Family & Relationships - 18 September 2007

I am a single mom,my ex-husband don't pay me child support.Where should I apply for help,in Illinois Child Support Enforcement or in my local court,or maybe both?

2007-09-18 13:51:38 · 9 answers · asked by kasia_1207 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-18 13:50:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...of a Christian woman who has been with her husband for 20 years, or should I leave well enough alone and just have a quiet, subtle affair with her on the side?

2007-09-18 13:49:25 · 10 answers · asked by Jack B, goodbye, Yahoo! 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14, 9th grade, taking 10th and 11th grade classes, one girl likes me, she's clingy and dramatic, i like another, but i don't want to jeportize my relationship with girl #2 by going out with her, my ex is trying to screw everything up for me, and i want to focuse on my school work, any advise???

2007-09-18 13:48:46 · 1 answers · asked by Trever 1 in Singles & Dating

Everyone I know that has gotten married to someone they met on the internet has ended up unhappy, and married to complete freaks. Is there a reason these people are dating on the internet or can you really meet some decent people?

2007-09-18 13:47:43 · 21 answers · asked by bree 3 in Singles & Dating

i want to something different. i wanna learn an instroment, but mummy wont pay for it. i have a guitar, ( named ryan) but hes broken, ( string snapped). i live an alternittive style, and have dew close friends and many aquientantences, ( i cant spell). help!!

2007-09-18 13:47:05 · 10 answers · asked by ana vampire 3 in Friends

I tend to think that if you see a boyfriend and girlfriend who have been in a relationship for lets say 5 years and are not getting married anytime soon it's because they are sexual partners. I don't think someone would stay with someone that long (unless they were very young when the relationship started) without being intimate. I think if you are intimate with someone it almost hinders things from going any further. Some people think why do I have to get married if we are almost in a sense living as if we are a married couple. Such as a cousin I have who will be 30 and she has been in a relationship for 8 years or more and they just got engaged last year and have no plans for a wedding anytime soon.

2007-09-18 13:46:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey ladies, other than a womens intuition, what are some things that your man might do to let you know he might be cheating.

2007-09-18 13:43:47 · 12 answers · asked by tamara b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what is the WORST that a women hate from men?

2007-09-18 13:42:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As a parent who thought my children were so aware of all the dangers of alcohol and drugs (through the D.A.R.E. program and ongoing heart-to-heart talks), it still happened. I suspect that reality shows and morgue visits might have actually had an impact, but D.A.R.E. was a softer program. Where did I end up getting support? Nar-Anon Family Groups! www.nar-anon.org

2007-09-18 13:42:23 · 1 answers · asked by tish 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

on there spouse which also is against thier culture...Dosen't make any sense? Why is this double standard allowed?

2007-09-18 13:40:44 · 25 answers · asked by AlphaFeGreatWhite 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-18 13:40:37 · 22 answers · asked by Seven 3 in Singles & Dating

What is more important family or Love?
I'm having a mid life crisis here! My husband doesn't appreciate that I want to be FREE!!! I want to go bra-less!!!
My teenage boyfriend appreciates me!!!
What do you think I should do???

2007-09-18 13:38:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Was if because it was the worst, most embarassing, or what?
Mine was my worst. I snuck out of school when I was little and when my parents found me at home I found myself getting the longest hardest spanking on my bare butt of my life.

2007-09-18 13:36:38 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole n 2 in Family

Okay lets take a husband for example since they are the BEST examples okay, he cheats like 4 to 15 times on his wife, the wife finally founds out and is furious but she whines and says "but I love you so much and I can’t let you go, please done cheat again!” the husband says “ I wont I promise” but he cheats again and again, once a cheater always a cheater

Don’t you people get it, people who cheat don’t have respect and do love you, what if the husband has unprotected sex all the freaken time with 69 different women then has the nerve to come home and have sex with you putting you in danger of getting STD’s that you have to suffer for the rest of your miserable life, is that love! I don’t think so. Why would you give them a second chance?

For one, they took marriage vows
While they were cheating they had a clear head about it
While they were cheating they were thinking about their spouse
And lastly they don’t care.

So what's the deal? All cheaters should be marked so that everybody can be warned

2007-09-18 13:32:46 · 32 answers · asked by 9-pounds-lighter 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not sure on what to do I've been married for less then 10months and well i do still love my husband but he wants to get divorce. My husband is in the military and well this is the situation. i got married with him everything was good until he ask me to stop talking to certain people wich i didn't and well he end up asking for the divorce. Well he never filled up the paper work and well i left the house because i couldn't take it anymore. He took everything away from me the car he keep everything and well i'm not sure what to do i've spoke to his sargernt major but that hasn't help i know i was suppost to be geeting paid which i never did, i know he got married with me and well he never reported the marriage. I'm not sure if to negotiate with him or go to a lawyer even do i don't have money for one. What can i do?

2007-09-18 13:29:49 · 3 answers · asked by Darkangel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-18 13:27:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Without fail, if someone asks about them on here, someone says not to have them at all. Personally, I think they are a nice way to break up a sometimes boring event, and I've never noticed ANYONE complaining about them. It seems as long as there aren't a ton of them and as long as they're fun, people enjoy them.

What are your feelings about them?

2007-09-18 13:27:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was at work today, I'm a cashier. A guy I used to work with, that I liked before I had a boyfriend stopped in only to get my phone number. It was 5 minutes before I was to go home, someone I had already rang up was complaining at me and the people next in line were getting impatient. He was just standing there, not buying anything, just making small talk when he asked for my number. I didn't want to explain to him why I couldn't give it to him, and embarrass him in front of his friends he used to work with, and I was just very stressed at the moment and busy so I just gave it to him. I won't go out with him because I'm pretty much engaged, but I want to be nice, he's a nice guy, and I did use to like him. He's going to call me soon, what should I say to him when he does?

2007-09-18 13:27:05 · 1 answers · asked by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 in Singles & Dating

Fashionable people call their children after the place where they were conceived:

Brooklyn Beckham.
Shiloh Jolie-Pitt.
Obviously, because they were conceived in "Brooklyn" and "Shiloh" respectively.
Do you think that everyone should follow suit?
What about:
Broom-Cupboard Becker?
After the little escapade by Boris and Model Angela Ermakova in a Japanese restaurant in London.
Perhaps we non-celebrities could join in :
What about :
"Back o' the Bike-shed Billy?"
"Table-ender Tommy?"
" Hire car Harry?"
"Principal's Office Priscilla?"
"Office Party Olive?"
"Water-cooler Walter?"
"Wedding rehearsal Wendy?"
"Back Porch Boris?"
Let me know what you think?
Have you got any ideas?

2007-09-18 13:26:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

attractive

2007-09-18 13:25:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she went to a party that had guys but they all went home at about 10 and so she thought it would be alright to drink well she got drunk and made out with a guy but she didn't know it till someone said it to me and i found a note in my locker about it so she got scared and called a friend that would know and he told her that she was kissing that guy.

what should i do??

we've been dating for almost one year and five months

i don't want to break up with her....what's your opinion?

2007-09-18 13:23:36 · 16 answers · asked by kyle m 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in Korea teaching english for almost 8 months now. I'm very homesick and depressed and want to go back home to visit my family. Will visiting my family just make me more homesick when I return to Korea? I have to return to Korea and then teach for another 4.5 months, so I'm afraid I will get homesick again or more homesick if I return to Korea, so don't know if I should go home for good or just visit ?

2007-09-18 13:21:49 · 1 answers · asked by felixnamts 2 in Family

If someone writes a email telling you how they feel about something, then puts the word "Ouch" at the end. What does this mean?

2007-09-18 13:21:46 · 8 answers · asked by charmed one 2 in Friends

We've only recently started talking. My friend mentioned to him he wrote on my facebook a lot, so she wondered if he liked me. He apparently looked around in a i've never thought of it way, and shook his head no. She then asked are you sure cause it seems like it, and he replied by looking around and thinking more then nodding yes. It think it was very random for him, so, I assume he hadnt thought of it, but he isn't against it, cause he didn't flat out say no. Any other opinions? Should we tell him I like him?

2007-09-18 13:19:43 · 1 answers · asked by allison 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

boys only could answer

2007-09-18 13:19:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you died right now what would be your last thoughts. Mine would be i failed in life and It looked like my time has come ive been waiting and dreading this day for so long and i hope ill be missed and never forgotten by my loved ones

2007-09-18 13:18:48 · 5 answers · asked by lost_soul 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to switch out of my history class but in order to do that, I need 3 signatures: my teacher, the department chairperson, and my parents. I also needed an excuse. My teacher is possibly the worst teacher ever. She can't teach at all. She talks all class long about everything but the lesson. Once she actually starts teaching, she thinks of something else to talk about. My excuse was "There are distractions in the class."I approached my teacher with the signature sheet and she refused to sign it. Instead, she moved my seat the next day across the room. How can I switch out without telling her the truth?

2007-09-18 13:13:40 · 1 answers · asked by Brandon M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf of over three years recently told me that she didn't think she was "in love" with me anymore. She is 6 years younger than me and I was her first serious relationship. She wants to go out and party and all that stuff.
She cheated on me with a girl and my gf now says she MIGHT be lez, but she's totally into girls right now.

The thing is I KNOW she was in love with me at some point and I am still in love with her. She hasn't been treating me very well lately and I'm starting to wonder if I should even WANT her back.

But I can't help it, I love her with all my heart and I can't imagine spending my life with anyone else, having kids with anyone else, or anything.......she is the ONE I was supposed to be with.
Now she wants to go see this girl. . .

I have a feeling that someday she MIGHT regret what she's doing to me and want me back. But what I REALLY want to know is. . .

How do I get past this pain? How do I let her go? Is it possible? I'm not sure I can make it

2007-09-18 13:13:29 · 12 answers · asked by Raven 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-18 13:06:25 · 1 answers · asked by Sarah72 2 in Singles & Dating