nope, he's just trying to get you to go out with him without coming on too strong and scaring you off. Eventually he'll ask you out straight out in person.
2007-09-18 15:28:16
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answered by Anonymous
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I take it you two are coworkers and interact on a daily basis? It's hard to say what his "intentions" are without knowing his personality, but if you two are together all the time at work and are interacting in person, then it seems odd he will only mention getting together via e-mail.
It's possible he's super shy and is waiting for you to make the first move, or that he's a player and likes seeing your reaction to the possibility of "going out" without actually making a date. Or, it's possible he's just trying to be friendly.
If he's a shy person, then if I were you, I would take the initiative ahead and make plans to go out after work. Not a "date," but just a chance to hang out and get to know one another better.
If he's not shy, then if I were you, I would wait for him to ask you out in person before going crazy over what his potential meaning in his e-mails could be. How immature (or lazy) is he if he'll suggest a drink in e-mail, but won't say "hey, how about drinks after work today?" while passing by you at your desk? You shouldn't have to decipher an e-mail message to find out if he likes you or "likes likes" you. If he's interested (and worth dating), he should let you know.
2007-09-18 15:37:49
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answered by genostar1983 1
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He doesn't want to call it dating in case, after a couple of dates, he decides he isn't romanticallly interested. This is his way of keeping it more casual until he decides he wants it to be more serious. It's dating without calling it dating. Don't ask me why. Men feel better when the meeting up or going out for a bite doesn't have the date label on it.
2007-09-18 15:30:46
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answered by friendlyadvice 7
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This guy doesn't sound shy. It seems like he is suggesting some frienship activity. I'm surprised he doesn't follow up after making those suggestions. Work relationships can be difficult. Some guys are good at defining those things but other guys aren't. Play the game. Just ask him outright what he means. It's called testing him. If he's a man he'll come through.
2007-09-18 15:36:16
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answered by JesusIsTheAnswer 4
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What he means with his emails as going out is that he is asking you out to eat dinner with him. He is probably shy to ask you in person, so he prefers the emailing way. He likes you and wants to get to know you more than just work, and even if you are at work and communicate only at work then that is a chance that he hasn't said it to you in person. He probably doesn't want to come out fast may be he is scared you might reject him, but give it a try and see if it works out between you and him. Good luck and have fun.
2007-09-18 15:31:05
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answered by Stephanie A. 4
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When I was growing up, going out meant exactly that - instead of getting together at someone's house for snacks, watching TV, swimming, water skiing, etc. it meant getting in a car and going someplace where other people did the work of serving food and entertaining - Denny's, McDonalds, snacks at park. It is less formal than a date and more formal than hanging out.
2007-09-18 15:36:58
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answered by Mike1942f 7
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He's try to date you my dear. But he doesn't dare to use the word date, in order to ask you out, he's using like "meeting up,going for a drink or bite. In this way, even if you reject him, he won't feel awakard.
Well, that's another way of asking you out. Check with him whether does he like you or not.
If he likes you, you may consider to go for real dates with him
Hope this ease up your though
2007-09-18 15:36:57
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answered by john y 2
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Sounds like an actual date to me.. that the line right now.. do you want to go out with me... so its a date
2007-09-18 15:31:46
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answered by Theresa 3
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It sounds like he is a bit shy and it is easier to write his intentions then to say them in person.
You are going to have to be a bit more assertive if you want a romance to take place.
He is using guarded words to protect himself, read between the lines and ask him out to dinner!
2007-09-18 15:34:16
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answered by kitty 6
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He is after for a date with you! Give in, but don't just let him make advances and step or go beyond the line!
2007-09-18 15:30:35
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answered by dalton 4
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