yesterday a guy wrote me a note and told me i was hot. im not that confident of a person so i was really excited. now, today he told one of my friends that he likes another friend. im really confused. help!
2007-09-18 10:01:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is not worth your time. He is a "player" who cannot stick with one girl for very long. Your best bet is to forget about him and find someone who will truly care for you. REAL guys will call you beautiful, not hot.
XOXO,
Laurie
2007-09-18 10:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he finds you attractive, doesn't mean he doesn't dig other people too. Nothing to be confused about...he may find you "hot" but like your friend in some other way. Why not get to know him better and find out what's up?
2007-09-18 10:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't mean that you aren't hot. Everyone is different, and while we can all appreciate beauty, there are certain things each of us looks for in a mate. So, while you are beautiful, you may not be mate material for this guy.
2007-09-18 10:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by meowqueen1953 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. There are two options: You can go find another boy (be confident) or if you feel this boy is worth fighting for then go for his attention.
Just remember, boys will be boys and they constantly change their minds.
2007-09-18 10:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by Oops, did I say that? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The note might have been meant for her.
Hot means he wants in your pants.
Beautiful means he likes you.
2007-09-18 10:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Revenge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he told one of your friends the he likes her friend, did he mean you? or if the note accidentally went to you instead?
2007-09-18 10:07:48 · answer #6 · answered by Carborane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i agree with miss revenge.
but you can work on your confidence! look in the mirror and make a list of evrything you like about yourself...EVERYTHING.
eye color, that little freckle on your cheek...you are the only one who can make yourself feel confident.
guys will come & go!
2007-09-18 10:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is either a player or a jerk or he made a mistake by giving u the note.
2007-09-18 10:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can think someone is hot, but not be into them.
2007-09-18 10:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is super because he don't know who is suitable for him he was flirting.don't pay attention for him
2007-09-18 10:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by E_M_A_J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋