I'm pretty young (not that young) but i'm not the most popular of guys (Senior in h-school) and i really cared for many girls and they never felt the same way. I'm different then most guys in the fact that i want a good relationship and not automatic sex. But i haven't had a g/f which makes me feel pretty pathetic, and it might be hard but should i give up on love to avoid the pain?
Please I am looking for serious productive answers, thank you very appreciated =).
2007-09-18 10:46:09 · 14 answers · asked by Jesus IS REAL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No st.ruger im not gay or a vegetarian i am just mature enough to not be an asshole and demand sex from every girl i think is attractive, maybe you need to grow up and not make those kind of remarks.
2007-09-18 10:53:32 · update #1
No dont give up. Giving up doesnt do you any good at all.and it will not take the pain away. it will make it worse. maybe you are juss lookin at the wrong gurls. so many times people focus on someone they really want and dont take the time to look around at all the other pplz who may like them. you cant narrow your range down to juss certain gurls. get outtof ur comfort zone and look farther. the last guy i was with was from another county. nad we had ot meet in the middle when we saw eachother. so broaden ur range.
2007-09-18 10:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by Cole.Baby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ther is someone out there that truly will fall in love with you, but how would you know unless you approach a girl with open mind.. when you go out on the first date, get it out in the open that you are looking for a solid relationship (by not sounding so cheesy) if the date goes well, see if the 2nd 3rd or 4th one gets you somewhere..
If she doesn't think same as you do, then like they say; there is plenty more fish in the sea..
2007-09-18 10:54:44 · answer #2 · answered by MrsGill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're way too young to be giving up on love, especially when it sounds like you haven't truly experienced it before. What you've had have been CRUSHES....which I admit, when you're young, they feel heart wrenching and they feel like love...but it isn't. Believe me, when you feel the real thing, you'll be glad you didn't give up. :)
Girls can be pretty immature in highschool. Give it time. Believe me, you will change sooooo much between now and when you graduate college. So, don't sweat it if the girls in highschool don't give you a second glance. They'll grow up, you will too and everything will work out.
2007-09-18 10:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by bestadvicechick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, love is a beautiful thing. It's the best feeling in the world when you find it. Finding love is like being an archaeologist; the love is there, you just need to find it. However, don't give up on love if you can't find it now. If you do, you'll end up regretting it when you're single and in you 60's. If you can't find it right now, let it come to you. You should also try to search for the girl of your dreams, man.
Wish you the best!
John P.
2007-09-18 10:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by John P. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no never give up. i had a friend that was exactly the same problem. he didnt give up and he just waited patiently and he got a girlfriend. be yourself no matter what even if it doesnt seem to help at the time, in the long run it will. dont focus your whole life on getting a girlfriend, just live your life focusing on the more important things like your last year of school and your family and friends. there will come a time when you will find someone who feels for you as well, just dont focus on love but dont forget it either! i really wish you luck and ill pray for you!
2007-09-18 10:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are still young, and love will come and hit you right between the eyes, when you least expect it. Go out have fun, go to college, get a job, and experience some of the wonders of the world. When you come back down to earth you will probably find the angel you have been looking for, when you least expect it.
2007-09-18 10:56:53 · answer #6 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is so worth it!! hard to say when your in pain-
You sound more mature than most of the girls at your school, just wait....when your a few years older gilrs will be dying to find a guy like you.
p.s.not having a girlfreind /boyfriend does not make you pathetic.
2007-09-18 10:54:35 · answer #7 · answered by shelly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to develop yourself as a person before you go looking for love.
When you're a younger man, which you are, there are far more important things to concern you, When you're ready love will find you. So don't be down or despondent, get on with living and enjoy yourself, the rest will fall into place.
2007-09-18 10:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't give up on love. I mean there are other people then the people in high school. When you go to college, will it matter about all of the bad relationships you've had? Nope, just try to meet new people and you will find your soul mate somehow.=D
2007-09-18 10:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ive wondered the same thing sometimes, but god has someone made for everybody and if u give up on love then youll never find that special person, youre time will come for having girlfriends...u just gootaa be patient..i think that no matter how much love hurts, and believe me, ive gotten hurttt, it wouldnt be worth it to give up...because while it lasts, theres nothin better thatn love, and youll find that really special girl somday, it just takes time, good luck :)
2007-09-18 10:52:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋