my mom found a packet of cigarrattes in my purse...i know i messed up there...we didnt talk about it that night cuz i dont know if she was completly sober...the next day she talked to me about it and told me i had to quit my job...then she told me i was gettin out of control...that i had to respect him BECAUSE he paid the rent...then i finally told her he used to touch me when i was younger and he would get drunk...and she didnt believe me...she told me i was making up stories to get out of trouble...and that he would never do that...that she cant take care of me any more and that she's gonna send me away to Mexico with my grandpa...i swear i didnt lie!..so how can my mom not believe her own daughter?..why would i lie to her?..how can i help her see shes wrong?..♥♥♥
2007-09-18 08:09:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
your becoming just like your mom is., ever realize this?
Maybe it's best that you do leave.
for your own sanity.
dont' worry about the ciggy's. that is just a hiccup in your life right now. Your health will be dictated by your life style and what you do later on in your life, so you will have to live up to that too but much later on.
2007-09-18 08:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You need to quit thinking of yourself as a screwup. Your mom has problems. You said you weren't sure if she was sober, which tells me she's an alcoholic, and doesn't care who she dates. She allowed for this to happen to you(the guy molesting you) because she's probably sleeping with him just so he'll get her drugs. Are you old enough to move out? If not, let her send you to your grandpas. You'll probably have a better life there than you will living with your mom. Good luck to you.
2007-09-18 15:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
well first of all its best to just move. you know you brought this up at a bad time. its too bad you tld her now why couldn't you have told her before. i know that hispanics sometimes don't believe the man wuld do this but they do alot more then we know of cause they are't turned in casue maybe they just threaten or whatever. but its best to go at least you are awy from it and stop drinking and smoking there are so many trying to stop smoking it causese cancer in the lungs and its very painful to die and there is no hope for that once you get it and drinking is another one . once you are hooked very hard to stop on your own don't make the mistake alot of people do. take care.
2007-09-21 21:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but are you talking about your mom or your dad? anyway your mom is always your mom or let's say parents are always your parents so you have to listen to them and also give full respect also no matter how they treat you.
2007-09-22 15:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by darlingK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋