Family & Relationships - 18 September 2007

My Groom to be and I have talked about blue and green (our favorite colors) as our wedding colors since we started talking about getting married. Now that we are engaged and I am seriously thinking about it, I really don't want blue because I feel its so popular. I don't feel green could be the main color due to a dark green (the only acceptable green) would not look good on one of my bridesmaid. I want something different, but still something I love.

We are getting married early Nov (2008 of course) and I am clueless. I read about using your favorite sports team color and since I am a huge baseball fan, I was thinking about doing Red and white (maybe a little blue since their colors are Red and Blue, with white).

Any other ideas? I have a bridesmaid with dark hair and darker skin, and another with blonde and fair skin. I want something that looks good on both.

2007-09-18 13:06:04 · 12 answers · asked by Kris 3 in Weddings

I like this dude alot, he's not even sure if he wants me to have female friend either...why would he say that????

2007-09-18 13:05:59 · 83 answers · asked by shanique 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I'm Lizzie, I'm 16 years old, and I have never had my first kiss, I always dress moderate, no too short of skirts, and what not. I do care about my appearance as most girls do though. I wear your average hoodies and jeans and flip flops.

But I always get touched by boys. Or, say i'm bending over to get my notebook that fell, a guy will say, "get back on your knees." Or they drop markers so I can bend down and they can look down my shirt, which I refuse to do. Or they tickle me or touch my arm, and what have I done to deserve this? I tell them to stop, but why me? I'm not easy! Don't pick on me! Why am I the victim? I hate this you guys! Please help me.

2007-09-18 13:02:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a problem. I went to my sisters wedding not to long ago. When I got there I got nothing but bragging on how my sisters and her husband has all this money and how they can afford a lavish lifestyle. I think that if you have the money than invest in your future and dont buy stuff that you really dont need. Well Long story short, my sister ended up buying her husband a rolex and her husband in turn bought her a 50000 dollar car. And from now on my mom and my stepdad has been nothing but contempt to me and my wife in saying that my sister and her husband has more stuff then you and they just bought that car and that expensive watch. I dont like hearing about this all the time, and I dont need to be compared to my sister when I go out to buy another vehicle in a couple of days since my older one is quite a few years old. The only thing that I see from my parents and my sister is that they are materialistic instead of just being happy with what they have. Is there something more.

2007-09-18 13:02:05 · 6 answers · asked by James R 1 in Family

Im getting married but my fiance and i dont have a house.
We will be staying with my parents after we marry.
We dont have anywhere to put gifts so we were thinking of recommending money as a gift. We dont know how long we will be at my parents house, and we dont want to have to put things in storage.
Are there nice ways to suggest this?

2007-09-18 13:01:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

David's Bridal has the color I want (olivine), but none of the styles in the color work. Alfred Angelo doesn't have the color. Does anyone know of any other relatively inexpensive collections like these? My bridesmaids are 5'7'' and a size 7, 5'5'' and a size 9 and 5'8'' and a size 26. So as you can imagine, I need different styles for each girl. I'm very bridezilla about somethings. I need all the dresses to match perfectly in fabric and color. Can anyone help me out on this?

2007-09-18 13:00:52 · 11 answers · asked by bettiepage468 1 in Weddings

i've been married for 6 years have two beautiful boys, and my husband i have been having lots of issues. first of he has told me he dosen't love me any more and wants a divorce. but then when i left he was crying wanted me back so i came back to him and things are going south again. i just wish that i could get over it ..you know it sucks feeling this way..one day he loves me and the other he's "not inlove " anymore. we are suppose to go to marriage counseling but he always gets out of it. i just want to feel loved again..that sweet love we used to have. i miss the man i married. he can be really mean sometimes makes me feel like crap ..like he'll say stuff like"i'll pay some to sweep you off your feet" .. i'm just like WTF !! i still love him very much and hope that our marriage can survive but sometimes i just want to be like F- YOU ! i'm leaving you ! but it's so hard :( i just don't know how some people do it. how do you get over it???? do you ever get over it??? HELP !!!!

2007-09-18 13:00:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A guy that I'm interested in said this to me: "I am not capable of giving you what you want right now." Is this flat-out rejection or just bad timing?

2007-09-18 12:58:00 · 11 answers · asked by Emory W 3 in Singles & Dating

he really quiet

i only see him in band and he is on da other side of the room

7th grader = me and him

i think he likes me

2007-09-18 12:55:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just moved to this new town and i met this guy at a tennis camp and i thought he was really cute.turns out he is goes to my new skool, and is in one of my classes. (im in 7th grade) and he sits across from me. he like always looks at me and stuff. and i just get this vibe that he likes me, but im not for sure. i kinda want to tell him, but ive been rejected sooo many times before, so now im kinda scared. wat should i do????

2007-09-18 12:51:59 · 2 answers · asked by chocochic101 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 12:49:48 · 2 answers · asked by HOPES 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

cuz I have an expensive ring, and I still want to wear it! do u guys think it's O.k. to wear it still?

2007-09-18 12:47:49 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

at school. i really really hate talking on the phone but i dont want him to think im not interested. Im not sure if i'll see him tomorrow or not. Should i call him tonight?

2007-09-18 12:47:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Even though he claims he's not lying, I constantly "think" he is... what are some things I can do to keep my mind off of thinking he's lying to me all the time, or sneaking around on me?

2007-09-18 12:46:14 · 37 answers · asked by needhelp25 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 12:45:06 · 2 answers · asked by Lynne 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure of what I need to do. Any suggestions will help. Is there anything you have learned from planning a wedding that you wish you had known?

2007-09-18 12:44:52 · 10 answers · asked by Eldridge 3 in Weddings

i was wondering, is that site they were on real? im not looking for myself by any means, im just curious how that whole process goes on? like, how do you BUY a person? and while im on the topic, is there such a thing as a mail order husband? i know there is a hoax mail order husband site out there, i was just wondering if there was a real one?

once again, this is not for me, or anyone i know. its just general curiosity into how the whole mail order bride process works...

2007-09-18 12:42:58 · 1 answers · asked by Ashley M 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for 6 yrs. We have 2 children together. In Feb 06 I left him because of his controlling and selfish ways. We decided to work things out and I returned home in Oct. 06. During our separation, I dated 1 person and he dated many. One person he dated for the majority of our time apart but he broke it off when we decided to work things out. She was aware we were getting back together. He is a good person a loves me very much as do I him. Recently I discovered that he has had email and phone contact with this person again. Once about a month ago they talked for about 2 hours and then again a few days ago. I confronted him and he admitted it and said he was wrong and wouldn't talk to her again. I'm not usually a jealous person, but I felt this was inappropriate, disrespectful and deceiving. He agreed. I asked him if he had been talking to anyone else and he said he had been talking to a waitress he met a couple times a week on the phone.

2007-09-18 12:42:10 · 10 answers · asked by teelob 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My closed friend has been helping out an old couples for a long period of time . They are 85 and 82 . They really love her a lot . I heard they said they really want to adopt her . The problem is she is 32 . She isn't a child . I told them that I don't think they can adopt her . On another hand , they said they can do it and there is no age limited . I would like to know from people who know well about the laws . We live in Wichita , KS . Can they adopt her ? What procedure they need to do ? I would love to see it happens because they don't have a daughter and they wish the dream comes true . She is very nice and caring to them . Any suggestions for good lawyers ? Thank you very very much .

2007-09-18 12:40:53 · 1 answers · asked by tippawan s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a man constantly pounders into a women's personal life does that mean he is interested or just being nosy?

2007-09-18 12:38:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi! I was in the elevator at work a few weeks ago, and this beautiful younger woman was in there. She and I kept making eye contact, and she had this mezmerized look on her face. Everytime I looked up I caought her looking at me, and vice versa.She also strated fidgeting, sliding her foot in and out of her flip flop fairly noticelably while ooking at me. She also turned toward me today instead of facing forward while we were waiting for pizza. Anyway, I saw her today across the street. Same thing. She was watching me and listening to what I was sayin even though I have never spoken to her and do not even know her name. She is beautiful! And I would really like to take her out. Is she into me, and should I ask her? Or am I totally off base with this one?

2007-09-18 12:35:50 · 1 answers · asked by fuji 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I were to be married at the end of the year but now he has enlisted in the Army and we are thinking of getting married before Basic Training since we heard he will make an additional $1500 per month. This money will help out with the household bills while he is away. Does anyone know if this is true?

2007-09-18 12:33:54 · 8 answers · asked by Who M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ahhhh! today in biology class we had to take down notes and during that time my crush who sits next to me drew a face that looked like me and he put my name under it and then i wrote on my notebook a heart that said i like you. He looked at it and gave a big smile he usually smiles with his teeth opened but i guess he was trying to act cool that he smiled with his mouth closed a big smile he put down why and i put down sike retard im just kidding and he was like yeah of course. I put down but ur cool and he said i think ur cool too and i said thanks. We have been talking since school started and he is nice and he has complemented me before saying that i have a good personality and he likes that in girls. But then after i said i was kidding he got kinda serious but then he became happy again what do you think/ do you think i have a shot but one day me and nathan and sean were sitting together and sean was like he likes 5 so why do guys like more than 1 girl at a time advice help!!!!!!!!

2007-09-18 12:32:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how can i become more calm w/ this stuff, like i get nervous i guess, in person, but online, like iam fine....i have a guy freinds,and iam not nervous around them...so idk how to fix this

2007-09-18 12:30:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don’t know how to flirt. Can yall help me.

2007-09-18 12:29:57 · 14 answers · asked by Hick Chick<3! 2 in Singles & Dating

I have lost a few jobs because of my health conditions, but anytime I feel upset and sad I can't talk to my husband about this because he starts harping on the fact that it was my fault and that I am hopeless. The first job that I lost was because I required surgery and two and a half weeks down time due to complications. When I got back and started working that first day they told me I was terminated but gave me the chance to resign instead. I am a hard worker and I trully care for the clients of my employer at times I have gotten on the nerves of my coworkers because I work hard and I don't laze around. All my husband sees is failure and when I am crying and hurting from these failures and have tried to go to him he reiterates that it was my fault and that I haven't accomplished anything in my life. I already feel this way and I don't need this reinforced. I have no where to go and no one to talk to. Is this a typical response that you would have with your wife or siblings?

2007-09-18 12:28:20 · 33 answers · asked by bama_turtle 3 in Marriage & Divorce

After 2 years of a very hard divorce (and 12 married), I was finally able to get rid of the anger. But I needed that. That is what kept me moving. However, as soon as I decided it was time to get rid of the anger, I noticed why I married her and the feelings flourished again. We also have a wonderful daughter. But she is in a long term relationship (1 year). Should I just let her go? Forever?

2007-09-18 12:26:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal to have bad fights with your bf/gf after you've been together for years? Please tell me how you argue if you've been in a long relationship

2007-09-18 12:26:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was reading a confession on the www.publicdecision.com sit and I found this one in which the confessor describes how a particular situation lit a spark between him and his best friends wife and how guilty he feels about it...

Well, he did not do anything wrong, is his desiring (just desiring) his friends wife sinful enough to haunt him?

The whole confession can be read at http://www.publicdecision.com/issue/I_know_its_sinful_but_I_cannot_stop_thinking_about_my_friends_wife

2007-09-18 12:24:01 · 11 answers · asked by s_c_photo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What are you attracted to more?

2007-09-18 12:23:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating