Family & Relationships - 18 September 2007

i can get any girl i want.....

2007-09-18 08:25:16 · 4 answers · asked by ireallyreallyasorry 1 in Singles & Dating

or collect autographs? without hurting him?

2007-09-18 08:21:39 · 18 answers · asked by Bullmastiff_Boxer_lover 6 in Marriage & Divorce

He says he will continue to use condoms when we are intimate but I would feel better using the patch even tho it is not 100% effective either. How can I get him to change his mind. We are both adult, over the age of 25 if that helps.

2007-09-18 08:21:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 08:19:34 · 29 answers · asked by dave ry 1 in Family

2007-09-18 08:16:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

long story cut short...
man has been coming in where i work we would exchange alot of deep eye contact long stares and smiles he then finally started a conversation bit of jokes thought he was interested the usaual signs men would show (was obvious i was interested)but next week brought his child in and said it was his eldest.i was shocked

i found out he was actually married and he hasnt come in to where i work for 4 weeks scince he brought his child in and he would come in every week the last conversation we had after it had ended we where just looking in eachothers eyes...

do you think he fallen for me and thats the reason he wont return as he has important responsibilitys as he thought it may have gone further?i would not have taken any further as he was married

2007-09-18 08:16:56 · 12 answers · asked by .... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If a married man strays with the same woman, does it mean he is not in love with his wife?
It is an arranged marriage(by parents), and their behaviour together seems more like distant friends, not a couple or even buddies. He keeps coming back so easily, it makes me wonder if he's even in love with his wife, or its just a habit of being married or staying in a non-threatening relationship.
He says he's emotionally blank towards me, but I feel those are just words. I think he's scared of falling in love with me, he's said he doesn't want to fall in love with me.
Any comments?
And moralists, you aren't living my life, so please don't preach.

2007-09-18 08:14:48 · 24 answers · asked by Raashmi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I a 2 year old son Ive asked my sister to bring her 2 year old over for a night (so our children can play)Shes ended up leaving him for almost a week give or take a few days.or leaving him with my mother leaving me to babysit him while she does her errands.He is driving me nuts!He is a good child but double diapers double baths and double demands are starting to make me resent him.What should I do?

2007-09-18 08:14:03 · 7 answers · asked by lauri l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-18 08:12:47 · 24 answers · asked by blessin m 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello all,
getting married Oct of 08 and i am thinking about having a candy buffet, its a toss up though because i am not sure our budget can handle it, is $300 enough? If not i was thinking of donating. Any ideas about how much a candy buffet will run for about 200 people?

2007-09-18 08:11:55 · 18 answers · asked by Gotta luv it! 4 in Weddings

My best friend recently lost her mom and now my mom is doing everything for her. I hate this feeling that I have, yet can't shake it. She has 3 kids & I have none. I just graduated from grad school & am starting a pretty lucrative job however, times are still rough from school debts. I hate it when mom gives her $ or does favors in her home to help. Mom hasn't given me any financial help since I started college or never comes and helps me with any of my housework. I want a baby real bad, but can not have one until my career takes off & I know we can afford it-she had 3 by the time she was 21 & dropped out of school so I know times are rough for her too, but I feel like I am being punished for being responsible. I hate it when my mom says "I'd like a grandchild" & my BF makes comments like "You can have these 3, or these are your grandkids" It drives me nuts, because I will have a child, just not at others expense. I don't want to say anything and sound petty. How can I get over it?

2007-09-18 08:10:59 · 7 answers · asked by emm 4 in Family

slow dance? Dancing is sooo romantic. You get to hold each other close.... look into each others eyes.....
Ahh! I love a good slow dance. Shall we?

2007-09-18 08:09:21 · 15 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriends daughter is 6 years old he had her for all theses years and now her mom comes to us about a year ago and says i want to see my daughter so we do let her see her now she got parting time she had not came in seen her daughter in a week and she missed her days is there any way i can help my boyfrined get full cousty of her we have to go to court to see who gets full cousty and who gets what is there anyone how can really help me ive got 9 days to the cort date please help me

2007-09-18 08:09:20 · 5 answers · asked by shygirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom found a packet of cigarrattes in my purse...i know i messed up there...we didnt talk about it that night cuz i dont know if she was completly sober...the next day she talked to me about it and told me i had to quit my job...then she told me i was gettin out of control...that i had to respect him BECAUSE he paid the rent...then i finally told her he used to touch me when i was younger and he would get drunk...and she didnt believe me...she told me i was making up stories to get out of trouble...and that he would never do that...that she cant take care of me any more and that she's gonna send me away to Mexico with my grandpa...i swear i didnt lie!..so how can my mom not believe her own daughter?..why would i lie to her?..how can i help her see shes wrong?..♥♥♥

2007-09-18 08:09:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My (soon to be) ex husband of 8 yrs. cheated on me and left me 2 months ago for some rich woman he met online for sex. I was a good, loyal, loving, caring wife to him. I am trying so hard to take care of myself and move on with my life even though I do not seem the bit interested in getting in a rebound relationship. I want to heal myself 1st. He has a webpage that he has already posted pics of him and her on and his new boat (which he named after her-how stupid is that?). I don't go visit his page and alot of my friends say that he seems to be doing all this to get some kind of reaction /rise out of me. I haven't attempted to contact him once since he has been gone. I hope it's crushing his man ego! He is a liar and a cheat. Why does it seem that he is sooo happy and I'm stuck in this rut of picking up pieces of my shattered heart? Will things ever get better for me? I really hate feeling like this. I know I'm better off without his sorry @ss though. Will Karma strike him and her?

2007-09-18 08:05:50 · 17 answers · asked by texas_redlips 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is mainly a question for the guys but girls you are more then welcome to answer :) My husband and I have been going through a hard time but things are getting better with us. What I wanna do is surprise him with something when he comes home from work but I have no idea what I should do?!? So guys if your girl could surprise you some way what would you like her to do? And yes I am up for anything but keep in mind we do have a 3 month old son so we can't do a whole lot.....

2007-09-18 07:56:21 · 9 answers · asked by tracytlctc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

It's been 13+ years and I can't wait till he comes home.
I still think he is as fine as when we first met.
I can't wait to lay by him at night for our quiet time.
I love to kiss those dimples over and over.
I love to shave his face from time to time and see his loving look.
I love to cook his favorite dishes.
I love to love his children and watch them grow everyday.
To have him take care of me and the house through surgery.
To still love me even though a few wrinkles have set in.
To love and be loved is what I think life should be.
Marriage is a oneness only few can comprehend.

2007-09-18 07:55:09 · 7 answers · asked by kate 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He is a very sweet guy and i notice that he flirts a lot with me and just me... He knows how to treat a girl.. When we go to the movies he's a big gentalmen he pays for most of all my stuff.. He's very friendly and my parents love the guy.. I just don;t how I can do with him having a girlfriend he barely even mentions her i feel as if shes a ghost but shes not.

2007-09-18 07:54:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my gf and i are getting married in vegas in few weeks. we already have a 6 yr old girl and another baby on the way. our 6 yr old assumed were already married(maybe we also feed that information to make her stop asking too many question). now, we both dont know how to tell/explain to her of this vegas wedding. we both want her to be on the occassion as our flower girl. shes a very smart kid and can also get very emotional. please help.

2007-09-18 07:53:02 · 17 answers · asked by mr t 1 in Weddings

My granddaughter is on her highschool homecomming court. She is in Ohio and I'm in FL. It would be so very special if I could see what's going on and at the same time be on the phone with my daughter.

2007-09-18 07:52:41 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Here's the scenario.

I took a position that had me away from home for two months. The trip was a huge success from a business perspective (so it seemed). My wife is 5 months pregnant, ended up having to move due to unsafe conditions while I was away, had trouble having consistent baby sitting for her daughter, and was working full time all while I was away. I get back and payday rolls around, but no paycheque. Company makes excuses and promises next payday it will all be caught up. Payday came last Friday and no paycheque again. So the trip was a huge mistake. I gave up the summer with my new family and got screwed.

On the home front. My wife and I have not been intimate since I got home three weeks ago. Away for two months. Home almost a month and rubbing her belly is as intimate as it gets.

My best friend thinks she had an affair. Despite all that happened, how can you not be intimate after being away for 2 months?

Are these signs of a possible affair while away?

2007-09-18 07:51:12 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when you have to live with them, and deal with them daily?

Thank you for your answer! :)

Have a wonderful day! :)

2007-09-18 07:50:52 · 21 answers · asked by Moon :) 7 in Friends

My son's 1st birthday is one week before Easter next year... How can I combine the two events, without taking away from the importance of either!?

*Note: The reason we plan on having both events on one day (on Easter), is because that is the best time that out-of-state relatives can come up. So it's either celebrate them together, or Not, and have those certain relatives not show up.

What can I do? What are my options?!

2007-09-18 07:48:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-18 07:46:12 · 18 answers · asked by little bird 2 in Singles & Dating

i want to talk to her :((

2007-09-18 07:41:34 · 33 answers · asked by campingqueen63 2 in Weddings

she leave one time and she comes back.all is going well ,suddenly she leaves me a second time and i still love her .What would be the best way to keep her away from me or can i still engage me with her

2007-09-18 07:40:27 · 8 answers · asked by MARy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 07:39:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-18 07:39:51 · 38 answers · asked by donielle 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I'll call him John.
I have known him all his life. But a few years ago he began confiding in me, telling me his most personal feelings for someone, my sister. He opened up and I could see his heart and soul. Our conversations turned to easy banter and later — I have a hard time admitting this even now — flirtation and I had no intention of crossing any physical line, nor did I think about him that way. The signs of an emotional affair may be more subtle than those of a sexual affair, but they're just as unmistakable. "An emotional affair happens when you put the bulk of your emotions into the hands of somebody. Your talking with this person, sharing with this person. Your innermost thoughts, funny jokes, and interesting personal experiences are saved up and spilled to this person. And even if you never so much as touch him, this emotional attachment has just as much potential as a sexual fling.

2007-09-18 07:39:18 · 2 answers · asked by whymewhynow 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife has no friends nor does she even want to try. I my self love to go out and meet new people and have lots of friends but she does not. She doesn't get along with other women because she says they are too much drama and she doens't want guy friends because she doesn't want them too hit on her so her friends are my friends and i kinda want her to make her own friends who she can go out and have a girls night out (which she has never had before) I have tried to tell her she needs friends and she just takes it as i don't want to spend time with her or she says she doesn't want any.. I am her bestfriend but some things should be left for a female friend to help out on.. i know it sounds like i am complaining i just don't know what to do please help

2007-09-18 07:34:31 · 7 answers · asked by steller 1 in Marriage & Divorce