i want to talk to her :((
2007-09-18 07:41:34 · 33 answers · asked by campingqueen63 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
all right already!!!!!
i don't especially like these answers :(( , but i am way glad that i asked :))
i will take all's advice & leave her alone, boo-hooooooooo
thanks everyone!!
2007-09-18 07:55:41 · update #1
no it isn't. if my family/anyone would have called me on mine i would have flipped out. i understand you miss her. but leave her be. this is her special time.
2007-09-18 07:46:53 · answer #1 · answered by gorgeous 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not appropriate to call your daughter and new son-in-law while they are on their honeymoon....
Do you want to be known as the needy and meddling MIL before your daughter returns from her honeymoon?
Your daughter is a married adult, if she wants to talk to you I am sure that she will call you at her convenience.
The only time a phone call would be appropriate would be if a close family member was seriously ill or injured.
I know it is difficult to realize our "babies" are adults now, but she really is. Congratulations to your daughter, I wish her and her husband the best.
Have a good day, be thankful that your daughter has a wonderful man in her life and move on with your life.
Cheers.
2007-09-18 08:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is it an emergency? And the fact that you miss her and "need" to talk to her isn't an emergency. Unless someone is dying, DO NOT call her. Untie those apron strings and let go and let her have fun with her husband without worrying about you worrying.
2007-09-18 09:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Natty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a bride to be. Even now my mom wants me to check in with her. I understand your concern for your daughter. This is a beautiful experience for her. Please just let her enjoy her new husband. I wouldn't want to be disturbed during my honeymoon. Maybe a quick phone call once we made it to our destination. That's it! We need time to adjust to being married. Yes you are her mother. Now, its about her and her husband. The man she made a covenant promise too.
Congrats!!! MIL.
2007-09-18 09:42:02 · answer #4 · answered by classystyle03 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends....Did her house burn down? Did her father or some other relative whose equally close fall into a coma or die suddenly? Was there a natual disaster that has rendered her homeless?
If you can't answer yes to any of the above questions, then yes, it's completely and utterly inappropriate to call her.
2007-09-18 07:48:27 · answer #5 · answered by sylvia 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No. At the very most, send her a text message. This is a once in a lifetime event for her and her spouse, and she'll fill you in on all the details after she gets home.
Sorry, but it's just not kosher.
2007-09-18 07:49:53 · answer #6 · answered by Liliya829 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course! I just got back from my honeymoon and called my mother and sisters a couple of times. I wouldnt call her constantly but a quick hello won't hurt.
2007-09-18 07:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by must<3dogs 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ABSOLUTELY DO NOT CALL YOUR DAUGHTER!!!
It's quite inappropriate to disturb the couple on their honeymoon.
You'll just have to wait until they return to talk to her.
And how about using this time apart to both appreciate your daughter, her wonderful husband - and the opportunity to open this wonderful new chapter in your own life - that of cherished adviser who stays in the background. Not that you're not important - but HE needs to take center stage now.. Remember, she made vows to HIM.
BUT this gives YOU the opportunity to build a life of your own! Isn't that wonderful!
And please - no "grandchild" talk.
2007-09-18 08:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a hobby...? Unless someone has died or you're caring for her children ... you should not call your daughter on her honeymoon ...Would you want someone to call you on your honeymoon
2007-09-18 07:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by meka33311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My MIL called us 5 times on our honeymoon...I wish she posted this question before she called. I would say don't call and most likely she'll call you during the week.
2007-09-18 07:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by Lyla 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's appropriate to call her only if her father is on his deathbed.
Jeez--leave her alone with her new husband. And don't be monopolizing her time when she gets back, either. They need some time to settle into marriage without Mom being there, or on the phone, all the time.
2007-09-18 07:46:53 · answer #11 · answered by Trivial One 7 · 12⤊ 0⤋