because i got mad about something and left the house for 1 hour. He was mad ,that i left the kids alone,they are big , the yongest is 8 oldest 15.He screamed and scold me so hard, in front of them, that i was so embarressed.I told him not in front of the kids, he said i told i was going to do it, if u did something wrong. Who's right or wrong here ? he said if i get mad, i should never go out, just stay home.
2007-09-18 02:23:42 · 16 answers · asked by dersexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is a lot here for just you both to know. Seems like you are both wrong, yes.
2007-09-18 02:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Alina M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walking out is probably what he was upset about. He got scared when you walked out the door (unless you do this alot..then THAT is the problme). When you fight, just say you need a break to calm down and go to another part of the house. Take the lead in being the one who says, "Let's take 15 minutes and then talk some more calmly." Was he wrong? Not sure about the dynamics of the relationship. In front of the kids was bad, but it is not the end of the world unless it happens every week. Did he embarrass you by hollering or by calling you names? The name calling would be the big problem. If he did that, he should apologize in front of the kids.
2007-09-18 09:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you that he shouldn't have screamed at you in front of the kids or at all. Can't he calmly talk to you. what does it mean "if you did something wrong" does he treat you like one of the children. And I don't understand why he says you should never go out when you are mad. Sometimes people need to go for a walk or whatever to blow off steam. At your kids ages they should be fine for an hour by themselves as long as you told them where you were going and when you would be back. I know I don't know your b/f but he sounds a little controlling.
2007-09-18 09:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by Denise C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should not do this in front of the kids. I stayed at home by myself with my brother when I was 8 becasue my mom was a single mom who had to work.
2007-09-18 09:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the 15 year old is responsible then he/her would be ok for an hour, i can understand where your b/f is comeing from because they're his children too, he was just upset and probably worried about them if you get angry go in a different room from them instead of leaving them alone
2007-09-18 09:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by charlotte s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he shouldn't be screaming at you, With or without the kids around. Period. Next time take the kids or leave them with their friends or something. I wouldn't trust a jerk off like him with my kids.
2007-09-18 09:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both are right. He shouldnt have yelled at you infront of your kids. He shouldnt even have gotten mad. He was probably just mad at you cause you were mad at him. Dont worry he'll get over it.
2007-09-18 09:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i think that really wrong i don't think you should ever scream around your kids that's just me! my mom and dad did and that's just not good for your kids to see even if they are the one that make you mad! it ain't right!
2007-09-18 09:34:32 · answer #8 · answered by dorothy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your worried about this???? While your children are having to live a life without married parents?
He can't make you not leave the house.. your not a child (although it sounds like you fight like one)
2007-09-18 09:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys live together and youhave kids together... that's just life honey. This crap happens all the time. He was pissed and wrong but still pissed and obviously so were you. Let it Sliiiiiddddddeeeeee!
2007-09-18 09:32:56 · answer #10 · answered by bettercockster7 c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋