What is it like to have sex for the first time with the right person?

Answer 1

It's different for everyone, but it can be very awkward and uncomfortable till you relax and get in the groove...also your first time you are getting to know each other in a sexual way, it takes time to get to know each other's likes and dislikes in bed. I think the first few times are not the best, but it normally gets better once you both are comfortable and know what the other wants and get your groove on in sync with each other.

Answer 2

It's like the first time you drove a $100,000 sports car that you could afford, then bought, and it functioned with no problems for 50 years.

Probably feels like winning Lotto.

For me, it just felt like God let me into Paradise. And we did the marriage thing, and I think it will hold up for 50 years, at this point. A bit busy with the grandkids, but that's OK.

Love may be innate within us, but the capability of expression and willingness to commit are learned.

My best to you, and congrats if you attain this for yourself personally. It's something most of us learn the hard way.

(But loving the right person is worth the effort. First times are not that important. It's the 1,795th time you have to worry about.)

Answer 3

You won't know if your 1st partner will be THE RIGHT PERSON until after you've had sex with at least 10-15 guys. Too early to say with your first if he is THE RIGHT PERSON. If you don't believe me, let's follow up in a FEW YEARS. Oh, and sex don't pay the bills, so don't go wanting to get married after your first one, you might regret it later.

Answer 4

Well if it's the right person then it's not having sex,,, it's making love, and if it's the first time then your going to feel right about it and not be sorry or ashamed but feel loved and wanted and not it being a mistake.

Answer 5

Uh...by "right" you mean the person you actually intended to have sex with? Sometimes in the dark, people do wind up having sex with the wrong person. When that happens, just say, "I'm very sorry, pardon me, Reverend Smith."

Actually, its a lot like having sex with the "wrong" person, only a little less exciting.

Good Luck!

Answer 6

Even if it is the right person, you are nervous because you don't know how it will be! It can be a bit awkward and may have some discomfort at first but if you take your time and concentrate on making each other feel good, it is good!

Answer 7

Well its awkward because you are completely drunk and disoriented. In fact you are so drunk that you have lost a bit of the feeling in your goodies, but from what you can tell it still feels good. If your friends would just stop peaking in the room at you and taking your picture you probably could focus on the act and really get into it.... Oh well. It will be better next time.

Answer 8

What is it like to see when you have never seen before.

This is not a question that can be answered empirically, but must be experienced and can only be answered in experiences.

Sex with the correct partner for the first time is a great deal like savoring a wonderful dessert.

Answer 9

Embarrassing, scary, painful (for the woman), uncomfortable, it can be funny if you relax, but usually you are not relaxed. First time is not all they make it to be in the movies. Big disappointment for most people, especially if they are expecting fireworks and angels singing. It is usually embarrassing, physically uncomfortable, and over very quickly.

Answer 10

Sex the first time always sucks no matter who its with.