im meeting up with a girl tomorrow ..and
ive always been bad with talking...and id always have like no topic at all
help me out
2007-09-18 18:00:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first, you want to compliment her her dress, hairstyle, something.
by complimenting her you will score points with her. this will make her feel more comfortable with you.
second, if appropriate, take one rose for her. this will score more points for you.
third, tell her how much you appreciate her agreeing to go out with her.
you can then talk about something she likes.
try to let her do all the talking.
ask questions and let her answer.
if things become dull, tell her you are a little intimidated by her. very likely she will appreciate your honesty.
try to find out about her likes and dislikes. like for example, does the like computer games etc.
good luck.
2007-09-18 18:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-02 09:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviosly you have some kind of connection is she wants to meet with you. Go with the flow. Start with, what you two like together and go from there. Talk about adventures that you went on and let her share hers.
Women like to hear the things that you like and have in common with each other. Make sure you compliment her a few times in the night and make sure that you are listening actively with her. Repeat what she says like... so you like nature, or something like that. Women like to know your listening to them and not looking at the women around the corner.
Keep an open mind and just be yourself.
And most of all be true to you.. and you will be fine.
Blaze
2007-09-18 18:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oo Ask a Challenging Question but not to challenging.
Also include higher value.
Deminstrate higher value, talk about the time you went to help the guy 'cause it was raining and he fell and gave your umbrella to him. talk about how you gave someone money... Talk about Interenting things that happen in your life basically.
Also, Do a little palm rreading.
Role play, Ex.- "U know what im thinking of doing?... im thinking that You and i will go to paris and go to the beach. i'll dress you up in one of those togas, white blankets, and you'll sell hotdogs while i'll supervise"
stupid things like that.
You have to talk or do things 90% of the time or else the day will be boring,lame, dead w/e..
2007-09-18 18:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of work do you do or classes do you take? Do you have any pets? What is your favorite band? Sport? Food? Movie? Place to go eat? What religion are you? Where is your favorite place to vacation? Do you prefer urban or country living? What do you plan to do with your future? Do you enjoy being around children? What do your parents do for a living? Do you have any siblings? Do you have any hobbies? Just ask plenty of questions about her, and tell her about yourself and your likes and dislikes.
2007-09-18 18:12:34 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous, you both have hobbies! You like music,or movies, upcoming concerts, what sports you may both enjoy.
Ask her where she grew up.And let her talk ,you listen.Just come in with questions about WHAT she was telling you about.
What would you like to be in ten years? What are her favorite foods? If she won a million dollars what would she do with it?
Try not to bring up ex's, that's a turn off?
I'm sure you'll be fine?
Relax and have fun!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-18 18:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by need2know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best topic is always the other person. Ask her a few questions (what she likes to do in her spare time, what kind of music she likes, etc.) and get her talking about herself, be a good listener, and she'll think you're a great conversationalist.
2007-09-18 18:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
read a magazine watch the news listen to the radio this will give you some current events to talk about
2007-09-18 18:09:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her opinion on stuff like movies and music maybe you'll find some common ground
2007-09-18 18:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by maria92588 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go with your instinct.
Don't think too hard.
Don't put yourself on the spot.
Talk about her.
Get her to talk about herself.
2007-09-18 18:03:01 · answer #10 · answered by Parker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋