I am a 20-something woman and I feel so alone in the world. I just want to cry. I don't have any real friends and I am not close to my family.
Sometimes I'll make a "friend" or find what I think is a nice man only to have them disappear without warning in a short time- I think the relationship between this friend/man is going well and the next thing I know- they've abandoned me. I go back and replay the events of our acquaintance and can't imagine what I did to make them leave me without even saying goodbye or telling me.
I feel like I'm always trying to start over in meeting new people. I'm at the point where I'm scared of trying to interact with others/make new friends because I fear they will not want to be around me after a while. As a result, I'm always on edge and lonely.I have a routine of just going to work and coming home. My life is so lonely and empty. I don't know what to do. I would like to have a few close friends and successful relationships. Someone please help.
2007-09-18 16:53:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Friends are easy to find if you looking in the right place. If you meet someone who you befriend & they seem to disappear on ya then they were not the friend you thought they were. You may not be the reason why they are leaving. Give yourself a chance, relax & a true friend will find you!
2007-09-18 17:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound very depressed, please see a Dr and get help....you have no idea how much better you will feel. then sign up on a online dating service.....even if nothing much comes of anything you will at least be talking to people and not so lonely.....and join some online chats or message boards with other women who share the same interest as you....after awhile doing that you may want to meet up with some of the women to get to know each other more personally.....i have a friend who did just that....now she seems to constantly have plans for get togethers with one or more somehere......she is having a great time.....you can too.....God bless and good luck
2007-09-19 00:21:07 · answer #2 · answered by bestest nana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a church to go to and make friends and get to know yourself as well...being in church can make you feel like you have family all around and people you can trust also.. im not saying thier perfect but, they can be someone there you might can reach out too.
2007-09-19 00:00:49 · answer #3 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing to do Consult a docter , You appear to me very deppresed , Second ,, Youhave lots of unresolves issues with yourself , Consult a phycologist Dont wait for people friends call it the way you want to help you they want Right away take your cell and dial for help
2007-09-19 00:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋