again feeling random tonight....and a bit curious. why did you break it off?
2007-09-18 14:59:08 · 22 answers · asked by horizon 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Married to young and didn't know what i was getting myself into . I thought it would be fun like playing house when i was a little girl.
2007-09-18 15:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After we were married for 2-3 years, its like he became a 14 year old again. It was nothing for him to blow entire paychecks on video games, baseball cards, and other 'toys'. When bill time came around, he'd say, "Don't worry about it. I'll take care of it." Those were always his famous last words. When I finally broke it off, our daughter was 3, we'd had our power turned off on more than one occasion, nearly had our car repossessed. We fought constantly because I felt like I was raising 2 children, paying all the bills, and working a job that only paid $9.00 an hour. He was completely oblivious as to why this even upset me. At one point I even suggested seeing a counselor. He didn't want anything to do with it, so I finally decided enough was enough. Our daughter didn't need to grow up in an environment like that, so after a lot of very serious thought, I did what I felt was in the best interest of her and me both.
2007-09-18 22:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by mattz_grrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't divorced yet, but I want to. 20 years of a happy marraige, and he goes to Vegas on a business trip and cheats on me. Not only does he cheat, but leaves me and my 2 young children for her. One month later, he realizes what he did and comes back. I know what I have to do, I'm just having a hard time doing it.
2007-09-18 22:09:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My former husband couldn't keep a job and was never home--and surprise, surprise, come to find out he was cheating. My son met someone on the Internet--he said he and his wife seldom had sex, that she was unaffectionate, selfish, lazy, did not even contribute minimally to the well-being of the family.
2007-09-18 22:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by Darby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she was sleeping with anyone who would buy her a vodka. Not my idea of a marriage. She wanted to be a "party girl" not a mom with kids and a husband. Had a good thing but had to let it go.
2007-09-18 22:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by egghead 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone I used to know was divorced by her husband becase after a car accident she was kind of psychotic. She was different, and lied a lot, made things up. He couldn't live with it.
2007-09-18 22:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anniekd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he decided to have children at the same time I was pregnant. Only he didn't tell me until my best friend asked me to be god mother to her twins, and him to be the god father, and when we were standing there he told me that the boys were his, oh crap I said and our daughter was born 2 days later, and when I got out of the hospital, I didn't go home I went to another state.
2007-09-18 22:08:15 · answer #7 · answered by flannelpajamas1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheated on me with the babysitter. which turned out to be the best thing for me.its been four years now and I'm happily in love with a wonderful man.and yes he stayed with the babysitter.there getting married next year!!!!
2007-09-18 22:33:56 · answer #8 · answered by lelo_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 3+ years of bad times we couldnt work out our differences! Because I love her I had to let her go.
2007-09-18 22:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by DRIVER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was a paranoid schitzo and ended up in prison. I couldnt live with what he did, (and still cant). Bipolar and schitzo's really dont go together well, tho we never fought or anything like that. Now he is dead, committed suicide in prison.
2007-09-18 22:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋