Basically my now ex-boyfriend and I started dating last summer. We got along so well and there was nothing we couldnt talk about. Then we moved in together and things got bad. He kicked me out at 7 in the morning and I was completely crushed. I spent months crying and missing him. Then on what would have been our one year anniversary, he texted me saying that he had messed up and wanted me back. So we got back together two months ago today. However, this time I took complete care of him, paying for his cell phone, gas, food, and clothes. Instead of being greatful, however, he would just get angry with me over it. So last week he got mad at me for paying his phone bill and didnt speak to me for 3 days. Then on the fourth day he sent he a text saying that he was sorry and our relationship was different. He didnt even tell me that we were breaking up, instead he told my friend. Basically, I love him and want to know whether I should wait around again or give up on the love of my life...
2007-09-18 02:30:16 · 9 answers · asked by LolaBunny87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Didn't you just answer your own question !!!!!!!!!
If you wanna get treated like **** stay, if you want happiness and love, find new fish !!!!!!!!!!
It that simple, doesn't sound like kids involved. WHY WOULD YOU HONESTLY STICK AROUND? ARE YOU THAT BAD A PERSON YOU COULDN"T FIND BETTER !!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-18 02:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by littlemonstersx2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not the love of your life. In a few months or a year, you will have a new one. That is how it goes these days with people who sleep around. You do not reallllllly get to know someone (less than a year?) and then move in.
I am not being mean...just frank. Our heads (emotional abilities) have not caught up with new cultural practices where people THINK they can fall in love in a few weeks and have sex, and then are shocked as they get to know the other 75% of the person.
You should not have tried to take over his life (that is how he saw it) without talking about it, by the way. Move on and take it slow and do not think there there is just one person out there for you.
2007-09-18 02:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I am assuming this wasn't planned. I am sure he was fine while having sex with you and everything was great. He isn't ready for a baby now and he may never be. Just make sure you get child support when the baby is born., Sorry to hear about it, but at 18, it would really take a man to be a dad. He doesn't want to give up his life I guess. Its sad, but reality.
2016-05-17 12:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to know your age--and believe me, I've had 3 'supposed' loves of my life, and they proved false. If he kicked you out at 7am, I would have called it quits then. He obviously takes you for granted. PLUS you don't pay his bills, girl!! If he is upset with you because you were just trying to help him out, and now he's told someone that he was breaking up with you...you deserve better. YOU kick him to the curb, girl. Don't give him the satisfaction. It will hurt, but you will love again, I promise.
2007-09-18 02:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Rachel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want to be with someone that would do this?
You were taking a care of him!?! He wants a girlfriend not another mother. It sounds to me that you were smothering him.
I would not have anything to do with him. You need to take sometime to yourself for awhile. You need to see that you do not deserve to be treated like this. He is not a man. He seems very immature.
2007-09-18 02:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Tadpoler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes what one says to a friend isnt true,wait for him to tell you how he feels,ok. good luck!
2007-09-18 02:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up noney, you are nobodys dog, you got to put your foot down let him know you are better than that ... owwww i think men take advatage when you let them, you deserve better!!
2007-09-18 03:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is nothing but trash. Throw him out!
2007-09-18 02:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt wait around, he's using you, let him go,
2007-09-18 02:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by Mom of 2 w/ PCOS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋