Family & Relationships - 18 September 2007

i'm applying to college right now. (i live with my uncle) and he is telling me that i cannot go to college, he won't let me. I wanna get out there and be independent. Do i have a right to be upset?


Oh and one more question. Could i get a full scholorship based on hardship? My dad died when i was a baby, mom got in a car accident currently in rehab for a head injury, lived wtih grandma she passed when i was in 8th grade and now i live withmy uncle. We kinda have low income.. i have a 3.2 GPA and 22 ACT. Is there anyway i could get a FULL ride to college based on this?

2007-09-18 12:22:59 · 32 answers · asked by This is me. 1 in Family

ever since sixth grade ive known this girl and she was always antisex, now we're in high school. ok so we're on the bus sitting next to eachother. we're telling jokes and laughing and stuff then i drop my book right under her side of the seat, so i go down and get it. as i did my head must have hit something cause she gave out this moan. so i look up and she out of the blue kisses me. im lik ?????? awesome so we are sitting there makin out and then its my time to get off so i do. SO i started walking towards my house and when i get to my porch i notice shes right behind me. She says wanna ****. and i dont say a thing. i walk into my house and she fallows. right when we walked in she takes off her top i cant believe it the girl who was so antisexual was giving me oral sex. well anyways after having sex for only about 15 minutes she left and a couple days later she calls me and says lets do it again and idk if i should cause she is my dads friends daughter. Should i do her or is it wrng?

2007-09-18 12:11:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I put my mom in a nursing home due to her Alzheimers and feel guilty about it every day. She cried and cried and still does. Support groups help, was wondering how other people cope with this situation.

2007-09-18 12:09:47 · 6 answers · asked by Don Drapers woman 6 in Family

There is this married woman at work who is having an affair with another married co-worker. Since i started there she seems to think something is going on between me and this guy just because we talk now and again,she slams doors and has threatened me a couple of times warning me not to mess with her etc. I tried being nice but she likes making me feel uncomfortable when she's around. If she is jealous why make it so obvious?she also made a comment the first day she met me saying the men there would love me,is she jealous of me?why would a grown woman act childish,she is like over 20 years older than me!

2007-09-18 12:05:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a lovely guy in my english class who over the past year i have only really spoken to once at a party. Over the past week there has been a lot of eye contact going on between eyes. Nothing obvious but we do catch each others glances a lot and i always try to smile and be polite to him. Today he came and sat with me but i was really quiet and didn't no what really to say, i also was quite sarcastic with him and i dont think he appreciated it! I am too shy to go up to him and chat but is there anyway i can get his attention again. Have i lost the chance? How can i grab his eye again whilst being myself?

2007-09-18 12:05:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't stand living like this anymore!! My house is ALWAYS messy, my mom says she wants a clean house all the time, yet I'm the only one who takes the time to make it happen. There are days when I'll spend 10+ straight hours cleaning, and no one helps me (and 2 days later its the same way it was before!!). My 16 year old brother is so lazy and moans and complains about having to do any cleaning whatsoever, he leaves his trash everywhere and it's so frustrating.
My dad is like my brother to some extent, so he's no help. I'm only 15 and I don't have the authority to force them to clean. Yet I'm so sick of living in a pigstye I'll spend most of my time stuck in my room.
The worst part is I'm ashamed when people comeover, and I feel bad because I can never invite my friends over spontaneously, I have to have at least two days notice.
Its so tiring living like this, please, I need help! How can I convince my family to help clean, or at least MAINTAIN what I've done. This can't be normal.

2007-09-18 12:04:43 · 12 answers · asked by ~Jenny 3 in Family

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2007-09-18 12:04:06 · 13 answers · asked by KAILY. 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you think it's possible for a christian who's a very strong believer and an atheist to have a strong, long-lasting relationship?

2007-09-18 12:02:57 · 10 answers · asked by fun_mama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like I always here guys talking about omg, look at those girls making out, thats so hot....wats so like entriguing?? oh, and y in the world do guys like porn?? KEEP IT PG-13!!!

2007-09-18 11:58:12 · 10 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

well...what do all the little flirty things you do actually MEAN? i'm having such a hard time understanding this one guy at school. he sorta flirts, but i'm not sure!! please explain your mind to me!!

2007-09-18 11:57:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This summer my kids went to visit their father. My kids often slept in the living room because they didn't like sharing bedrooms with their three step sisters.

One night while sleeping on the couch my 12 yr old daughter got up to use the bathroom only to witness her father masturbating to internet porn. She was so scared and snuck out of the room. Her Dad didn't see her because he was "busy" doing other things.

I am currently filing for full custody because of this issue and many others. Has anyone ever dealt with an issue like this before? Why would a father risk exposing his children to himself masturbating and to pornography?

My daughter is devastated and never wants to see him again. Thats fine with me but I'm also worried about my son's being exposed to this behavior at such a young age. Any advice?

2007-09-18 11:55:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've always been told I'm a picky dater. Well there's this guy I like and it has to be pretty obvious. I just wanna know if maybe he's not asking my out cause he thinks I'll turn him down because I'm so picky. HELP GUYS!! PLEASE!!

2007-09-18 11:53:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

From someone you care about.

2007-09-18 11:51:36 · 18 answers · asked by sunshine&smiles 5 in Friends

I approve of her relationship, she dated her boyfriend for 1-1/2 years and moved in with him about 6 months ago and they are very happy together. They live about 100 miles from us. My husband on the other hand is ashamed (hasn't told that to her but has told me) and thinks it is an act of desperation -thats how he feels about couples in general who live together without being married. When we were going to visit her for her birthday last week, we had to go to a restaurant instead of having a barbeque at their house, as he was 'uncomfortable' being in her home. I told him to accept it and love her unconditionally but he behaves like a spoiled child about it. I think he is embarrassed that 'someone' may find out... How do I deal with him?

2007-09-18 11:41:37 · 7 answers · asked by Sophiesmama 6 in Family

Say you were in a bad relationship, and felt yourself drifting more and more towards just getting out. This person played you, and you stayed, but you discovered your self worth and realized you CAN be happy by yourself. You were already headed on the way out. In the meantime, you meet someone, and kind of become attached to them. An amazing person with an incredible sense of thought and conversation, and sensuality. You know they most likely won't ever get out of what they're in, even though they are unhappy too, and not getting what they deserved? Do you just chalk it up as "oh well....it was nice conversation?" (This would NOT entail cheating on a current spouse..that would have ended first) What woud you do? Nothing?

2007-09-18 11:39:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My suitemate, we share a bathroom, has a calostomy bag and she empties it in the toilet like 3 times a day. The problem is that, even though the bathroom window is open and the door to my room is closed, the smell fills my room with the most disgusting odor I've ever smelled in my life! It's sooOOOooo strong and horrible.

It's so embarassing when it happens and we have people over. I know she can't help it, but no one should ever have to have that strong of an odor fill their room for that long of a time! I've talked to my RA about it...but no one knows what to do and the smell doesn't really even bother the girl that's creating it!

HELP PLEASE! I'm in need of any answer or advice you can give!
Thank you!

2007-09-18 11:35:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I don't want the typical wedding vows to love, honor and cherish til death til we part as I've been married 2 times before and obviously don't know what forever means. Any ideas?

2007-09-18 11:34:21 · 5 answers · asked by Gr8estluv 3 in Weddings

any suggestions...... places gifts.......xxx thanksss

2007-09-18 11:27:32 · 12 answers · asked by Smilez 1 in Family

to be maintained if he or she takes a secret lover? How important is the part about 'cheating' (REALLY)?

2007-09-18 11:27:04 · 32 answers · asked by captbullshot 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My best guy friend will be called E.
The annoying guy with a possible crush on me will be called A.

Anyway, my guy friend, E, is always getting riled up with A, who is the typical immature boy.

A is always stealing my stuff and touching my hair and poking me.

E always gets very mad when this happens and steals A's stuff. They get into one of their immature boy stealing wars.
Now A also annoys E especially by saying he likes me.

E responds by stealing A's stuff.

E just really dislikes A.

What is E's problem?

Please help, all these boy problems are just beyond me.

Again, What is my guy friend's problem with A?

Yes, A is annoying, but E is now normally the one who steals A's stuff first now. He is always starting arguements with A.

Whenever A is around E just gets all riled up.

WHAT is E's problem?

2007-09-18 11:24:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is a guy that is always annoying me. I'm gonna call him A.
Well A is always pulling at my hair or touching it, or stealing my jacket, or other immature boy things that apparently they think girls like.
But I don't know if he's doing it to annoy me or because he likes me.
A does this to one other girl and my best guy friend.
What do you think?

2007-09-18 11:24:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I started out very casual... Embarrased to say it but it was basically friends with benifits. This went on for a few months but then I decided I wanted someone more. He always told me he didnt want anything serious. So for a few months after that we didnt talk... I tried dating and nothing really serious came out of that for one reason or another. Then he called me out of the blue one night and he was upset. He said he missed me and that he missed not just the sex but the other little things. Making dinner together, going out, sleeping in on the weekend etc. So he said he wanted to be serious he was ready to settle down and all of that. He's military and had to go to Germany but asked me to marry him and I told him when he got home that we could talk more about it and that I'd love to be with him. Two weeks of being over there he calls to say he doesnt know about anything anymore... And now he'll be home for Thanksgiving and wants to work it out... Is he for real?

2007-09-18 11:23:27 · 1 answers · asked by Rebecca H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 11:23:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Everytime i ask her to go out she say shes tired or just dont feel like going anywhere but she goes out every tuesday with her friends. She dont want to go to the movie, out to eat, or anything. Im sick of it. i know shes not cheating or anything because other than tuesday night we are always together at my house. Im 24 she 30 she use to date older guys im the youngest guy she ever dated. Can that have something to do with it? I just dont understand. I feel like the girl in the relationship because its the other way around. My friends say i should be happy because i dont have to spend money but i want to and i dont mine I love her and i want to show her to the world if she would let me. How do i deal with this? Why wont she go any where with me?

2007-09-18 11:03:33 · 14 answers · asked by stinkyrichdad 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been hanging out for awhile and it took him a month to make a move. I thought things would move forword from there but we've been moving backwards. i don't want to give up on him but he's being a complete d!ck when we hang out. His best friend who is also one of my good friends insists he likes me. What is his deal? I need to move on right??

were both sophmores in college. i would think things would be less childish.

and by dick i mean I'll go to hang out with him and then he'll just ignore me. i'm like "hello i'm here to see you!"

2007-09-18 11:00:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have 3 brothers & 3 sisters. I'm the youngest & my mother always said I was an accident lol

2007-09-18 11:00:13 · 11 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

I never really wanted to ever do that to myself so i was wondering how the two compare. Depending on the feedbak I might wanna start lol.

2007-09-18 10:59:52 · 1 answers · asked by Eason W 5 in Singles & Dating

she was at her older sisters birth of the child and has been with her ever since then. She bought the crib for the child for goodness sake! But, now her other younger sister has moved back to the city (whom is the godparent to older sister 1st baby). this would be the second child baptized by the same sister to the older sister children. So, should she be upset she was not asked , be dissaponted or say nothing?

2007-09-18 10:59:51 · 2 answers · asked by buddy 1 in Family

like i meant my real dad and brother and sister and my 2real step sisters.and im confused about everything that is goin out with them!!!and i feel like evrything is goin fast with them!!!and ive been stressed out because of everything!!and idk what to do!!!how do i learn how to except everything??that is goin on with my real dad??and how do i take things slowy??

2007-09-18 10:58:21 · 3 answers · asked by kea234 1 in Family

My HTB and I are paying for the wedding ourselves and doing all of the work. It may be a rude question but should we be buying our parents gifts?

2007-09-18 10:58:15 · 7 answers · asked by Angela O 5 in Weddings