Family & Relationships - 18 September 2007

2007-09-18 15:28:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and my fiance have been together going on together for two years and 9 months. This girl means the world to me but lately my feelings for her have changed and i dont know why.
I have never cheated and actually have been faithful. I just woke up one morning and everything was different in my mind.
I love this girl to death and she is my everything. I dont want to hurt her. And it brings tears to my ears to know that what i am going to do will tear her apart. *its not her, its me*. My whole family loves her and everything. I dont know what to do. Im scarred of what she is going to do. Someone please help me.
thank you

2007-09-18 15:24:21 · 4 answers · asked by Xavier B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And he Kisses Another girl - Is that called Cheating


Two part question-

His girlfriend kisses another girl, making out, Is that called cheating..

S

2007-09-18 15:23:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Over the past year, weaved into casual e-mails we've sent back and forth to each other, this guy has mentioned "meeting up," "going out for a drink" or "going out for a bite." He also mentioned going together informally as company for each other for two events in our community. I'm not sure of his intentions, since he never mentions any of this in person. I'm not sure if he's just saying this because we've never gotten a real chance to hang out outside of work or he wants to go out with me. Do you know if guys say different things to differentiate between going out as friends or for a date?

2007-09-18 15:23:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so i've been with my man for over 2 years now..we've been through a lot but we've always worked it out..but he seems to be getting weirder by the day!

the other night we were getting very intimate for the first time in a while since he's been away on business alot and i havent been able to see him much..it started off normally and then he told me to wait as he went into the other room..he came back in with red leather underwear and his body was covered in body oil..he invited me into the bathroom but i was completely weirded out by him at this point..i told him that and he got sort of offended and said "sorry..but satan came over and brought out the devil within..let's practice the devil's sport together" as he winked at me

this guy is NOT the same guy i started dating..after he said that i left the house for a while and thought about our relationship..what was he talking about and should i stay with him? he's the only guy i've ever loved/ been with/ and i just dont know!

2007-09-18 15:23:41 · 18 answers · asked by Poodle Face 2 in Singles & Dating

Why is it so hard for strippers to find a commited relatinoship? I mean were people too, we have needs just like everybody else. Guy's just think of us as play toys, to be used at thier convinience! The olny time an exotic dancer cand find a good relaionship is with another hustler or a trick. So don't get mad At me when You see me in public with my sugar daddy. Or selling drugs for my doe-boy boyfriend. But what about the regular guy's ? Do you think it's fun to date a stripper? Where my lawyers at? Where are my buisness men at? We , well, I know I deserve a nice man to take care of me, but they just don't understand. To be judged and catigorized on a constant basis. Because what we do is a lot harder and it doesn't come with benefits or dental. Were worthey enough to be in any playboy spread or bradcasting the news . I'm just confused as to why strippers can't be in a normal relationship? We know more about you men than You think!

2007-09-18 15:22:19 · 20 answers · asked by Me 2 in Singles & Dating

What are some things that you have done for an unsuspecting spouse?

2007-09-18 15:20:20 · 2 answers · asked by This is harder than it looks? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or any other pet name for that matter, I have a name please use it.

2007-09-18 15:15:55 · 15 answers · asked by rachel_abby 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been divorced for 9 years now and have always said I would never marry again--that is, until I met my current b/f. I've been so fiercly independent and so adamant about not getting married, I believe he has come to accept that and I'm afraid he'll never ask. We're both in our 40's and have been together for a year and a half. We're planning to build a house and move in together, but I'd really like to be married.

2007-09-18 15:13:58 · 27 answers · asked by tangocharlie3663 2 in Marriage & Divorce

point it out.. it can either be youre looks or backround.. talent.. or anything you think that 'stands out' from everyone else around you..

2007-09-18 15:13:00 · 4 answers · asked by 1runboy2ss3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had DNA test done to my 11 year old son and his dad, I told him before he could see his son when he wanted and then he would never show up after promising my son that he would come by and this has went on for 11 years. and now he is wanting custody, and lieing about not being able to see his son, he has never help and told me he would take him and run to Canada with him and then told me he rather go to jail than to pay child support. He is at times abusive and how I got pregnant by rape from him. He has bought his son clothes but never let him bring them home for him to wear then never showed back up for him to wear them. Can I ask him to give up his fatherly rights so my soon to be husband can adopt him. I mean he hasn't been there and probably never will be. And my son is not wanting his dad in his life and he has told me so because of the promises that has been broken and he really does want my STBH to adopt him, would they listen to my son on what he wants?

2007-09-18 15:11:39 · 2 answers · asked by christinadc2002 3 in Family

my boyfriends son is getting married is it ok for me to wear a long dress???i always thought only the mothers should wear long dresses . i have not been to a wedding in so long and i'm not sure about the style changes. we have been dating for 5 years and living together for 2, if that makes any difference.

2007-09-18 15:11:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

In his will, it said that the money will go to her, and the house go to his children. However, this will was done 12 years ago before they were divorced. We are in the process of trying to fix his house up for sale. We were just wondering what legal issues will come up with this problem.

2007-09-18 15:08:24 · 16 answers · asked by queenie_5132 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-09-18 15:06:03 · 3 answers · asked by Entfusion 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

At these times how come there are many divorces seperations in married couples everywhere ? I mean whats up with that?

2007-09-18 15:01:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

again feeling random tonight....and a bit curious. why did you break it off?

2007-09-18 14:59:08 · 22 answers · asked by horizon 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you now or would you ever stay in a miserable marriage? Why stay?
I know that back in the good old stays many people stayed in unhappy marriages for many reasons. I am just learning that even today, there are those that feel compelled to stay.

Have you chosen to stay in a miserable relationship? Do you know anyone who has? Why do/did you or the person you know stay?

2007-09-18 14:58:14 · 15 answers · asked by 2Cute2B4Got 7 in Marriage & Divorce

There is no mention of stipulations in the divorce decree. We have joint legal custody but I am the primary with physical custody and final "decision maker."

2007-09-18 14:57:34 · 16 answers · asked by Rebecca L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Since she adopted my son in "06" I havent heard any thing from here. Its been 10 months and 19 Days Whats the best way to tell her I need to Know hows he doing or whats He been up to what school is he going to. If she doesnt get in contact I will have to look for him my self.

2007-09-18 14:48:29 · 11 answers · asked by Marz 2 in Family

weird question i know... but its important... i need mature answers...

2007-09-18 14:47:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My feels that God is here for her and only her. To punish everyone else when they make mistkaes but to never punish her. To give HER all the good things in life, and **** up everyone elses.i have observed her behavior for my whole life, and i am not making this **** up. i would have to be real creative to be able to do that. on top of that my dad is 20 years older than her, and she explained to me that she married him for his money and i should do the same when im older. also, she took out his entire lifes savings and spend it in one year. my dad is a good man, idk how he ended falling for someone like her. On top of that she is parynoid. She tells me i am not aloud to have friends because they just want to take away my intelligence, ect. my aunt tells me she has always been like this so i learn to deal with it. oh and get this, when my sister graduated with 2 years of college before she is even 18, my mom tells her " why didnt you do as good as your friend(who got validictorian).

2007-09-18 14:47:31 · 3 answers · asked by Lola 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-18 14:47:29 · 5 answers · asked by Toria 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for a little over 3 years. we are in our early 40's . My husband has made the comment several times that "we have lost the passion" and he doesn't feel that our relationship can continue....I feel we have settled and we still make love at least 3 times a week......
So what is he really telling me?

2007-09-18 14:44:50 · 19 answers · asked by R T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Through Msn, or aim?

2007-09-18 14:44:10 · 9 answers · asked by Candii Rainbow 2 in Singles & Dating

We'd like to make money, not for us but for our parents, we already get an allowance. I'm a young teen and have a preteen brother.

We've already had a paper route when we were younger and that didn't work out well. I've always wanted a babysitting job but can't get one due to the pact that there is already a girl on my street who does all the babysitting near us.

So any suggestions are welcome as long as we can do the close to home, like racking leaves was one of our ideas.

But if you have suggestions and a price to charge for it, ti would be really helpful if you could tell us them. Thanks in advance.

2007-09-18 14:42:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This is offically the worst day of my life!i live with my mom and my 2 bros besides my uncle who lives away but visits sometimes. Now, i may not have the best mom in the world i was very close to my dad, but not my mombut lately she was forcing me to spend time with her, but i ignored her completely, which she got mad and almost sent me to live with my uncle and auntie in CA i live in ohio. But i'm 14 now and going through puepurty my mom being the feminst she is, always taught me to respect girlswhich i do. but now sometimes i have to.well you know take care of myself.dont make fun of me i cant help it and if you dont know what im talking about i mean masturbate. recently my mom discovered what i was doing online and she permabanned me from the internet so i used my little bros psp to get my fix but she permabanned me from that too! now i havent been talkin to her since what happend 2day. i heard her saying that she wished she wouldve aborted me and how she thinks im gona b a rapest

2007-09-18 14:42:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

what is a good way to increase my sex drive?
I am in my first trimester of pregnancy and I want to get intimate with my husbamd but then i just don't feel well. What can I do?

2007-09-18 14:42:35 · 3 answers · asked by Selena H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend just casually told me "he has a bad habit of flirting and he hates it." should i be concerned?

2007-09-18 14:41:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend was murdered 13 days ago. I think I'm going crazy because I stay up for hours every night talking to him and crying. I have a shrine I made that I light 2 candles all night between his obituary. I sleep with his dirty shirts (they smell just like him). I tell him good morning when I wake up. When I come home from school, I ask him how was his day and what did he do. I tell him how my day was, what I ate and did also. I do this at bedtime too. Is this normal?

2007-09-18 14:40:47 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like the most popular guy in school, and i think i might have a chance cause im nice and funny but i dont know how to hint to him that i like him

2007-09-18 14:38:06 · 26 answers · asked by Girly<33 3 in Singles & Dating