she went to a party that had guys but they all went home at about 10 and so she thought it would be alright to drink well she got drunk and made out with a guy but she didn't know it till someone said it to me and i found a note in my locker about it so she got scared and called a friend that would know and he told her that she was kissing that guy.
what should i do??
we've been dating for almost one year and five months
i don't want to break up with her....what's your opinion?
2007-09-18 13:23:36 · 16 answers · asked by kyle m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She didnt mean too
SHe was under the influence of alcohol...
Dont worry about it..
did they have sex..no so dont worry
buddy it was just a mistake that she did..
where were you ..where u invited... ???
Its prob. nuttin dnt worry .. just forget and forgive... life will be simple for you if you do so...
good luck
~helpful lil me~
Corrine
2007-09-18 13:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Corrine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only answer is what do you want to do?
Can you trust her?
People do all sorts of silly things when they are drunk, the question is how do you feel about it.
You're decision will rest on what you feel about the whole thing, considering this is reasonably minor in the cheating stakes, you have to decide whether you can trust you're girlfriend again.
You are both young and you will both make mistakes, life will go on regardless of what you decide, but you have to decide what you will do about it.
Some people make a mistake once and are genuinely sorry for it, other people are serial cheaters and do it again and again.
If you want my opinion, give it another try, get over it and if she does anything like that again, dump her big time.
Otherwise you might find yourself wondering how things would have been if you had stayed together.
But what you do really has to be in line with how you feel about the whole thing. Give it some serious thought.
Hope this helps.
Good luck.
2007-09-18 20:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like she intentionally made out with this guy, it sounds like that guy took advantage of her drunken nature. You can look at it a couple of different ways: yous have been together for awhile so, you could resolve to tell her not to drink unless you are with her (yous sound underage so, you shouldn't be drinking anyway) and that should be it. Or since yous are young, you can take this as a cue that she might not be 'the one' and find someone new. Yous are young and there are plenty more fish in the sea. If you are still in high school then the world is your oyster and you have so much ahead of you. No sense in wasting time being unhappy. Go with what your heart is telling you.
2007-09-18 20:32:02 · answer #3 · answered by What's good? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still trying to get through the part about her going to a party without you and getting THAT drunk.
I'm sure SHE feels really bad about it, but you didn't say if she'd expressed regret/remorse over this incident to you. If she has, then I'd say let it go.
Has she acted like she wants to break up with you? I'd guess she hasn't.
Have you and she TALKED about this incident at all, or just kinda avoided it cause you didn't want to possibly break out in an argument over it?
I really think you and her discussing it...bringing it out in the open and agreeing that it was something neither of you like, but you know it's not going to happen anymore would be helpful...and then, hopefully, you both can get over it and get back to the business of loving one another as a couple.
Good luck to you both.
2007-09-18 20:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater... She should have been with you not at a party getting drunk... there are no Excuses for this at all...
That's as stupid as saying well I was in a different zip code.... WTF!!!
Your a better person and deserve someone better... Sorry Hun I would let her go...
2007-09-18 20:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by x_crayola_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she probably remembers more about that night than she is letting on. How did she make out with a guy if they had all gone home? You definately need to evaluate your relationship, and decide if you believe her story or not. It sounds to me like she did something stupid, and got caught.
2007-09-18 20:30:37 · answer #6 · answered by Alaskan Dragonfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to comfront her and ask her if she was ever aware of what happened that nite. I know that things happen when alcohol is involved. I think you should forgive her if you know in your heart she is being true and sincere to you when you confront her about the about that incident.
2007-09-18 20:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Zana*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you like to be a second fiddle ....You have the right girl to have a wild ride Next time it will be lot more than just kissing
2007-09-18 20:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drinking lowers inhibitions of things you probably want to do and wouldn't under normal circumstances. The problem is, she probably wanted to do it. You can forgive her, just remember your young, she's young, if she drinks again, it could easily happen again.
2007-09-18 20:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, what the heck are you even waiting for?
To actually catch her in bed naked with someone else?
Grow so freakin' ballz, cowboy the f*ck up and move on already. NOW!
2007-09-18 20:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋