Family & Relationships - 18 September 2007

She took my car without asking me. She was given her own car, a Honda Civic. She is a new driver, she's had her license for less than half a year, and has been driving on her own for about 2 months.

Two weeks ago, when I was napping, she took my G35 coupe, which has almost 3 times the horsepower than the late model Civic, and picked up her friends and went to the mall.

I just found out now when one of her friends told me. The G is a difficult car for new drivers to handle, I don't want her hurting herself, it's a completely different car than the Civic, on top of that I usually leave "safeties" like traction and stability control off....had the car started to drift, she wouldn't know how to control the drift.

How should I make it clear that this isn't to happen again? I have let her drive my car before, but with me in it, and with the safeties on.

2007-09-18 17:28:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 16 and my boyfriend just turned 21. I have been with him for three years and known him all of my life, so don't think that this relationship is just for sex. Anyways, I want to know if it is illegal or legal for us to have sex. Many people say yes and many say no.. I want the truth and I need proof. I've been trying to look it up but I cant find anything. Will someone please help me? I would really appreciate it! I will help you if you help me!

2007-09-18 17:26:03 · 7 answers · asked by Shayna 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my gf went to Hong Kong together to work and stay.

Recently we are facing a lot of pressure adapting new environment and we argue alot. She was really sad these days. Suddenly, from a friend of her, I know that there is a guy keep calling my gf and say very sweet thing and ask her to go out. My gf told her friend that she did think about going out with that guy but she is feeling sad and guilty on doing that. Although she didn't really go out with the other guy, she did think about it. I was kinda sad and I know i did really wrong on having such bad temper and always forced her to do this and that.

I decided to talk to her about this. She said she already made the choice of not thinking about that guy again. She apologized for not telling me the truth.

Should I trust her again and try to solve our problems? I guess i have to get rid of my bad temper and treasure her more. I guess i kinda take it for granted after dating my gf for 4 years.

2007-09-18 17:23:25 · 23 answers · asked by NeedHelp 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-18 17:20:18 · 35 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

i am still friends with one of my exes.Recently he told me he had more than one girlfriend and they were all okay with it.im wondering why would a woman stoop that low to have a man -i mean is it low-self-esteem or what? because i know it couldn't possibly be love but he said that they were all happy with the agreemant

2007-09-18 17:19:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

People hurt people when they think there better. I never thought I was better, Just a girl who want something really. So now I see no matter how far I look there will always be pain in my life. Funny now I should die like your friend says. Thank you for show me love and hate all of you. Money never my you a better person just more of an *** hole just with money. I guess I thought I knew where I wanted to be, But Every one spent so much of there time hurting me. I heard his marry, I wish you and your family the very best of happiness in your life. What go around do come around. Stay bright I told you, That you will shine It all love. You show me my place. So to all of you who read this You love the star, and I will love and miss the man I had. Thank you!

2007-09-18 17:19:03 · 3 answers · asked by Stephanie S 2 in Friends

Me and my fiance have been together 2 years. We found a house we really like and can afford $300 a month. He is in his last year of high school and works at mcdonalds but he is trying to find a different job. I am in my second year in college and I dont have a job. Im 20 and i really want one problem is financial aid will go down. Should we wait until he is out of school or get married now. We want to have a courthouse marriage and then a reception. I dont know if it is worth getting financial aid and not having a job. Please Help

2007-09-18 17:18:57 · 18 answers · asked by indygrad2006 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my partner for almost 8 years now, married for a few. Shortly after we married I met and became best friends with another man. My husband knows he's my best friend and likes him even, but he has always been jealous of him, we spend a lot of time together.

All too quickly we fell in love, this was during a stressful time in my life when he was always there for me. He is married as well. Both of us understand that our relationship is 'wrong'. We've never gotten physical (no kissing or anything) and agree that it shouldn't go further than it has, which is simply saying how we feel.

So my questions... are we cheating on our spouses? and can we stay friends?

2007-09-18 17:18:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My cousin has been living at his sister's house for 6 years rent free and will not leave. She is in the section 8 program and he isn't supposed to be the living there. He's abusive to her kids and her, he tries to control everything. He acts like he really helps her, but that isn't the case. His response to being evicted is that he'll call section 8 and rat her out. She has 2 kids and barely gets by. He acts like his crap doesn't stink and that he hasn't done anything wrong. He's 29 years old and has a low paying job (10 bucks an hour).

I'm wondering is there's a good way to kick him out and not get his sister or him in trouble. She's afraid of him and getting him in trouble. I'm very upset with him because he always says that he will move out, but it's been the same story this whole time.

Six years rent free! What an F-ing jerk!!!

2007-09-18 17:18:26 · 2 answers · asked by dahsneeze 1 in Family

ok my brother told me he thinks hes gay... and he wanted to know how you can tell... ok other then finding men attractive is there any awnser? i meen with me i just knew i was bi... so i dont have his awnser... it was simply i am for me.

2007-09-18 17:17:28 · 2 answers · asked by wicca_4_life2003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-18 17:15:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i left my children with my partner for 30 mins in that time he was so rude to them he told my eldest to hang his F***ing towell up and my youngest rudely to wash himself, he told me i can keep my f***ing kids and that my eldest annoys the **** out of him and my youngest 7 yo doesnt wash properly. what do I do wrong ?

2007-09-18 17:14:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

you are all right. I've given him the best years of my life. And yes I am staying for the children. Even though I don't love him, I do care about him. And no way would he get counseling.
Yes I've just started to save money for the first time ever.
We did seperate for 1 yr due to job move but I was still very dependent on him for everything and when he moved back I thought things would get better after being apart but I was wrong. I'm not ready to live on my own as that one year was very difficult by my self. My children are teenagers. Thank you all.

2007-09-18 17:10:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can two virgins get an STD or something from each other??

2007-09-18 17:08:54 · 15 answers · asked by Sara 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

over the years I have watched my best friends kids grow, and have always been very close with them, so close that they call me their aunt! Well the last few times I've stayed at their house I've been awoken by their mom (step-mom) yelling and cussing at them. Just today I had to take them to school because she gives them just enough time to wake up, get dressed, eat and walk out the door to catch the bus. Well they had some troubles this morning and she was going to have them walk to school because they missed the buss! The school in not close to their house 5 mins by car not to mention they are under 10 years old. So took them, well on they way they broke down and started to cry, wanting me to take them home with me to live. When i asked why they said they don't like it at home and mom is mean. I know they are not physically abused. What do I do? I told them they had to go home, but I feel horrible for it and feel I should do more? I love these kids like they are my own! HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-09-18 17:05:02 · 5 answers · asked by softball_whitney_04 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have made out with my ex for a long time. he is the worst kisser! Now he is with some nasty mole girl and i kinda want to make out with hime again. he as soft lips though. I am now with football player but he doesn't like kissing. I really want to kiss someone by tom.!

2007-09-18 17:04:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For some reason I think my husband is cheating on me, he works during the day and sometimes he has to leave to work at night, he is a truck driver locally. The other night he left at 11pm and came home at 12pm the next day just to leave again. I have no proof that he is working, its just him telling me he is. I need proof to be able to leave him, although he has been acting weird with me. We have 2 girls and been 2gether for 4 years. I dont want to leave them without a father but I dont want to live the rest of my life feeling sick to my stomach, what should I do?

2007-09-18 17:03:42 · 19 answers · asked by linda mari 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What keeps your marriage tick?

2007-09-18 17:00:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is forgivable and what is unforgivable to you?

2007-09-18 17:00:02 · 5 answers · asked by Ally 1 in Singles & Dating

i need help writting my husband a letter we have been having some problems, things from his past that i did know have been slowly comming up and i just want to let him know that i love him but i need help writting a really sweet letter to him on how much i love him i suck at this !!!

2007-09-18 16:59:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do men perfer thin model type women rather than thick women? I mean all do respect guys but just because there are overweight women doesn't mean that we don't have good hearts. Does that make sense?

Just a thought!!!

2007-09-18 16:58:19 · 14 answers · asked by conny 6 in Singles & Dating

I have made very significant changes in my life for the better over the last 4 yrs to make myself a better person and have made many good steps. But my wife has (in my perception) become less satisfied and even more demanding to a point of making my life very difficult. All I want is for our lives to be better on all levels but she has no desire to please me in anyway and has made it clear she never will. I will continue to improve myself no matter what she does because its for myself and our children but I am haveing resentments for her lack of effort in even the smallest matters. any thoughts

2007-09-18 16:56:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I can't stand so work choices limited, My car is dead so I can't get anywhere. I have had my own business and made over 6 figures playing poker, can document online. Played poker because of physical limitations. Family not able to help. I am a sharp caring person who is looking for the right situation. Please help

2007-09-18 16:54:55 · 16 answers · asked by SCARED 1 in Family

2007-09-18 16:54:02 · 7 answers · asked by donmattingly3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 20-something woman and I feel so alone in the world. I just want to cry. I don't have any real friends and I am not close to my family.

Sometimes I'll make a "friend" or find what I think is a nice man only to have them disappear without warning in a short time- I think the relationship between this friend/man is going well and the next thing I know- they've abandoned me. I go back and replay the events of our acquaintance and can't imagine what I did to make them leave me without even saying goodbye or telling me.

I feel like I'm always trying to start over in meeting new people. I'm at the point where I'm scared of trying to interact with others/make new friends because I fear they will not want to be around me after a while. As a result, I'm always on edge and lonely.I have a routine of just going to work and coming home. My life is so lonely and empty. I don't know what to do. I would like to have a few close friends and successful relationships. Someone please help.

2007-09-18 16:53:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok so I'm 20 years old and I consider myself pretty mature for my age, I live with my boyfriend and am completely independted from my parents. When I first met him, his daughter was 9 months old and now she is almost 2. Things are going great and I know she loves me and I adore her, every other weekend all we do is play together. But here is where it gets complicated a couple of months ago I had a miscarriage, which I'm sure is a blessing in deguise, but I am having a hard time recovering emotionaly. Now some weekends when we get her I just want to push her away, but other weekends I don't want to send her back home to mom and I end up depressed for the rest of the day. I don't know what to do. I don't want to ruin a good relationship over a mistake that happened. Help please!?!

2007-09-18 16:53:48 · 15 answers · asked by Two peas in a pod 2 in Family

My boyfriend/fiance and I have been together for 11 years. I'm 26 and he's 28. We really do love each other so much.... that I know! Things have been really rough for a while now but this whole summer things have been so rocky. Long story short... we have some major disagreements like saving/spending money and his use of pot. He has basically given up on the relationship and says he just doesn't have it in him to "try" and compromise anymore. We've been debating breaking up the whole summer and he's being living at home w/ me off & on. Yesterday he came home and said he wanted to work things out but his attitude hadn't changed at all. We decided to break up w/ NO contact for a month. He's taking most of his stuff in a few days. In a month we will see how we feel. If we both feel we just CAN'T live w/o each other we will get back together and get married w/ no doubts. (he has LOTS of doubts and couldn't commit to marrying me in 6 months). He also has been saying he's....

2007-09-18 16:53:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the girl says he's a great boyfriend. and he apologize a million times over...saying he isnt good with dates an he even forgot some of his family member's bdays unintentionally. shoul the girl be hurt/upset?

2007-09-18 16:52:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend and I were talking today and we were wondering what guys prefer on a girl "down there"
*All natural
*trimmed a bit
*lil landing strip
or
*shaved

2007-09-18 16:49:58 · 17 answers · asked by Whammy 3 in Singles & Dating

i havent seen any child support from my kids dad in over a years he is in the army. i want to screw him over royally and fast. how do i do it

2007-09-18 16:47:07 · 18 answers · asked by Marie 2 in Marriage & Divorce