Hi, I'm Lizzie, I'm 16 years old, and I have never had my first kiss, I always dress moderate, no too short of skirts, and what not. I do care about my appearance as most girls do though. I wear your average hoodies and jeans and flip flops.
But I always get touched by boys. Or, say i'm bending over to get my notebook that fell, a guy will say, "get back on your knees." Or they drop markers so I can bend down and they can look down my shirt, which I refuse to do. Or they tickle me or touch my arm, and what have I done to deserve this? I tell them to stop, but why me? I'm not easy! Don't pick on me! Why am I the victim? I hate this you guys! Please help me.
2007-09-18 13:02:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well dont take that as your getting picked on, thats like a complement, like they think your hot. So to deal with it i guess just be upfront with them and tell them not to a make a threat or somethin. Anything to get them to stop.
2007-09-18 13:11:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kyle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've had that happen at work tons of times specially when i was in my teens....I worked as a life guard and the co works thought they could hit on me and such. One day I just ignored a comment made by one of the guys and he never bothered to annoy me again. Oh and since this is happening during school you can get the guys suspended if you'd like although it would possibly cause them to despise you and bother you even more. Don't put up with it and like someone said above you must be a nice looking girl so catch yourself a boyfriend and he'll surely take care of the guys for ya.
2007-09-18 20:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by robbodabbo2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being sexual harrassed isn't anything to deal with and you shouldn't be treated like this. I don't know why you are singled out, but I know you can do something to stop it. Tell them to stop and that you won't take this from them. Tell them to back off and if they decide not to, then do something about it. Give them a beating like never before and if you get in trouble for it, tell the administrators that they started it by harrassing you. This is a serious matter and if you feel comfortable, take it to your parents or your teacher or a really good friend. You don't need this and youdeserve better.
2007-09-18 20:13:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel, jerks does that to me sometimes because I look like a girl. (I am not gay). I think the reason they does that to you is because you seems like a shy girl so they take advantage of that. One time I was in the locker room after gym, and man was I scared these sickos trap me and touches me and saying sexual things. Those homos. I told the dean on them. I understand it's hard to tell someone in my case it's even harder because I am a guy and usually guys handle these on their own. But I just couldnt take it annymore so I told on them. I say you should do the same.
2007-09-18 20:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They arnt harrasing you, Im a boy older then you but i reemember when i used to do that. There was a girl in my school she was pretty and i couldent stand it and all the time i teased her like that hoping she would like me. She dident understand and finaly i got the nerve up to talk to her. It ended well beacuse she finaly understood what it was about. The thing is instead of having a fit laugh and tease them more trust me you'll get your first kiss or my name isent Sam Aries Satin Hitler Fox - ok i added 2 middle names can you guess which ones though?
2007-09-18 20:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys pick on you because your a soft, easy target and you react good. It's fun for a guy to pick on you and get your reaction. You also don't tell on them or say or do anything back.
You could always-
1.Ignore them
2.Say something back-'pick up your own marker..I'm not your mom'
3.Slap them when they touch you
4.Avoid these guys all together
5.Get a guy to tell them off. Even if you have no BF you should be able to find a guy pal(or even a brother) to say something to the guys.
2007-09-18 20:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lizzie, you are worth more than all that crap---'cause you're not crap! You are an amazing creation that God hand-made! Some people would say "take it as a compliment that they like you" but don't! next time some perv does that to you, kick him in the balls! that'll shut him up for a while! and remember that it's never your fault, no matter how you dress!
2007-09-18 20:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by lovly1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys are just annoying, and its not just you. Everyone is sexually harrassed one time or another, or a lot! Just tell them to back off, or even if you need to, tell a teacher or your parents. There are always people that can help you AND its illegal! They can't do that to you if you dont allow it.
best of luck
2007-09-18 20:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by toriii<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the principal, your parents, teachers, ect. If that doesn't stop, knock hte EFF out of them. They need to stop and sometimes you have to defend yourself.
Just make sure you tell them to stop(don't ask) and if they don't, proceed with a good groin kicking.
It's not your fault either, so don't let anybody try to make you feel that way.
2007-09-18 20:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone drops their marker or something, kick them in the junk and yell "Now Get on your knees and pick it up *****! How does it feel now!?". Violence is always to answer.
2007-09-18 20:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by Marsz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋