My feels that God is here for her and only her. To punish everyone else when they make mistkaes but to never punish her. To give HER all the good things in life, and **** up everyone elses.i have observed her behavior for my whole life, and i am not making this **** up. i would have to be real creative to be able to do that. on top of that my dad is 20 years older than her, and she explained to me that she married him for his money and i should do the same when im older. also, she took out his entire lifes savings and spend it in one year. my dad is a good man, idk how he ended falling for someone like her. On top of that she is parynoid. She tells me i am not aloud to have friends because they just want to take away my intelligence, ect. my aunt tells me she has always been like this so i learn to deal with it. oh and get this, when my sister graduated with 2 years of college before she is even 18, my mom tells her " why didnt you do as good as your friend(who got validictorian).
2007-09-18 14:47:31 · 3 answers · asked by Lola 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think if we share our experiences we will be able to deal with them better and see it differently. please share something.
2007-09-18 14:49:14 · update #1
Your mother is a very sick person ,, I mean mentaly sick Theres nothing you can do to help her But from now on you have to protect yourself You have aolder sister why you dont move with her and if you cannot move with sister move with arelative Are you sure your not staying home just to protect your father , If so your not helping him either He has to stand up for himself Love your father and stay in contact with him but first to do take care of youself I hope you will be strong enough to get out of this place that you call home
2007-09-18 16:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by lala 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you were.
If you are old enough, SAVE YOUR MIND. Move out and live on your own.
If you are not old enough, see if you can find another relative to live with.
Your life with her sounds pitiful. I know she is your mother but she sounds like the kind of lady who will end up with a house full of 118 cats.
2007-09-18 21:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
YEP, ME, MY MOM WAS A INSECURE, SHIFY, CONTRDICTIVE, TWO FACED, FAT, MONEY HUNGRY,COLD HEARTED, RACIST, I CANT SAY THE REST, ILL GET FLAGGED..AGAIN
2007-09-18 21:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋