2007-09-18 08:16:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am 21 and I married to a 34 year old. It is hard sometimes because he thinks he is in control so just dont act that way and everything shoul dbe fine. Good luck!!
2007-09-18 08:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy of 2 sweet babies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's ok both sets of my grandparents were 12 years apart. You are both adult. I have to warn that a 24 yr doesn't have the same emotional maturity as will an older woman. I've got a 23 year old niece dating a 35 yr old man, my niece is very immature in the relationship. At that age everything revolves around them and their "wants". Be forewarned.. that is a battle you may have to face.
2007-09-18 16:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to marry a woman who is 24 then go for it. Age is just a number. My girlfriend married a man who was 13 years older than her and they have been married for 31 years. So if you want to marry a woman who is 14 years younger than you then go for it.
2007-09-18 15:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, as long as there is love on both sides and both know what kinds of problems lie ahead. Love does not know age. Love only cares about what is in the heart. Follow your heart. Too often people think things through too much and lose out on a wonderful life. So if it feels good, if it feels right and if it feels forever, jump in with both feet and enjoy.
2007-09-18 15:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Cliff R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Does she love you? Do you love her? Well, what's the problem? Age is nothing but the number of sunrises and sunsets you have been around for.
Marrying a younger girl can keep you younger as well. Good luck, I wish the best for you both.
2007-09-19 22:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by ezgoin_newyorker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how mature she is for you? Do you contantly fight about things that she doesn't understand about life yet? I am 23 and my husband is 37. I have been with him for 3 years. I enjoy the fact that I get a "free ride" on not having to experience the joy of learning life first hand because I have it explained to me or he takes care of most things. It just depends.... some women end up with older men all the time because of the maturity. My grand father always told my brother to get a wife that is younger than you so you'll have someone to take care of you when you are older. Good Luck.
2007-09-18 15:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by Cammy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't see anything wrong with it... My brother in-law will be 37 this year and is dating a 23yr old. He plans on getting married to her some day he says. I say age is just a number, and love sees no number. Go for it and don't let anything hold you back, if you love her and she loves you then skies the limit!
Good luck to ya!
2007-09-18 15:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of us women like our men to be mature. If she's 24, she should be mature enough already. You are 14 years older than her but it's not ilegal, or even sickening because both of you are mature. I would seem wrong like if she was 14 and you 28, WOW, but if you guys love each other go for it! When I met my hubbie, he lied about his age, giving me like 5 years less, I being 22 wasn't going to go out with anyone over 30 at that time, if he wouldn't of lied to me, I would of never been as happy as I am with him. BTW, I'm 27 & he's 37. Good luck.
2007-09-18 15:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by Optimistic 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, but it is OK to marry a woman who is 24 years old.
If she is so immature at that age that she still acts like a girl, don't marry her. If she is a responsible adult and honestly wants to be and act like a wife, then the age difference seems to me like a small obstacle.
2007-09-18 15:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
well you have to consider ,when you start aging and the facts of life creep up on you, (joint pain, stomach disorders, and male functioning problems ) she is going to have to put up with you. instead of growing old together , she might get tired of your aging problems and look else where. I'm in pretty good shape but trust me when you pass 40, whether you want to or not you are not like you were in your 20's.
2007-09-18 16:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by angelgirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋