I met my girlfriend on eharmony.com, and I've been with her for 3 months now. I don't see anything wrong with it, but she's embarassed to tell people and has been telling her friends and family that one of her friends introduced us. Should I go along with that or should I tell people the truth?
Is meeting people online that way weird? Or a sign of desperation? I don't think so...I found that I met nicer people there than I ever did in years of going to bars and clubs and the like.
Oh, btw, I am 25 and she is 26.
2007-09-18 10:53:21 · 7 answers · asked by menorans23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There still is a stigma attached to online dating. She is embarrassed. I see no reason why you can't help her out by telling a small white lie to make her feel better.
2007-09-18 11:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by albiesmom06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one has flashing red lights all over it. Get out.
Don't go to bars & clubs to find a spouse. Go to someplace wholesome, someplace nice people meet. You're only going to find party animals otherwise, and when the party's over, the animal left over may not be the same person you thought she was.
Go to a church or synagogue, a baseball game, an amusement park. Go to an art gallery or shopping on the strand or a new bistro or coffeeshop.
TX Mom
2007-09-18 11:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 out of 8 couples married in the US last year, met online.
2007-09-18 11:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by TNguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that it is a sign of despiration. did u ask her why she was saying that? that is up to you and your gf if you should go along with it. ask her and see what she has to say about it!
2007-09-18 11:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should go along with it, maybe she is just scared what people will say about her.
2007-09-18 11:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably just afraid people will judge her and you because of it.
2007-09-18 11:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Pea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...she is embrassed to be ur gf...not introducing eharmony as the origin..lolz...
2007-09-18 11:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋