Since she adopted my son in "06" I havent heard any thing from here. Its been 10 months and 19 Days Whats the best way to tell her I need to Know hows he doing or whats He been up to what school is he going to. If she doesnt get in contact I will have to look for him my self.
2007-09-18 14:48:29 · 11 answers · asked by Marz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have called my family and hey tell me not to call any more because they feel like Im a failure as a mother. She has moved and changed her number. I was on the street and 20 and had my first it was going good until i got kicked out with a 3 month baby sleeping in cars he was always well feed, clean, and warm but homeless for 6months when i asked her to take him till i get a place and job. Im now a superviser for a company and have my own place. But they dont see that people change if they really need to. I know life wasnt that good going up in and out of group homes cause my mom did abandon me at 2 yrs And I want to change that cycle
2007-09-18 15:13:10 · update #1
I want to move forward not backward for "shawnie boy"
2007-09-18 15:17:11 · update #2
go for it. you deserve to be with your son.!
2007-09-18 14:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your sister adopted your baby, you gave up all your parental rights. She does not have to keep you informed of anything. The best thing to do is to ask to talk to her without the baby and see if you can't come back into her life as the boy's aunt.
2007-09-18 15:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know where your sister lives you should write her a long letter.Since she adopted your son you have no legal rights to him.You should be sincere in your letter and tell her how you fill.He will one day want to know who his real mother is and it would be a shame if she kept him away from you .Hopefully you and your sister can reach terms with each other for the child's benefit.I wish you all the luck and pray y'all can work it out.Try your best and don't cause bad vibes if things don't go your way.Take things slowly and build back what you and your sister had.
2007-09-18 15:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by mamaw2305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know your sisters number then just call her and im pretty sure that she will let you talk to your son. And if she doesnt then you should probably try looking for your self! But If that doesnt work then, Im sorry! This is my best advice. Hope i helped!And I hope you get ahold of your son! Best of Luck to you!!
2007-09-18 14:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by Jacqueline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..I do not know your exact situation, but I suggest you be straight forward, call up your sister or find a another way to contact them. This is your son, so you shouldn't hesistate to make an effort. Do what it takes as long as you have your son's best interest at heart...and good luck!!
2007-09-18 14:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sabrina-H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since your sister is not talking to you, You make the first move and make it clear you are not wanting to recant the adoption just that you have a particularly close connection to your nephew and would like to know how things are going.
2007-09-18 14:53:28 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she adopted him then she doesn't have to tell you anything about him if you needed to know so bad then why did you give him up
2007-09-18 14:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by mommie_29801 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you allowed to talk to her? he is her son now right? you need to get closure or what? its not cool for her not to talk to you but i'm sure she must feel its in his best interest.
2007-09-18 14:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by fullofsugaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
track her down, get a lawyer! You deserve to see your son!!
2007-09-18 14:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to her and say hey whats up! and to really shock her.....give her a hug and say i love you maybe she thinks you dont care.
2007-09-18 15:23:39 · answer #10 · answered by leener94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know why she adopted him instewadc of you keep him bu tim sure she has her reason ask your parents how he is im sure they know.
2007-09-18 14:54:33 · answer #11 · answered by tina_tinker_bell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋