what should i do now that she said this?

Question

This is offically the worst day of my life!i live with my mom and my 2 bros besides my uncle who lives away but visits sometimes. Now, i may not have the best mom in the world i was very close to my dad, but not my mombut lately she was forcing me to spend time with her, but i ignored her completely, which she got mad and almost sent me to live with my uncle and auntie in CA i live in ohio. But i'm 14 now and going through puepurty my mom being the feminst she is, always taught me to respect girlswhich i do. but now sometimes i have to.well you know take care of myself.dont make fun of me i cant help it and if you dont know what im talking about i mean masturbate. recently my mom discovered what i was doing online and she permabanned me from the internet so i used my little bros psp to get my fix but she permabanned me from that too! now i havent been talkin to her since what happend 2day. i heard her saying that she wished she wouldve aborted me and how she thinks im gona b a rapest

Answer 1

You need to talk to your mum and tell her what you heard her say, and ask what she meant by it.

It does not sound to me like something the woman you have described would say, I wonder if you misheard her, or something else she was saying got mixed up in a conversation about you?

That can happen when you are not in the conversation you hear!

As for your Mum banning you from the internet, parents are warned all the time that if they let their kids look at the internet, they will see things that are so evil that the child will turn into a monster.

So she finds you doing your thing at the computer and freaks out ... well, really, I'm not surprised! Plus, at your age looking at those sites is probably illegal ~ your Mum could get in a LOT of trouble!!!!

You need to think about closing the door or doing it in the shower, not by the computer where your mum can see you!

Talk to your mum and also if there is a male relative your mum likes and respects, have a talk to him and ask him to speak with your mum about this.

She wants to raise you as a man who respects women, and that is the good news, but she is a woman and it's not always easy to know what a young man needs in his life.

If you don't have a male relative, is there a teacher you trust?

If not, you will have to find a way to talk with your mum (I know it will be hard), but you need to be respectful, not raise your voice, and let her know you are getting older, need some privacy and would appreciate having your developing as a man respected.

At the same time, you could negotiate with her to get your computer privileges back ~ but you'll probably have to promise not to look at illegal websites any more, and you will have to KEEP your promise.

Good luck and best wishes! :-)

Answer 2

try and move with your dad or something. that is sad she would say that but you dont need her talking like that behind or in front of you take care.

Answer 3

Hmmm...so exactly what's the question?