so i work at a job with this girl. one day she asks for a cigarette & i give her 1. end of that. a few days later i ask her for a cig & she gives me a whole pack. which wuz really funny considerin how much they cost nowadays. well now when i see her, i feel like im obligated to talk to her cuz she gave me a whole pack. so we hav little chit chats here & there, nothin too big. one day she asks me to leave w/ her on our lunch break to her house. we get there & she's mad cuz her parents & her daughter is there. end of that. well after chit chattin more at work we exchange numbers & she points out that our numbers are similar. u kno how people find things out like that when u like each other. at this point im still not that interested. so one nite she has a get together, we all get drunk, they leave & we hav sex. with no condom. thats that. well now i think im interested in her. but she has too many male friends and it seems like she's lost interest. what could be the problem?
2007-09-18 06:01:28 · 37 answers · asked by dontwantplex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe her lack of interest in you has something to do with your low opinion of her.
2007-09-18 06:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to ask if you are the hoe. Now you are the one that has admitted to the world that you have had sex with a girl that you not only dont no very well but your not even interested in her that much. Im just saying. Well these are the time in days that some people just want someone that they can have a onenightstand with. You shouldnt put that much into it anyhow. Yes may she do have alot of male friends didnt you no that befor.Besides women often do have more male friends than other women. It keeps the confusion down! Now on the other hand like i said befor she might have just wanted to ***k and that was it. When she had no other intents but to do that. So just see how things pan out and if you want to go futher with her then by all means talk to her about it. If not be happy you just go a free, didnt have to ware a condom ***k. Oh yea next time please think with the head on top of your body an not the one in the middle part and use a condom. Because it only takes one time to get any STD's and HIV. Goodluck!!!!
2007-09-18 06:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean whore, maybe. but a "hoe" is usually used in a garden to cut weeds and grass. Also there is no way to figure how many people you were exposed to by having unprotected sex with her. Now everyone you come in contact will have the same worries you have. Do you like Russian roulette?
2007-09-18 06:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem seems to be with you....You had all the red flags yet ignored them. Anything that is gained so easily cannot be expected to last long term. It's a vicious cycle that repeats itself over and over again.
Easy come. Easy Go.
Any questions.
Try for something more challenging. With great risks comes great rewards.
2007-09-18 06:10:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a lot of Men friends, but i am not screwing all of them.
They have wives and children and I love them all.
When alcohol is involved people tend to do things they would not normally do.
I would go to my Doctor and tell him/her how irresponsible I was for having unprotected sex and have some test run.
And I would tread lightly on a relationship with this woman.
She may be a great person or as you put it she may be a hoe.
2007-09-18 06:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by Dionannan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well just because she has male friends does not make her a hoe. You also slept with her so, you could be classed as a hoe as well.
Tell her you're interested, ask her out for dinner, have a few dates, then you will know if you're interested in her and if she is interested in you!!!
Good Luck! I hope it all works out!!
2007-09-18 06:10:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be that you and she are not compatible with each other. The sex is just a bonus when it comes to inter-office relations. Better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all.
Next time you might want to have a condom handy.
2007-09-18 06:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by killbasabill 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's the hoe? Could you be the hoe after having sex with her even though you weren't interested in her? No condom? Well, when she is pregnant and you have a sexual disease end of that (as you say)
2007-09-18 06:08:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have lots of male friends and I'm not sleeping with any of them. Just because she has a lot of male friends doesn't make her a hoe. Her sleeping with you without a condom makes her a hoe. Maybe you weren't good in bed and that's why she doesn't want to sleep with you anymore.
2007-09-18 06:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is she is a hoe and she a girl who needs something to be doing at all times so no it's not you it's here cigarette does'nt mean anything you can walk down the street an someone asks for one yes she's a hoe.
2007-09-18 06:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by Stacy J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U just found a girl that like many men is promsicuas.
Stupid for u to have sex with no condom (u want to be a father,..it just takes 1 TIME, u know!!!).
2007-09-18 06:06:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋