What support is available to parents whose children use drugs anyway?

Question

As a parent who thought my children were so aware of all the dangers of alcohol and drugs (through the D.A.R.E. program and ongoing heart-to-heart talks), it still happened. I suspect that reality shows and morgue visits might have actually had an impact, but D.A.R.E. was a softer program. Where did I end up getting support? Nar-Anon Family Groups! www.nar-anon.org

I did feel all alone and had wished for a "MADD" type organization where I could get angry and get revenge against drugs and drug addicts. That was when I thought they were the problem in my children's lives. The problem really was in my children's choices and my reactions to their choices......I became as crazy (with worry and fear) as they did in using meth, cocaine and pills.

Could I have stopped them? Perhaps as teens I could have forced them into private rehab schools. When they reached adulthood, I had to "let go" of their insane chaos and seek out my own life....that's when I sought out and found Nar-Anon Family Groups. Now I know, regardless of their choices, I need to create my own life; and, on my own terms. I waited too long to walk through the door of my first meeting; what are you waiting for? Blessings!!!

Answer 1

Other than those programs such as DARE and NA,AA etc. As parents you get little support. Is unfortunate and out of 15 years plus in this area it hasn't gotten any better. You are pretty much on your own. It does help to talk to other parents that are going through the same torment but I think the parents need their own counselors if you will. At least you get to speak your mind and not have to worry whether what you say is appropriate or not. Doing drugs sure as hell isn't appropriate either. Programs need to be revamped completely and the kids need to be held acountable more than what they are. Great question.