This is my promblem. I been going out with this girl for nearly 9 months and I love her so much. During my summer hoildays I acted stupidly and treated her bad and on of last nights of the hoildays I realised it and it was on the phone call and I appoligsed so much and she forgived me *part me was a bit shocked and it showed me she truly loves me * and I vowed to my self not to treat her and upset her in that way. In the past couple of days I done little things to annoy her and I'm getting so scared *a tiny bit parronid * that I am going to annoy her so much and she going to leave me and I never want to happened because I want spend rest of my live loving her but I am so scared I am going to lose the person that I never want to lose. What shall I do?
2007-09-18 10:03:07 · 3 answers · asked by alex h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you are just afraid of being alone, true love would not be afraid of losing her all the time.
Before either of you can decide about the rest of your lives, you both have to know each other, not just the side you are wanting to show. You can't be something you are not for the rest of your life.
Relax, be yourself, if it is not meant to be, move on.
Good Luck!
2007-09-18 10:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every body has little fights, you there a no person exactly like other so just learn to talk things over, that's what you'll learn in life you need to talk everything, and tell her to tell you when she doesn't feel right about your acts so you can start to see what you do and shouldn't do, remember that are also things that never are going to change, love is based mostly around accepting the other one's mistakes and defects rather than make it a paradise of butterflys, the line is where you just can't accept it then you know your not meant to be.
Go easy, if she really loves you, you both should learn from each other and like every single detail of each other, even the bad ones.
2007-09-18 17:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jarb2104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out why you're doing things to annoy her....are you afraid of commitment to her? Of course, you're too young to really commit to anyone, but anyway...it may something unconscious. Think before you do or say anything. Be mindful of what you're doing.
2007-09-18 17:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋