I've been dating this girl almost 3 years. But yesterday I found something wierd --to me inside her mobile. She created a new folder which contains naked girl. I think the girl is a japanese porn star. It's not one or two. But almost 20 pics with diff poses.
Then I pretend calm, I asked her "who is this girl?" Then she said that she admire this girl very much, she thinks she can turn-on by looking her pic. She even changed our pic together at her front wallpaper (mobile phone) to the porn star pic, but not naked. Maybe because it's at front wallpaper.
I think it's a lil wierd.
After that, I found her masturbate by looking her mobile. Is this normal?? or It just me too over-worry ??
2007-09-18 02:47:36 · 9 answers · asked by Freddy Jr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Normal for someone who is NOT lesbian or bi ?? YES, this is NOT normal for someone who is NOT lesbian or bi-sexual.
For all you females who are telling this guy that this is OK, I have a question for YOU - - how would YOU feel if you found SEVERAL poses of a naked MAN in your mans phone AND the same guy as his wallpaper pic - and don't forget finding the condoms sitting right next to the phone..... YOU WOULD FLIP!! GET REAL!!!
I would have to have a SERIOUS talk with your woman, and let her fully explain what's going on with her, and do your best to explain what's going on with you because of it. She COULD just be curious or going through a odd stage, but you DO need to sit down and talk this out. I have to admit if I found men's naked pics anywhere near my mans personal things, I would really be upset.
Good luck to you both, and I hope everything works out to both of your benefits.
2007-09-18 03:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's all that much to be worried about. The main thing is, talk to her about it again. Maybe she has bi-sexual fantasies that she wants to live out for real.
As we get older sometimes our fantasies and needs change. Open the lines of communication and make her feel comfortable in telling you everything.
Good luck!
2007-09-18 09:55:57 · answer #2 · answered by berrygrl2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not normal, it sounds like this girl can really turn your woman on, ask her if she's a lesbian, nice pic try sending me some hot pic, I'll treat u better
2007-09-18 09:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of women, you'll find are either openly or secretly turned on by other women.... even though they might not be lesbian or bi. maybe bi-curious u know....
2007-09-18 10:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might like women dude. just ask her
2007-09-18 10:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by peachez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fink she's bisexual and wat u atleast try is to tell her its not really nice and normal wen she does dat..try to hottie her in yr normal way..
2007-09-18 09:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Glamorous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not mormal maybe she is bisexual or something
srry
2007-09-18 09:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Bobbie S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think its normal
2007-09-18 10:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's bi or bi-curious.
2007-09-18 09:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋