long story cut short...
man has been coming in where i work we would exchange alot of deep eye contact long stares and smiles he then finally started a conversation bit of jokes thought he was interested the usaual signs men would show (was obvious i was interested)but next week brought his child in and said it was his eldest.i was shocked
i found out he was actually married and he hasnt come in to where i work for 4 weeks scince he brought his child in and he would come in every week the last conversation we had after it had ended we where just looking in eachothers eyes...
do you think he fallen for me and thats the reason he wont return as he has important responsibilitys as he thought it may have gone further?i would not have taken any further as he was married
2007-09-18 08:16:56 · 12 answers · asked by .... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It seems liek he might have been interested but for his own sanity brought in his kid with him so YOU would know that things couldn't and wouldn't go any farther. Maybe he got that vibe from you and since apparently he shows up at yuor place routinely it seems like he wanted to set down those ground rules, so he brought in his kids. No man looking for an affair would bring in their SON to meet you. He might have thought you were attracting, got a vibe that you like him and decided to stop it before it got to far. Drop it, leave it alone, he stuck with his family and his life.
2007-09-18 08:44:36 · answer #1 · answered by jmalin04 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
he did the long looks/jokes first to see if you were interested.
then he brings in the kid to see if you are *still* interested.
if you are, you become the piece of tail on the side.
what - did he just find out he was married yesterday? he's known all along yet he was leading you on and lying to her.
that is to say, he is a snake and if you lie down with snakes you get up poisoned.
2007-09-18 09:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by filthy_crumb 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why are you even worried about it? Now that you know he's married and has children, it shouldn't even matter. He might not have fallen for you, but seen your shock and thought perhaps you thought he was coming on to you.
2007-09-18 08:38:50 · answer #3 · answered by Yogi 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Possibly. I think that the first answerer was right; your shocked expression probably hurt his feelings of anything meaningful with you. If he stares at you now, it's because he's interested in using you.
2007-09-18 08:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know next time he comes in ask him out for a drink or something, you never know he may be the man of your dreams.
2007-09-18 08:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
He saw the look on your face when you saw his child and he knew that it wouldn't work out.
2007-09-18 08:21:49 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married, deep eye contact, RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN !!!!!
2007-09-18 08:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He made a decision, to stay with what's important, his family.
2007-09-18 08:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by cmrwash 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You gave him the sign that married was not ok.
2007-09-18 08:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You're making too much out of it. He's off limits, move on.
2007-09-18 08:22:48 · answer #10 · answered by mamabear 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋