like i meant my real dad and brother and sister and my 2real step sisters.and im confused about everything that is goin out with them!!!and i feel like evrything is goin fast with them!!!and ive been stressed out because of everything!!and idk what to do!!!how do i learn how to except everything??that is goin on with my real dad??and how do i take things slowy??
2007-09-18 10:58:21 · 3 answers · asked by kea234 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sometimes taking a step back and out of the situation for a while can really help with family problems and issues.
Is there a relative or friend you can stay with for a few days, while you have a quiet think about what is going on for your family members?
If you are needed at home, perhaps you could talk to a telephone or online counsellor who might be able to help you work things out?
Here is a service which is free, and which you can talk to on the internet:
http://www.samaritans.org.uk/
They are UK based, but very reputable and would probably be able to help you find a local service if you prefer.
In the meantime, try not to get too caught up in what is happening for your family members.
Of course you are involved because you care for them, but you are not responsible for them, especially the adults. Maybe you could focus on helping the younger ones stay cared for and safe?
Adults need to make their own decisions, with your help and support, yes, but that does NOT mean you are responsible for their choices.
Take care and best wishes :-)
2007-09-18 13:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by thing55000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure but you met your dad. well that is great. hes introduced you to your real brother and sister and now hes got 2 step sisters you met they are also actually sisters you dont' have to say step unless you want just take it in stride. i mean you must be living with mom and that is good to know them it takes time but you'll be fine. i mean its just parts of real family that you didnt' know i am sure you will be ok its alot to take in so quick but its only way to meet it head on and take care.
2007-09-21 21:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure exactly how to answer this. It seems that you are troubled by some changes in your family. Let them all know how you feel
2007-09-18 20:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋