Family & Relationships - 18 September 2007

Let me start by saying that I love my wife to death, for real, I think she's sexy as hell, and I'm always trying to get her to have sex. But she is abit overweight. I don't care one freakin bit, i like some meat on em', as long as she's healthy, ya know.
But she hates the way she looks, no matter how much I tell her. She said she doesn't like to have sex too often cuz she said she doesn't feel good about herself, I quote "cuz I'm a fatass". I exercise often for martial arts, and the second I mentioned any exercises she could do, she gets pissed off saying, i quote "I don't need advice from a toothpick" and dismissing everything i say, saying what I do couldn't work for her, she couldn't keep up, yadda, yadda, yadda. I even said to get an appointment with a doctor or someone who could give her a "diet plan" she'll listen to anyone....but me. why? after all this, she still does nothing about it, and we have the same conversation a month later..............What do I do?

2007-09-18 18:15:09 · 26 answers · asked by Tapout 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who I am in currently in a relationship with, but the problem is that he is married, and his wife wants them to get back together. However he doesn't want to get back with her, he says that he wants to stay with me. But I don't want to get in the way of them possibly getting back together. So I have decided to keep him just as one of my guy friends. He is having problems with this because he says that I am hurting him, by doing this. He says that he loves me, and I seriously believe him. Here's the other catch I am married, but I am in the middle of a divorce. I don't want to stand in the way of any marriage getting back together. I care about him, but I am not in love with him. My husband wants us to get back together, because he still loves me. I need advice. What should I do?

2007-09-18 18:12:23 · 18 answers · asked by Jordan Is My Love 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a excellent daughter she's 15 how much freedom should i give her? good grades vice president of the freshman class she good

2007-09-18 18:10:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My bf and I have been together 5 months, he has asked me to meet his parents for dinner next week and also invited me away with him and friends to a huge party for 2 nights over new years.. Does this sound like his serious about me or not necessarily?

2007-09-18 18:07:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just bought a nice conversion van, and I'm moving out of my apartment.

How do my chances look?

2007-09-18 18:07:10 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to get to know him better?

2007-09-18 18:05:01 · 1 answers · asked by Izusa CM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do pple enojoy it ....? or u kinda look at it in a sick way?

i personally tried it,but i can never do it with anyone , i need to know the girl well , how clean she is and how much she take care of her self and them maybe,but its not like an every occasion thing once a while.

2007-09-18 18:04:18 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i texted this girl i know for 3 years to go to homecoming. But i dont know anything about propal dances? Like do i pick her up or do i meet her there. do i need any presents or not please fill me in!!

2007-09-18 18:01:07 · 11 answers · asked by almedmat 2 in Singles & Dating

So how can I show up at his house .. Should I bring something. My best friend is going with me and he lives with three other guys. i have been there before and we are pretty good friends. is this ok and what can i bring

2007-09-18 18:00:58 · 5 answers · asked by nikki_19_17 1 in Singles & Dating

im meeting up with a girl tomorrow ..and
ive always been bad with talking...and id always have like no topic at all
help me out

2007-09-18 18:00:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend have been together for seven months and her parents do not like me and they made us break up. they want her to date this other guy that they like but she doesnt want to. if i went over and talked to them and told them i only have good intentions with her and that i have been getting closer to god (big issue with them) do you think that would cause them to rethink? or is there no hope?

2007-09-18 17:57:25 · 22 answers · asked by Richie P 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl at work, but she doesn't like me. Now I want to make her hate me so I can forget her completely.

I don't want her to talk to me out of pity and I don't want her to do weird things to confuse me. The problem is, she seems interested 1 day and then the next day like I don't even exist.

So... how do I make her hate me without affecting work?

2007-09-18 17:54:36 · 13 answers · asked by DomNix 4 in Singles & Dating

and when was your first boyfriend/girlfriend. Im just wondering. So yeah... for me it was 3 weeks ago (boyfriend wise) and i think hes gonna kiss me 2morrow :D yay lol. oh and im in 7th grade

2007-09-18 17:52:07 · 13 answers · asked by Madison K 2 in Singles & Dating

I been hanging out with my ex husbands friends and one of his guy friends want to hook up. However I told him it would not be right and that it mess up the friendship we have made. He is a great guy.

2007-09-18 17:51:53 · 9 answers · asked by italian Queen Bitch 1 in Singles & Dating

else. Should I confront myself or just look the other way?

2007-09-18 17:51:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I once dated a guy who wore these tiny little hoop earrings and when I asked him what it meant he said it didn't mean anything. But alot of his friends wears them too. And I know that there's a belief out there that one earring in a particular ear (I forget whether it's the left or the right) means something. So, does anyone know what an earring in each ear tells you about a guy?

2007-09-18 17:49:48 · 7 answers · asked by Jayla 1 in Singles & Dating

im a bit of a procrastinator (sp) i know ive been married over 2 years now. and due to all the moving (6 times in 2 yrs)and my husbands deployments thankz to the army life :o) i havent had the time or hardly even thought about changing my name. but b4 my husband deploys again soon i wanna go and change my last name b4 he leaves. what do i need to do EXACTLy?? thank u for ur answers in advance :)
(we were married in arizona but currently live in louisana just in case thats a factor)

2007-09-18 17:45:56 · 12 answers · asked by arizonamommy23 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is in the airforce and I'm so depressed and lonely, I live in Fort Walton and I have 2 friends here, because all the other wives went home with there families, but I couldn't because I live on base and have to keep up the lawn. I just break down all of the time. Please words of wisdom thanks

2007-09-18 17:45:42 · 6 answers · asked by Barbara 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband likes to download pic of women , naked ,with lagerie , ect. i cant understand why can anyone tell me please.

2007-09-18 17:45:01 · 10 answers · asked by lv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is addicted to porn and has taken photos of unsupecting women's asses while the kids were with him on outings. He is also physically violent at times. Refuses to get therapy of any kind. Should I prevent him to the extreme him never seeing our kids again or should I go for joint custody?

2007-09-18 17:42:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am starting to see that i have control issues with my boyfriend, i dont have much trust and am always so scared that he is going to hook up with another girl, he has really never gave me an excuse to be like this, but i mean i will put off even seeing my family so that i know where he is when he gets off work, i dont want to be like this... (we live together) what do i do how can i change this?

2007-09-18 17:41:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please answer if you are divorced for reasons other than infidelity, physical abuse or drug abuse.

What happened to split you up? Have you moved on? How long were you married? Do you regret it?

2007-09-18 17:41:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My spouse has recently been in the hospital for a couple of months now. We have three children and I am the only one working at the moment. I live in Texas and am in need of TANF and food stamps, maybe even welfare. I work a lot and am unable to visit these offices in person so my only other choise is to either mail in an application for approval, or to do it online. Is there a way for me to submit an application online? If I have to mail in the application, would I be able to receive benefits without having to visit the office location? Is there any information or thoughts you might have that might help me regarding assistance with clothing, food, paying bills, etc. Please answer nicely, no rude comments about my situation or anything about shoulda, coulda, woulda....Looking for help. Thank you and God bless.

2007-09-18 17:38:52 · 4 answers · asked by richards150 2 in Family

There is a guy I know that we had a thing for about 2 weeks. Not really a huge deal. But we were friends for about 3 Months before we stated dating. Then last Monday he stopped talking to me. Out of the blue. I tried to talk to him via texting and calling several times and he never awsered. then today I finally had enough and decided to go see him where he works (Safeway) I told him I was sick of the silent treatment and all he said was he didn't want a relationship right now. I told him I didn't deserve to be treated like crap and all he said was sorry. So what do I do now. Just not talk to him? Ever? For a while? Ask him why no relationship? I really have no idea what to do and I can't seem to just walk away and I keep thinking about him. What should I do? How should I react?

2007-09-18 17:35:04 · 13 answers · asked by kel_625 2 in Singles & Dating

She sucks at playing Halo, and Halo 3 is coming out soon. I need all my free time to spend playing it; all she does is eat up my time. Who wants to go out everyday? I don't want to meet new people. Can't I just stay home and play Halo in peace.

2007-09-18 17:32:36 · 24 answers · asked by Lonewolf 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay, this isn't a weird fetish thing; I'm curious how many people you have personally had sex with. No worries about judgment- just be honest.

For myself, the grand total is only 1. And I'm 23. I know I'm in the minority, but what do you think is the norm?

2007-09-18 17:32:12 · 45 answers · asked by asphaltambience 2 in Singles & Dating

ok this is what is going on... check in for updates i may think of something else im so confused right now... ok my live in boyfriend of almost 4 years told me today that he was going to leave me if i couldnt get over what he did to me ... a short summary of what happened was this, an x got in touch with him after 2 years and he told me he didnt know what he wanted, he ended up kissin her and eventually decided this is where he wanted to be, but he told me that he stayed cause i was hurting so bad.. witch hurt even more cause i wanted to hear i stayed cause i love you and i want to be with you... what do i doooooooooo

2007-09-18 17:32:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not a native English speaker.
Suppose someone asks you your love status and you reply saying " I'm on my way" What does it mean??

I found this on netlog.com

2007-09-18 17:30:42 · 7 answers · asked by Tammy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this may be long but i need input.

I'm changing my life.. for the past 4 years i got chatting online in the yahoo astronomy room. I'm a house mouse.
i got a chance to become an astronomer and work ( not paid for free but don't mind and i love it) for observatories online and I got my bachelors from online courses . I'm going for my masters and they have me teaching an observing the night sky
class as a student teacher class .
I LOVE IT !! even though i don't have any friends ( or know anyone else into astronomy from living on the internet)
i would love to teach people how to use a telescope and enjoy learning the night sky at night in my backyard.

Well since chat rooms we have been connected on closed so no more friends online. But i feel good about it because i've been wanting to enjoy living again , being out with people and have real friends. my mom said as one door closes another one opens and i'm like ..hmm could that door be teaching people the night sky ??

2007-09-18 17:30:03 · 4 answers · asked by Joey 1 in Friends

I had a conversation about this topic this weekend. I myself am overweight for my height so I am not picking on anybody in particular. It just seems that whenever you hear a person say their husband/wife is jealous and controlling and always accusing them of cheating ... it is because they are overweight or have very low self-esteem.

You don't typically see or hear of women that look like Beyonce or Eva Longoria worrying that their man is straying. What are your thoughts?

2007-09-18 17:29:13 · 16 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 in Marriage & Divorce