Family & Relationships - 18 September 2007

I asked my cousin to be in my wedding about five months ago and she was thrilled, now I find out that she has been trying to get pregnant and is currently pregnant with her third child. She is due two weeks after my wedding and I don't know what to do. I angry becasue she still wants to be in the wedding even though we don't know if she will be able to make it. I am paying for the bridesmaids dresses and chose an inexpensive dress that won't be able to fit her because we have no idea what size she is going to end up. We also don't want to spend the money on an extra tux if she has the baby early which happened with her two other chldren. I am I being petty and selfish or do you think it would be OK to ask her not to be in the wedding anymore. I feel like she brought this on, She is the only bridesmaid and I feel like she is ruining my wedding because I have NO ONE else to be in the wedding party, I am mad at her becasue she could have waited six months to have a baby!

2007-09-18 10:57:57 · 35 answers · asked by lunitari601 3 in Weddings

Any suggestions on what might have happened?

2007-09-18 10:57:28 · 8 answers · asked by Trista 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met my girlfriend on eharmony.com, and I've been with her for 3 months now. I don't see anything wrong with it, but she's embarassed to tell people and has been telling her friends and family that one of her friends introduced us. Should I go along with that or should I tell people the truth?

Is meeting people online that way weird? Or a sign of desperation? I don't think so...I found that I met nicer people there than I ever did in years of going to bars and clubs and the like.

Oh, btw, I am 25 and she is 26.

2007-09-18 10:53:21 · 7 answers · asked by menorans23 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

~*~*~ well my husband has a fantasy of being with to women at the same time doesnt every guy, lol and i want to be able to do that for him and satisfy his fantasy but i'm scared that he might develope feeling for who ever we decide to do this with or whatever, he says he wont he just wants to try it one time and i dont blame him because i think it would be fun to do as well, but how do i get past this wierd feeling of him having sex with another women, and its not like he is forcing me to do it or is constantly asking me cuz he doesnt its me that has it on my mind and that wants to do it as well, and i like to add spice to are relationship and do different things so are sex life doesnt get boring, not that it is but i like to make him happy in bed and satisfy him. so if anyone has advice for me please let me know thanks so much :) ~*~*~

2007-09-18 10:51:23 · 23 answers · asked by padonkadonk22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-18 10:47:02 · 3 answers · asked by wlknwtr 2 in Family

what should i do?
it wasn't the sex that got me attached.
it was the way he treated me after like i'm the only girl in the world
he's a really bad boy but he does really sweet things for me.
could he have fallen in love with me as well?
we flirt, we talk, we haven't had sex in a long time like a month and he still winks at me, and cuddles next to me on the couch when i come over and touches me and is always going out skating and to the batting cage with me and our mutual friend who is engaged to his best friend.

2007-09-18 10:47:00 · 8 answers · asked by erin d 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm pretty young (not that young) but i'm not the most popular of guys (Senior in h-school) and i really cared for many girls and they never felt the same way. I'm different then most guys in the fact that i want a good relationship and not automatic sex. But i haven't had a g/f which makes me feel pretty pathetic, and it might be hard but should i give up on love to avoid the pain?

Please I am looking for serious productive answers, thank you very appreciated =).

2007-09-18 10:46:09 · 14 answers · asked by Jesus IS REAL 3 in Singles & Dating

lol I know it's a funny thing to complain about but I am so scared that he is going to get severely sick from being worn out. My husband installs cell phone sites and works nights then days and ust keep switching. The thing is last night he went to work at 8pm and didnt get home until 4:30pm today.. now is planning on going to work at like 9pm tonight (i know he's working i do the bills)... I am really angry at him. He can say "no" if he wants to about working but is insisting that they need him. So obviously he was mad that i got mad, but how do I let him know that I am just worried about him and convince him that he needs to take care of himself....
I did tell him I was worrie and he is being dangerous.... he gets angry at me :( I just want to convince him,, how?
Seriously... 4 hours of sleep in 40 hours just isnt safe.. especially when he drives 3 hours to and from.... this is about his health BTW just found a hernia

2007-09-18 10:43:37 · 3 answers · asked by Mommyof3 BGB 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok my boyfriend is 19 and Im totally in love with him...hes everything i have always wanted in life since i was a little girl. He proposed to me the other night and i said yes...he is working on getting the ring. He left for bootcamp today and he will be gone for nine weeks and we promised to write every chance we get. He tells me that im the most important person in his life and he is sending me a gift that his mother told him to give to the one person he wishes to spen his life with. He is completly ready to wait for me to finish school and is already saving up money so he can buy us a house. Only problem is my parents dont know about it....They wouldnt understand so im just going to continue telling them we are dating...any advice?

2007-09-18 10:42:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was 16-17 years old when i met him, we went out for about a year. i broke up with him b/c he cheated on me. he dated so many other girls after that. he was my first love(he knows this) cuz he had the balls to mention that in one of our convos when we were broken up...anyways....the second i broke up with him, i wanted him back so bad, but he totally cutt me off and we stopped talking. and as soon as i thought i was over it he would call me, and all the feelings would come rushing back. to make a long story short....3 years later of being broken up he calls me and we met up. he tells me he wants me back, i was so happy thats all i ever wanted..him back in my life. the only problem now is that i live so far from him and we hardly talk and when we do hang out, we fight. i know hes trying so hard to make me happy but i cant get over the stuff he put me through. people say i should just leave him but im scared to...i did it b4 and i never got over it. i feel like i dont love him the way i

2007-09-18 10:42:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mothers boyfriend at whom I'm staying at his home this week gave me a choice between being spanked or him telling my mom?Which should I choose,why,and what can I expect?I only took an AK87!?

2007-09-18 10:42:22 · 4 answers · asked by To Be Left Unsaid! 1 in Family

I recently had a split with my girlfriend. We are still friends, and I have since asked out a wonderful girl. However, when I am on dates with her, I keep having painful memories of dates with my old girlfriend (e.g. our first kiss). Anyone have ideas as to how I can combat these memories?

2007-09-18 10:32:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife is a fairly attractive woman - she's 22. I'm 23. We have 2 boys, 5 yrs & 20 months. We are going out to this club this weekend for her bday & she is excited and all. The thing is, she wants to wear provocative clothing, such as she has this dress that ties at her neck and shows all her back. I think it's inappropriate as most guys would drool over her & plus I think she should respect me and not look like an easy tag. If she were to wear something more conservative, I wouldn't have a problem. But I think she thirsts for the attention & I don't like it. I did let her wear something similiar like this awhile back - I had a problem with it but I didn't tell her anything, as I didn't want to seem over protective.

Do you think I have a right to have some limits with my wife or am I over analyzing this?

2007-09-18 10:28:31 · 65 answers · asked by Me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm almost 17
He is 17
he is away at school but his mom doesn't like his school and is considering bringing him back home. the only thing is that he doesn't like him family (long story.) and doesn't want to move back in with them...now if his parents and my parents agreed with him moving into my families house...would that be okay? because I'm thinking about like his legal guardian would still be his parents..would that cause conflict or anything?

if you need me to clear up something let me know.

but bottom line...would my boyfriend be able to move in?

2007-09-18 10:18:15 · 3 answers · asked by southernsweetie 3 in Family

2007-09-18 10:17:47 · 2 answers · asked by moonbow 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-18 10:13:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just want to know like when you're going out with someone or something.......i really need to know!!!!

2007-09-18 10:13:29 · 21 answers · asked by ??? 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 10:13:09 · 26 answers · asked by Sparklepop 6 in Singles & Dating

so here's the deal: boyfriend and i are together for over half year. i'm at university in a city that's quite far away from our hometown so i see him once/twice a week (mostly on weekend). my best friend takes classes with me and with him i can have a great time as well but i am definitely not interested in him in a romantic way.
last week, me and my best friend spent some time together because we grabbed some food after an exam, we travelled back home on train together, then went to have a drink with other people we know (boyfriend was at footballpractice). later on, my boyfriend joined us. he sat right in between my best friend and i and he was really quiet. after best friend left, he talked way more. i do mention my best friend in conversation with my guy quite often because friend and i hang out a lot. but i am not interested in him. he doesn't want me either, but does joke about looking at my breasts, ... in front of boyfriend.
he says he's not jealous type, but then what is this?

2007-09-18 10:11:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love a girl....but couldn't notice that..we know each other from 4 years ago...
now i am still studying...i still have 4 years to finish my study...and we are Egyptians...so girl friend boy friend thing will not work...just engagement and then marriage....
she refused many men before because she loves me....
then i don't know...if i am an obstacle in her life?..shall i leave her?..she said that she can wait...i am 21 and she is 23....
but if she waited for me 4 years to finish study...will she wait more for me to save some money for engagement and wedding?
i don't want to break her heart nor destroy her life
what can i do?...leave her to other one?...maybe she can be happy with him?....or go on ...fight to live a happy life with her after some years??

2007-09-18 10:10:30 · 3 answers · asked by hejinma 1 in Singles & Dating

I need an advice please help???
Please advice me..........................
What do u think about this? Im seeing this guy since april, we argue once in a while. One day he ask me?
"Do you love me?" I didn't replied to him then I ask him do you love me and he said maybe. I ask him do you want us to be exclusive or just dating ? He answered, Dont ask me. What do you think? Does he mean anything? Or do you think he loves me or wants to be exclusive?

2007-09-18 10:09:39 · 1 answers · asked by jennie 1 in Singles & Dating

I had his voicemail password throughout our entire 8month relationship. So we argued a lot because I constantly saw that he was involved with no good females. but he never knew how i would find out about them. It was females that he's been involved with sexually in the past. and if we would break up for a few days, he would go have sex with them again. So, we were broke up for about 2 months, and i finally told him my secret and got it off my chest that i've had access to his call records all along. Now we're trying to work things out. he tells me he's no longer involved w/ those girls, but he still is! I know this because I still have ACCESS! Do I tell him I invaded his privacy AGAIN? or just leave him alone? I know I'm wrong here, but I love him and I want things to work out. why is it so hard for him to leave this females alone? I do so much more for him than those girls. and he tells me he loves me, but...He just lied today and said he doesnt talk to them, But he called them 2day.

2007-09-18 10:07:11 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is my promblem. I been going out with this girl for nearly 9 months and I love her so much. During my summer hoildays I acted stupidly and treated her bad and on of last nights of the hoildays I realised it and it was on the phone call and I appoligsed so much and she forgived me *part me was a bit shocked and it showed me she truly loves me * and I vowed to my self not to treat her and upset her in that way. In the past couple of days I done little things to annoy her and I'm getting so scared *a tiny bit parronid * that I am going to annoy her so much and she going to leave me and I never want to happened because I want spend rest of my live loving her but I am so scared I am going to lose the person that I never want to lose. What shall I do?

2007-09-18 10:03:07 · 3 answers · asked by alex h 1 in Singles & Dating

yesterday a guy wrote me a note and told me i was hot. im not that confident of a person so i was really excited. now, today he told one of my friends that he likes another friend. im really confused. help!

2007-09-18 10:01:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 09:58:54 · 11 answers · asked by Gomer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had his voicemail password throughout our entire 8month relationship. So we argued a lot because I constantly saw that he was involved with no good females. but he never knew how i would find out about them. It was females that he's been involved with sexually in the past. and if we would break up for a few days, he would go have sex with them again. So, we were broke up for about 2 months, and i finally told him my secret and got it off my chest that i've had access to his call records all along. Now we're trying to work things out. he tells me he's no longer involved w/ those girls, but he still is! I know this because I still have ACCESS! Do I tell him I invaded his privacy AGAIN? or just leave him alone? I know I'm wrong here, but I love him and I want things to work out. why is it so hard for him to leave this females alone? I do so much more for him than those girls. and he tells me he loves me, but...He just lied today and said he doesnt talk to them, But he called them 2day

2007-09-18 09:57:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy has been flirting with me the last couple of days.Today he came to ask my friend a q but was looking at me the whole time..........a lot of the time when he talks to people around me he looks at me not them.
If he likes me why doesn't he just say it???

2007-09-18 09:56:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is a single mother of three boys. She just has been renting this place for the past couple of months, but she has no furniture. How can I get her some furniture without spending alot of money?

2007-09-18 09:54:29 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had his voicemail password throughout our entire 8month relationship. So we argued a lot because I constantly saw that he was involved with no good females. but he never knew how i would find out about them. It was females that he's been involved with sexually in the past. and if we would break up for a few days, he would go have sex with them again. So, we were broke up for about 2 months, and i finally told him my secret and got it off my chest that i've had access to his call records all along. Now we're trying to work things out. he tells me he's no longer involved w/ those girls, but he still is! I know this because I still have ACCESS! Do I tell him I invaded his privacy AGAIN? or just leave him alone? I know I'm wrong here, but I love him and I want things to work out. why is it so hard for him to leave this females alone? I do so much more for him than those girls. and he tells me he loves me, but...He just lied today and said he doesnt talk to them, But he called them 2day

2007-09-18 09:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two guy friends that always every day go to the bathroom at the same. Their names are Charlie and Harrison, but that doesn't matter. Every day, if Charlie says he's going to the bathroom, Harrison decides he has to go to he bathroom and vice versa. Why do they go to the bathroom at the same time and what do you think they're doing in the bathroom?

2007-09-18 09:47:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating