you.

Name one thing he has done to someone else.

Men you can do the same for your wife, or girlfriend.

Also, what happened after this was done?

2007-09-18 02:37:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-18 02:35:57 · 15 answers · asked by gab BB 6 in Friends

I like this girl but i cant seem to even pass through her i cant do anything i cant even say hi but she doesnt know me shes a year lower than me i need help how to be friends with her and hopefully something more??????

2007-09-18 02:35:20 · 6 answers · asked by The man 1 in Singles & Dating

my ice lolly in public but i dont like my ice lolly being licked but anyone but me. i offered to get her an ice lolly of her own but she says she prefers mine what should i do ?

2007-09-18 02:30:31 · 1 answers · asked by armaghmadman 2 in Singles & Dating

Basically my now ex-boyfriend and I started dating last summer. We got along so well and there was nothing we couldnt talk about. Then we moved in together and things got bad. He kicked me out at 7 in the morning and I was completely crushed. I spent months crying and missing him. Then on what would have been our one year anniversary, he texted me saying that he had messed up and wanted me back. So we got back together two months ago today. However, this time I took complete care of him, paying for his cell phone, gas, food, and clothes. Instead of being greatful, however, he would just get angry with me over it. So last week he got mad at me for paying his phone bill and didnt speak to me for 3 days. Then on the fourth day he sent he a text saying that he was sorry and our relationship was different. He didnt even tell me that we were breaking up, instead he told my friend. Basically, I love him and want to know whether I should wait around again or give up on the love of my life...

2007-09-18 02:30:16 · 9 answers · asked by LolaBunny87 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-18 02:27:59 · 7 answers · asked by payman has lost his religion 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-18 02:27:51 · 10 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband has recently lost his job but is working once again but he does not like his new job and drinks a lot. If he just drinks beer, he is ok but if starts drinking liquor, he gets real angry and mean. He told me yesterday that we wants a divorce and he don't love me anymore(he was drinking). I don't want to just give up on our relationship. We have been married for 5 years and together for 11 years. A lot of my fears is to be alone and that I never would see him again because he would move back by his family 2000 miles away. I have a problem being alone almost like separation anxiety. I asked him yesterday for us to go to some counseling or him to go to a doctor to get some help and he says he does not need any help nor does he want us to go to counseling. I am just scared on one side when he is drinking because he starts breaking things and throws threats and on the other side I don't want to be alone. Please help me.

2007-09-18 02:26:18 · 22 answers · asked by puzzlefan2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-18 02:26:01 · 8 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

because i got mad about something and left the house for 1 hour. He was mad ,that i left the kids alone,they are big , the yongest is 8 oldest 15.He screamed and scold me so hard, in front of them, that i was so embarressed.I told him not in front of the kids, he said i told i was going to do it, if u did something wrong. Who's right or wrong here ? he said if i get mad, i should never go out, just stay home.

2007-09-18 02:23:42 · 16 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Singles & Dating

I think I'm in love with my 24-year-old teacher. And i'm like, 14. I know that this feeling'll wear out soon, but I just don't know how to deal with it right now...

2007-09-18 02:23:41 · 6 answers · asked by Angelika White 1 in Singles & Dating

moving on after a relationship has ended? As for gender do you think men or women are better at moving on. aka forgetting the past or trying someone new?

2007-09-18 02:23:21 · 6 answers · asked by bhackle2 3 in Singles & Dating

Well either that or they just don't care and want what they want........ I regret that night of drunkenness and it was only *one night*. [we've all made drunken mistakes]. But how do I stop them kissing me [and slipping their hands]? I like them all and I need their support to a large degree and so I guess that I have to just shut up and put up But this can't go on. So, what to do?..... People have said: 'tell the University' but the students would ostracise me.

They're all girls and I'm a boy. So as you understand the dynamics. They're all nice, just a little too friendly. And the one last night told me she has felt this way for a long time.

2007-09-18 02:17:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please help! im scared!

2007-09-18 02:16:09 · 8 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

How do i get him to take nice photos with me???

2007-09-18 02:12:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been married for 19 years and her sex drive has only gotten worse(once every two or three month is to much for her and i am going nuts)

2007-09-18 02:10:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

But not to extremes...but is is normal for people to become jelous in certain circumstances, w/o signifying they're crazy or violent or weird?

2007-09-18 02:05:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad dies when I was almost 11 and my mom met a new guy. I was put into foster.Thats ok they were cool.Im now 18.I received a very nasty email from a user who is CONSTANTLY abusing me here 'SONIAj C' ( she's now blocked anyone from emailing her)
Basically she said "Go look at your mother but u cant cos even she didnt want u" I'd like to add her message onto this question.To show people what she is.
How do I do it?

2007-09-18 02:02:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not too sure we talked about it and i even picked out a ring. i havt gotten it yet im pregnant yesterday i sd lets go to vegas and he sd dont you want to hv a big wedding like you dreamed i sd i was over that and he sd what????i sd we should just elope its cheeper bc of the baby. he sd arnt your parents gonna pay? i sd no. know im not sure if he wants to get married..

2007-09-18 02:01:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have these two friends. And they're fighting over something thats REALLY stupid. One of my friends, lets call her friend A has a guy friend and he's like an older brother to her. But Friend B thinks that friend A likes him in a different way and now they're fighting over it. Friend B is constantly picking on friend A about her brother/ sister relationship with the guy. And Friend A is getting sick of it. If any one gets what I just said I would like some help on how to solve this problem.

2007-09-18 02:00:44 · 7 answers · asked by Emma W 1 in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been together for seven months....we recently moved in together. Our relationship is great - we have a great time together and we're compatible in and out of bed. We're both 35 --- I have a career and he's back in college finishing his degree and working fulltime. Our sex life has always been good and adventurous. I would probably say that I initiate sex more often but it's always good for us.

During the past several weeks, however, he doesn't seem very interested. "Too tired, or too stressed about school, etc." I'm starting to feel unwanted, unconnected, unattractive...and i've mentioned this to him. He just tells me he's very stressed with his classes and tests and to bear with him because one day I will thank him when he's making a good salary. What should I do?

2007-09-18 01:56:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in a 2.5 year relationship with someone who was a very good friend before we started dating. I am 9 years older than him and he struggled with that. He 35 and I am 44. However we shared a lot of common interests and enjoyed each others company a lot that we continued to see each other. It was a rough 2 and a half years. But I did love him and hoped it will get better. I dont get into casual relationships. When I get involved, it is because I think it is for keeps. After a a lot of on and offs, he finally broke it off 4 months ago and said he is not sure that I am not the right person for him. That hurt. I treated this man so well. He was at the very least a friend, so I thought and him having no empathy whatsoever was just too much to bear. Now he is dating a girl and knowing he is moving on is really hard. I see him at work, we belong to same clubs. What do I do?

2007-09-18 01:54:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating