My (soon to be) ex husband of 8 yrs. cheated on me and left me 2 months ago for some rich woman he met online for sex. I was a good, loyal, loving, caring wife to him. I am trying so hard to take care of myself and move on with my life even though I do not seem the bit interested in getting in a rebound relationship. I want to heal myself 1st. He has a webpage that he has already posted pics of him and her on and his new boat (which he named after her-how stupid is that?). I don't go visit his page and alot of my friends say that he seems to be doing all this to get some kind of reaction /rise out of me. I haven't attempted to contact him once since he has been gone. I hope it's crushing his man ego! He is a liar and a cheat. Why does it seem that he is sooo happy and I'm stuck in this rut of picking up pieces of my shattered heart? Will things ever get better for me? I really hate feeling like this. I know I'm better off without his sorry @ss though. Will Karma strike him and her?
2007-09-18 08:05:50 · 17 answers · asked by texas_redlips 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's a jerk. would you please post the web page addy so i can check this jerk out?
2007-09-18 08:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing for yourself. What he does is not important to your healing. It has only been 2 months and you'll need another year or more to work out a lot of this. Don't go to his page and ask your friends to stop updating you. It is like picking at a scab. It won't heal up.
Their relationship started off based in cheating. She'll soon realize that he can't be trusted. Being the type of women who would get involved with a married man means she herself isn't trust worthy. Oh yes, karma will rear her head. People need time between relationships so they can put the old away. When things get tough between them, expect a phone call, email, or text message from him asking to get together.
2007-09-18 15:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He WILL get what he deserves...no worries. What comes around, goes around.... Once a cheat/liar, always a cheat/liar. Mark my words, friend. This is probably a blessing in disguise so thank God that you are rid of him.
You just be the best and happiest person that you can be. Take care of YOU for once...do things that make YOU happy.
Before long, you will realize that you are much better off without him. Time heals...be patient.
I would not contact him...do your best to forget (tho I know it is hard.) Feel sorry for her...and for him!
2007-09-18 15:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by acksherly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes what goes around comes around, he might seem happy now but it wont last, give it a while and he will come running back, when he does tell him it's too late and that you don't want him back.
You deserve better than this cheating scum bag. You will find someone who will treat you with respect when your ready, not all men are like your soon to be Ex
Good Luck
Jo
2007-09-18 15:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a couple breaks up, it is always harder on one person, more so than the other.
As time passes, you will feel better. Time is your new best friend. By not reacting to what he is doing is good too. I bet he is wondering why you are not fighting for him or bothered by what he is doing. It is probably driving him nuts.
Yes, Karma is going to bite him in the a s s.
2007-09-18 15:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be glad they found eachother because they deserve it. You are better off. He cheated and lied and now he is her problem. It won't last and then you will have the last laugh. Take the high road and let them lead their lives. You take care of you and then the rest will fall into place. There is a decent, caring, loving man out there, you just have to be patient. You can't be in a healthy and loving relationship if you are not emotionally healthy yourself. Give it time.
2007-09-18 15:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Karma always strikes!!! You don't need a $hit-head like him in your life anyway. I'm sorry that it had to happen like that. Keep your head held high, and never let him see you cry. You will find your mister right. It will take a rebound relationship to get you back on your feet. You'll be o.k.; Time heals all wounds...
2007-09-18 15:23:11 · answer #7 · answered by diablo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, good for him. I hope that he enjoys his new found wealth because he may need the money to sew his penis back on after the skank gives him a disease. Money will never buy anyone happiness and his new thing won't think he is such a great thing very long.
2007-09-18 15:13:44 · answer #8 · answered by Older Guy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What goes around --- comes around.
I'm sorry for your current unhappiness, but you will be VERY happy once things settle down. Is a divorce in the works? If not, get moving!
2007-09-18 15:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Cathy C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
frankly, i think your husband is selfish and ego. he was tempted. your husband is not loyal to your marriage. i have a friend who encountered woman on sugarmommymeet.com, the woman was very rich, beautiful and sexy .what's more they had a lot in common. but he was loyal to his wife. nothing has happened between him and that woman.
so let it go.
2007-09-22 08:31:53 · answer #10 · answered by Linda l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, and you are runing your own life.
Go find a good man, learning that there is love out there is the only way to really get over him.
2007-09-18 15:11:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋