Everytime i ask her to go out she say shes tired or just dont feel like going anywhere but she goes out every tuesday with her friends. She dont want to go to the movie, out to eat, or anything. Im sick of it. i know shes not cheating or anything because other than tuesday night we are always together at my house. Im 24 she 30 she use to date older guys im the youngest guy she ever dated. Can that have something to do with it? I just dont understand. I feel like the girl in the relationship because its the other way around. My friends say i should be happy because i dont have to spend money but i want to and i dont mine I love her and i want to show her to the world if she would let me. How do i deal with this? Why wont she go any where with me?
2007-09-18 11:03:33 · 14 answers · asked by stinkyrichdad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a girlfriend like that once, I think they just like cuddling... its a bit annoyng but hey on the plus side its really cheap. At the age of 30 she may just enjoy staying in more than she used to. Your 24 going out to eat drink see a movie or party may still seem fun, but she probably just doesn't find it that interesting. But my guess is shes just likes to be home and comfortable with you. Could be wrong who knows.
2007-09-18 11:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by scorch_22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a healthy relationship, and that doesn't include the age difference.
Tell her how you really feel, but don't come out as a whiner. There's nothing wrong with expressing yourself.
Good relationships are never limited like that. First acknowledge that ending the relationship and moving on is a very possible option. Thoroughly consider it, but not before talking to her and really thinking about it.
Good luck.
2007-09-18 11:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by shaankl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.)She could be embarrassed by dating a much younger guy(although the age difference is not too bad) and may not want to be seen in public.
2.)She is using you for what's at your place(whether it be cool gadgets or sex or both)
3.)She feels obligated to spend time with you, but just doesn't know what to do and maybe you should break up
4.)She may be depressed and need help if she never wants to go out.
Take your pick, there could be any number of reasons that she is acting the way she is.
2007-09-18 11:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me maybe she suffers from depression, if not then just maybe that's how her other relationships were and she thinks it is normal... Maybe this is how her environment at home was when she was growing up... Also maybe she's afraid to fall in love cuz she has had her heart broken one to many times... it could be lots of things hang in there,just talk to her to see if she needs some help.. People suffer from depression and don't know it until it's controlling their life...
2007-09-18 11:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by lonely in ILLINOIS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things are all changing now, guys have the freedom to act as we waqnt. Um, if it's important to you then tell her..... I'm 11 years married now and everything's nice and comfy but if my wife was doing something I thought unreasonable then I'd pull all stunts including sulking, not speaking, crying, anything that worked. I normally get my way but then I only do it if it's really important. Actually I allways get my way. But then she does the same to me, and I give in to her, too, if i can.
2007-09-18 11:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by Put_ya_mitts_up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's treating you like an old toy, she plays w/ you when nobody else is around, but hides you from her friends so she won't get embarassed and teased. Is that how you want it to be your whole life?
2007-09-18 11:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by qtpie16707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if she doesn't want to be seen with you in public. Perhaps she feels it looks strange that she is dating a guy that is so much younger than her.
2007-09-18 11:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by Truth is elusive 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is cheating on you....but other than that why would you want a girl like that????? if she aint guna spend time with u then dont give her the time of day of your life!...move on..4get her....find sum1 else who will appreciate u more.....oh and i also think she just uses u for sex so yea u shud cutt it off with her....
2007-09-18 11:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but this kind of sounds like she just wants to lay down with you a.k.a have sex.. just talk to her and tell her how you feel. dont be scared
2007-09-18 11:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Shayna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to her about it and see what she says. Other than that you can't force her to go out with you or coax her to because that would be annoying.
2007-09-18 11:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by Rainn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋