2007-09-18 13:27:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
if you want to marry him, say yes....if you don't want to marry him, say no!
2007-09-18 13:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by curly 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ya know what. I don't think that there is such a thing as you needing to wait a certain amount to get hitched. I don't think there is any minimum requirement. What does matter is that you both need to be on the same page mentally, emotionally, physically etc. What matters is that it feels right for both of you. Also you don't want to marry the wrong person either. If you are having doubts than tell him you need a little more time to establish a relationship. If you do get engaged that wait 8 months to actually tie the knot. I descent amount to wait is at least one year. Really your getting to know each other, and that takes months to achieve. Well I hope you make the right descion. You don't really know each other that well still, if you want to say yes, than say yes!! Well Good Luck!
2007-09-18 15:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on MANY things.... how old are you? Do you both have a job and are already financially independent and stable? Do you have the same goals in life (i.e. want kids and stuff)?? I think 4 months is a bit too soon to have found out all these things which are important to know about the guy you're planning to marry....... I do know about marriages who started off after only a few months or weeks (!) of dating, but I don't think it's ideal..... If you're asking what you should answer, it means YOU are NOT ready and this wasn't in your plans.... so I'd give it more time, what's the rush??? You have plenty of time to date and find out if you 2 are meant to be together...... good luck.
2007-09-18 13:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lprod 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the answer is really what you want it to be. If you really love him and honestly believe that your marriage would work then there is really nothing stopping you. However if you still doubts on the relationship then definetly let him down gently. If you have concerns just explain to him that you love him and would like to marry him in the future but at this stage in the relationship you just cannot say yes. Good luck with your decision
2007-09-18 13:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are here asking any questions at all about this your answer is No. You need to tell him that this is way too soon and he needs to slow things down. If it is true tell him that you are not yet ready to marry anyone. Thank him and tell him you are flattered. here might be time to spell out to him what your feelings towards him are. Be nice and try to let him know that you are not rejecting him as much as realizing that you need to do some more growing before you are ready for the huge step of marriage.
2007-09-18 14:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This needs to be your decision not ours! But since you are asking us my guess is say no for now! Is this the man you are ready to spend the rest of your life with? Can you handle waking up to him every morning and going to bed with him every night? Is he responsable and able to provide for you and in the future you family? Is he going to be a good dad? Do you want to have kids with him? Is he everything and more that you ever hoped or dreamed of in a husband?
Do you really and truly love him...would you give up your life for him? (That is true love) If no or questionable to any of these questions...there is your answer.
There is even so much more than just those few questions. There is so much to marriage. Four months is not enough time to know for sure.
2007-09-18 13:37:54 · answer #6 · answered by jhg 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You tell him that you are not ready to enter that kind of commitment yet....or you can tell him yes but that you want a long engagement.
It has nothing to do with how long you have been together, but the mere fact that you are asking what you should do means you are not sure enough to say YES. When the time is right for you to marry him (or anybody else) you will not need to ask or care what anybody else's answer would be.
2007-09-18 13:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by pspoptart 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and want to marry him. . . eventually, then say yes. Tell him that you would like to be engaged for another 6 months or more before you start planning a wedding and for 2 year before you get married.
2007-09-18 13:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Luv2Answer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really love him and if you think that hes the one then marry him. If you dont think you are ready yet ask him to wait a few more years or get engage first. Good Luck.
2007-09-18 16:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by :DDDDDD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, say you need more time in this relationship, and frankly, who asks you to marry them in such a short period of time; only celebrities or movies and these marriages most of the time don't succeed. no offense to ppl that did get married that fast. I say take a deep breath and do it for the best interest for you and him. You want to test him more, its easy to get carried away... Good luck
2007-09-18 13:36:46 · answer #10 · answered by TweetyPie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too early. You have to know him more. More than being with him in nice places and having a good time together. Btw, how old are you and you're bf? You don't have to hurry if your're still young.
2007-09-18 13:46:24 · answer #11 · answered by C2Duo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋