i just want to know like when you're going out with someone or something.......i really need to know!!!!
2007-09-18 10:13:29 · 21 answers · asked by ??? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a hug
kiss
french kiss
and so on..........
2007-09-18 10:24:18 · update #1
please don't give me a a lecture if i wanted one i would ask my parents
2007-09-18 10:25:54 · update #2
Not too far. You're still young, and you're just discovering this whole "dating and relationships" thing. There's plenty of time to try it all, and you don't want to do anything you'll later regret.
2007-09-18 10:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by highball116 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to say this because no matter what we all say you will do what ever it is your thinking about doing....
I will talk to you like an adult because if you do this you will become an adult...
You are too young to be doing anything more than Kissing and hugging. Now if your trying to ask if you should take it to the next level DONT!!! but like I said above no matter what we all say you will do what you want.... So I have this to say.
1 Talk to your parents..... PLEASE!!!
2 Before you do anything you need to see a doctor and tell him what you have in mind if it is sex see if he can give you info on this since your so young I'm sure you really don't know anything about it. Also have him give you birth control.
3 If your are going to have sex with some one you need to get Condoms and USE THEM. Even if your on birth control.
All I can ask is please think long and hard about this. Don't be pressured into anything. If your not ready then don't do it. You are so young and have so much time....
2007-09-18 17:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by x_crayola_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they should go no where at age 14. A kiss on the cheek on the front porch with your parents home is pushing it. You should not be posting questions like this here. going places with boys will only get you into trouble. There are deadly diseases out there and early pregnancy. Is it worth dying over or getting pregnant? I think not. So stay in school and stay away from boys until you are old enough to understand what you just asked.
2007-09-18 17:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go to far..No more than a kiss. Im only 15 but Im wise enough to know im not old enough to start doing things with guys that involve me taking my clothes off. Dont grow up too fast, youv got your whole life ahead of you.
I know girls who are 12 and have dont more than me! thats just not right.
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2007-09-18 17:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by Cellar Door. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me start by saying a 14 year old has no business even having sexual thoughts. 14 is way too young to even know what to do in terms of protection, diseases etc. If a boy says he loves you and is in to you... but wants sex. DUMP him! He isn't worth it. at 14 maybe just light kissing. No touching of your personal parts.
2007-09-18 17:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by TTC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait.... there is no set amount of things you need to accomplish by 15. Believe it or not but the things you do now may have an effect on you for the rest of your life, so please take it slow. and certainly don't do anything you are uncomfortable with even if " everyone else" does it.
2007-09-18 17:22:36 · answer #6 · answered by shelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dnt quite understan dwhat u mean but yeah u can kiss the person if thats what you're talking about but no further than that. THE THREE letter word shouldn't even be floating n the air lol
but really thats about it
2007-09-18 17:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by Ms_PiNky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm 15 and when everyone i knew was fourteen they had made out at the movies... but thats it.
no actually, that was lying.
some of my "friends" have gone all the way and they have told me they have really regretted it. so...
don't have sex until you're married.
make a committment right now.
you will be glad in the future.
2007-09-18 17:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the movies and hang out thats it... Nothing more then that... 14 you're too young to be worrying about how far you should go....
2007-09-18 17:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by Rain L 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything ask yourself "would my parents allow this to happen?" If you cannot talk to your Mom about this it probably is going too far.
2007-09-18 17:30:46 · answer #10 · answered by kakoo35 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋