A guy that I'm interested in said this to me: "I am not capable of giving you what you want right now." Is this flat-out rejection or just bad timing?
2007-09-18 12:58:00 · 11 answers · asked by Emory W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In a way, no. It just means he is not capable of having the lovable relationship u want right now, in the moment. He may have issues he needs to clear out or up, but he just can't commit and give u the energy you need to have a healthy realtionship.
2007-09-18 13:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just the honest truth from a guy who doesn't want to be in a full blown committed relationship. You girls require way too much personal attention and time out of a guys life and he probably has other things he wants to accomplish like school, sports, work and stuff. Maybe you should do the same.
2007-09-18 13:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just bad timing. The guy probably just doesn't want a relationship right now. I've been in that situation a lot.. The fact that he cares enough to say that instead of something meaner means that he does in fact like you, but he doesn't want a girlfriend right now.
2007-09-18 13:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just telling the truth. You want a relationship, he doesn't. So he is rejecting you, but on good grounds. And it could be bad timing too...
2007-09-18 13:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Eldridge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you're too high maintenance and you just don't know it, he really can't give what you want, or it's bad timing. It might be rejection, but most likely, it's the bad timing.
2007-09-18 13:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad timing.
2007-09-18 13:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be either but chances are its a flat out rejection, but you never no it could be bad timing
2007-09-18 13:03:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bad timing.
2007-09-18 13:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this depends on what he actually means... not capab;e in what way??? financially?? sexually??? or inter-relationship??? anyway... whatever it is... just forget the whole idea about him... if hes not interested.. then find someone who is...
2007-09-18 13:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by skeptic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he thinks you are too high-maintenance, so he is not interested, and is trying to say it nicely.
2007-09-18 13:02:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋