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I don’t know how to flirt. Can yall help me.

2007-09-18 12:29:57 · 14 answers · asked by Hick Chick<3! 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

yall are all so nice. thanks

2007-09-18 12:44:58 · update #1

14 answers

most def.. you can flirt by admiration of what they are wearing and topping it off with " thats turning me on"

Or you could make open ended comments that will spark curiosity... Like " I had a dream last night and ........ Never mind.. but you was in it! But ill just keep it as a dream

You can also walk a bit sexier and give eye contact with a slite smile to the man of your choice..

If he approaches you with conversation asking you question.. Just turn his question on him..

example.. male : How are you today?

You :How are you?

male: Um what are you doing in this place by yourself?

You: I was going to ask you the same thing

2007-09-26 05:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Flirting is a frame of mind. If you think yourself beautiful, you become beautiful. Some of the things I do are:

A. Make eye contact and smile.
B. Walk with a purpose and a little swing in the hips.
C. Hold your head high.
D. A little bashfulness always helps, too.

Wear colors and styles that make you feel confident and think yourself beautiful and most of the above that I just mentioned comes to you pretty naturally.

2007-09-26 14:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by dark eyes 7 · 0 0

just wear a cut top that shows a lil breast and some cute tight jeans thats comfortable and fix ur hair nice ... when hes near by lean over fan urself with ur hand .... u really aint gotta say a word ur body language will speak for its self

2007-09-26 18:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0 0

Flirting Survival Guid
Of course, the best way to find out if a guy likes u is to get ur friend to ask him. But since u will probably not have a friend at all times, u will need to figure out the "signals".

Step 1. Make the 1st move. Guys like girls who make the first move. If u don't talk to him first, and act like u like him (u no, not like "i luv u!", but more like "ur really cool",) i guarantee NOTHING will happen.

Step 2. U have to flirt with him. Next to ur friend asking him, the best way to find out if a guy likes u is to make him like u. Talk to him a lot, laugh at his jokes, even if they aren't funny, bat ur eyes (not for like a long time, just long enough to give him a sweet look and flip ur hair a little.)

Step 3. Don't be shy. If u don't talk to him, and act like ur having fun, then neither will he.

Step 4. Look good when u see him!!! Don't dress up formally. But wear ur favorite outfit, like a cute blouse, and ur favorite pair of jeans.

Step 5. MOST IMPORTANT!!! Look for the signals that he likes u...
1, he won't look at u very much. This usually happens before u both start "conversing" with each other. He might look at u, and then look at the floor. (A guy did that to me & it was really pissing me off cuz i liked him, and i was pretty sure he liked me, but then my friend asked and he told her he did, he was just shy.)
2, he will start acting really stupid. This usually happens once u have started laughing and having fun with each other. Ex- he might start doing dumb stuff like tossing a piece of candy in the air and trying to catch it in his mouth. (Kind of a bad ex. but u no wut i mean.)
3, he will start getting closer to u physically. Like putting his hand on ur shoulder or just sitting next to u within 3or4inches even counts.

If u do all of these things, and pay attention to these signals, u r sure get him to like u!!

ALSO:

Flirting is simply talking & being nice in front of someone u like. So when u want to flirt, just talk to the guy alot, & giggle at him & smile. That's ALL!!!

2007-09-18 19:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

Read Dale Carnegie's book 'How to make friends and influence people'.Flirting is nothing but the art of making friends. When you are sufficiently friendly you will be noticed and loved.
and choose my answer as the best answer if it is helpful :)-;

2007-09-18 19:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by jillybilly 5 · 0 1

listen..your a women,and you need to let the man be the pursuer and let them show an intrest in you instead of you going out your way trying to plz them,dont show yourself to be desperate..you have beauty,sometimes what we feel is rejection is actualy protection..think about it!.. Ms. Diamond

2007-09-18 19:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by msdiamondeyevishuns 1 · 0 1

If you can talk you can flirt, all you need to do is start by talking about school or something then slowly talk to them about things you want.

2007-09-18 19:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by Admiralty 3 · 0 1

There is alot of smiling going on
look confident
and there is alot of touching

2007-09-26 16:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by Josie 4 · 0 0

show that u want to love him
signs..
just do what they said( above me)
but one more thing...
just because u know how to flirt
it doesnt mean that u can do it
practice through mirrors

2007-09-18 19:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by Mystery 2 · 0 1

make sexual references..but not so vulgar that you sound like a whore..

smile ALOT :]
and laugh at what he says..but not SO much that he thinks your insane.

giggle at his jokes and touch him during conversations by putting your hand on his shoulder. or gently brushing his arm or stroking his hair.

talk alot with him and be super nice :]

goodluck! :D

2007-09-18 19:34:34 · answer #10 · answered by asdfjkl; 2 · 0 1

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