I don't know if a am a lesbian, but I have feelings for one of my friends.
I have known this girl for 3 jears and we have growen close. I don't have eny brothers or sisters so can this be the problem. I have not jet kissde her but ther have been a feew close calls. We get along gr8, but is this just a sister relationship??????????
HELP!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-18 03:32:29 · 12 answers · asked by Jakwalien 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The one thing you don't want to do is try to start something sexual when she may be opposed to it. Try talking to her in private and steer the conversation toward sex. After a while ask her feelings on girl-girl relationships, see how she reacts and go from there.
2007-09-18 03:43:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me by the way u brought up the whole brother sister thing that thats what u need..
but hey who knows maybe you do dig this girl as more than a sister but w/e just do whatever u think is right and forget about what everyone thinks or says you only live once and its a short life unfortunatly so Enjoy it!
2007-09-18 03:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a sister thing but could also be more.
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How do u feel about guys? Do u find them attractive? Would u kiss a guy?
It could be u r bisexual and like both sexes, or it could be that you find your gf attractive and want her. If u r only attracted to her or other females then u r lesbian.
Go figure it out.
2007-09-18 06:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young, let it be. If it happens then enjoy it. If it doesn't then ole well. Either way I am sure you two will be the best of friends forever. Women are beautiful creatures from god. Of course all women like other women. Nope doesn't make you a lesbian, unless you don't like guys? I say relax and let things roll. Hugs : )
2007-09-18 03:38:33 · answer #4 · answered by Selvaggio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm you don't usually have these feelings about a sister but it may just be you're going through a period of doubt.
Just see what happens. Do you have feelings like this about other girls? There is nothing wrong with how you're feeling but tread carefully incase it is just being close.
2007-09-18 03:36:29 · answer #5 · answered by shiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have feelings 4 her then u"re a lesbian.if u"re actually lookin 4 a lesbian friend then it has 2 be wit sum 1 who is also one.pls if she is not, do not ask her out.dont make her hate u. i"ve been there be4 so i no the rules of d game.contact me if u really want one
2007-09-18 03:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by esther s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't have to be expressed sexually. Love isn't sex. Sex can be an expression of love. Just because you care for someone of the same sex doesn't mean you're a homosexual. Why is it so glamorous for this generation to lay claims to bisexuality?
2007-09-18 03:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try spell check! It works! It could be you are Bi-Sexual or if you are only attracted to girls, then you are a Lesbian.....only you can determine the true answer!
2007-09-18 03:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by maur911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be if you've never had feelings for guys or you could be bisexual if you have and still could be.. instead of wrecking yourself up worrying you need to deal with these feelings. it's vitally important you USE PROTECTION if your going to be experimenting. if you have counselors at your school see them just to have someone safe to talk to. BE SAFE and peace!
2007-09-18 03:37:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow. Could be you are just missing what would be a sister- sister relationship. u could be lonely for sisterly friendship.
2007-09-18 03:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by Dragonflygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋